Family & Relationships - 16 October 2006

Do you think it would be romantic if for the first time I kiss my boyfriend its outside when its either raining or snowing?

2006-10-16 11:51:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well my bastard ex lives 2 1/2 hours from me...i used to drive up there to see him almost every weekend for a year....blah blah blah...broke it off with him since it wasnt working out and now he wont leave me alone. he harasses me all the time....calls my house, my cell (changed it 3 times) , parents cell, work, friends, harasses my friends online (messenger and myspace) so ive changed all the numbers and stuff....but for some reason he still threatens to "blackmail" me with my photographs and me doing stuff im not supposed to do so im thinking of getting a restraining ourder on him....but he told me before i stopped talkin to him that me calling the cops on him and getting one on him would ruin his life....he'll get fired but yet he still bugs me....and not sure if i do get one that he will stop bothering me...or maybe make my life even worse

2006-10-16 11:50:59 · 4 answers · asked by kate 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I prefer a woman with curves than to skinny ones (no hard feelings).
To me personality is of a major importance but a woman with curves will drive me crazy!
Who shares the same opinion?

2006-10-16 11:49:33 · 23 answers · asked by Helios 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am married and me and my husband have talked about it and he has kinda okayed for me to sleep with other men as long as they know who the "man" is. so yeah i get excited for my husband but latley i have been getting excited over other men. is that okay? should i tell him?

2006-10-16 11:49:26 · 30 answers · asked by mrsmonkey829 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have this one "friend" who blabs about everything I tell her to this one girl, who tells everyone. And I can't ever trust her. Should I stay friends with her? Or drop her?

2006-10-16 11:48:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am in the beginning stages of planning my wedding. It's going to be about a medium to large size wedding. Do you think I should hire a wedding planner or would I be able to handle it on my own? Keep in mind that I am not working and have a lot of time to plan this. Any help would be grateful.

2006-10-16 11:48:39 · 27 answers · asked by chvygrl 3 in Weddings

2006-10-16 11:48:03 · 6 answers · asked by Rockvillerich 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Now all i wanna do is eat..... Any ideas?

2006-10-16 11:47:45 · 11 answers · asked by ohio_gurl042 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

ive been dreaming that i have this nasty taste of sumthing in my mouth......and i cant get the taste out....does that mean anything? and be serious about this question....please and thank you:)

2006-10-16 11:47:22 · 3 answers · asked by Where Words Fail, Music Speaks! 4 in Family

I dont mean the criminal records.. but how many other men or women they had etc is what i m talkin about.. do u really think its important for you to know the truth..?Would you be honest about you to him or her in return?

2006-10-16 11:47:06 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

..."upstairs and downstairs" more sexy or too feminine when being intimate? Does the physical apperance or presentation play into the "fire" of the moment?

2006-10-16 11:46:18 · 7 answers · asked by Hawaiian Bruddah 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating a very sweet man for about 3 months now (maybe a bit more i'm no good with dates). Usually when one of us is upset about something in our lives we will bring it to the others attention, because that's one thing you get in a relationship for. But about a month ago he got laid off from his job (mass lay offs) and he knows that he's been a little bit of a strain on my pocket book because of it. IE sometimes if we go out i pay for both of us, i drive almost all of the time now and gas is obviously no cheap ect..

Well i had some surprise bills show up and because of them i am completely broke, on the verge of negative. and it upsets me a lot but i dont know if i should talk to him about it, because first theres nothing he can do to help, and because i know he'll feel like its greatly his fault for causing me to spend a bit more, though he never asks for what i spend on him.
He knows that my moneys been tight lately but not to this extent... what to do?

2006-10-16 11:45:40 · 7 answers · asked by attila 6 in Singles & Dating

i met this guy last sunday at this store he works @. ive spotted him b4. so when i was there this past sunday with my mom, he came over & formally introduced himself! my mom actually told one of the ladies who works tehre that i liked him, and she happens to be his good friend. I thikn she may have told him to go over and talk to me, considering I kno he saw me too. long story short, i left him a note with my number cuz we seemed to hit things off, i also said i'd be back next week with some friends. I kno it was only yesterday but he hasnt called yet! problem: im 17, hes 22! however, his close friend who I talked to said hes a really sweet guy who wouldnt try anything. and i can tell shes not lying. he is going back to him home country, Spain in about 6 months or so.

2006-10-16 11:44:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know there's no RIGHT answer to this; I'm simply looking for opinions: When you reconnect online with someone that you have known since grade school (but weren't even friends with), and they say, "I always had this crush on you when we were growing up," is that a way of admitting that they still like you?

2006-10-16 11:44:33 · 11 answers · asked by FlirtyGirl 2 in Friends

It's hard to get all the facts straight on here, but essentially my husband has been having phone sex for about a year. I found out by finding the prepaid phone he used. I read text messages from 1 girl, which were very painful to read. She said she loved him and he said it back. He said though that he had to say it because that's one of ways she got off. I also made him tell me which was his favorite and it was her. But he said that it was because she the most accessible and always available. They met in a chat room. I read a text from her where she knew he was married. I blew up and called the little ***** that night and told her off. To make things even better she graduated recently with a degree in psychology. That makes me lose confidence in people. I slammed the phone against the wall and broke it. He said he got caught in something he couldn't get out of. I just don't know if believe him. I believe he loves me and I love him and we have 3 kids. What do I do? Please help.

2006-10-16 11:43:34 · 20 answers · asked by Christine F 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just wondered

2006-10-16 11:42:43 · 9 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family

I came out of a long term relationship back in May, it ended badly and I got into in a rebound casual relationship with another girl. Three weeks ago I started getting chatted up at work, I'm a barman, by a gorgeous girl who is funny, intelligent, and everything I look for. We got talking and she was saying how much of a shame it was that I wasn't single, and I was thinking the same thing. I'm not a player, so I spoke to the rebound girl about everything, honesty is the best policy, and we ended it, turned out she wasn't after a relationship anyway. So I've spent time with this new lady, we have so much in common, from films to ice-cream to ambitions and beliefs. Nothing physical has happened other than a kiss, but she's said she really likes me. Then today she's told me that actually she isn't sure what she wants cos she isn't ready to get committed just yet, cos of work, etc. So confusing, thought it would be simple.... Should I back off and play it cool? Should I chase her? Help!

2006-10-16 11:41:30 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

twice i drempt that i was flying and arrows were being shot at me....what does that mean?

2006-10-16 11:40:16 · 10 answers · asked by Where Words Fail, Music Speaks! 4 in Family

My boyfriend,we just started going out a little while ago and we don't know each other to well but he's like punkish and all..he just said this :::: "you obviously dont condone it but self-harm in some forms is 'alright' with you right?" ..what exactly does he mean by that?? i mean i know he used to cut himself and all but he told me he's over that its his past....What does he mean? I don't understand it?
im talking to him on msn and he just said "a needle(like...for obtaining blood samples)but only the bottom and the needle part." whats that mean?? What is he talking about? I dont get it?

2006-10-16 11:40:12 · 14 answers · asked by Kelsey's Mommy<3 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I love my boyfriend even though, he have cheated on me. I refuse to cheat on him. He is locked up. my friends tell me to cheat and what he don't know won't hurt. I've put time into the relationship. I've been their for his mom, grandmother, and sister when they were going through diffcult times. They all used me then had nothing else to do with me for no reason. my boyfriend is also young he is 21 yrs old. he is very attractive. I know when he comes home girls will throw themselves at him because his mother has money. She has set him up a car lot for when he get out. She controls him with money. I've been their with him during his time of lock up. Does that account for something, do guys respect the woman who held them down at their lowest point. How can i prove that i'm the one. I work so i don't want his money, i don't cheat, and i'm very honest with him. How can I get his unconditional love, like i've showed and gave him?

2006-10-16 11:39:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-16 11:39:40 · 12 answers · asked by GalaxyGirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

his name is ryan hess and the last place i saw was in 6th grade in Louisiana.

2006-10-16 11:39:38 · 4 answers · asked by santagia 1 in Friends

2006-10-16 11:39:38 · 18 answers · asked by Black Sayuri 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

wat should i do , i mean i love him and also care bout our relationship ,but my patience is killing me .and other dudes is tryna holla at me

2006-10-16 11:39:13 · 7 answers · asked by latasha s 1 in Singles & Dating

One thing I'm so depressing....
Have you ever had those moments where sometimes you know you'll never be able to see or have chances of doing stuff or seeing?
It happens to me all the time. Family members dying.... =(
Pets running away..things so close to me disappearing right in front of my eyes....
Nowadays my friends say I'm so depressing to be around...

I just..I want it to stop..this feeling..
And this morning my grandparents left to go back to their state and I didn't get a good chance to say farewell.. We took pictures and ate breakfast and such but that was all. I'm so not used to farewells or goodbyes...*sigh.* Perhaps I'm a bit..weak minded? )=
I know I see them at least every 1 to 1 and a half years..but I wish I could find my 'lost' things or faded dreams once more....
And just be happy..

How can I just be happy for at least just this once?

2006-10-16 11:39:12 · 9 answers · asked by Alan 4 in Family

2006-10-16 11:38:23 · 17 answers · asked by GalaxyGirl 2 in Singles & Dating

whats this mean, please help?
ok about a month ago, i spilled my guts to one of my friends, told her that i like her alot, and all this stuff, shes only 13. well she wrote me back and said she hasnt ever seen us as more thanfriends, and that she dont like me like that but she dont want it to ruin our 8 year frendship.. well..over the past month, I've been avoiding her, simply for my sake, just simply not to bring those feelings back up, cuz when I'm around her they all come back. but she emailed me yesterday, and said she was sad, becauze it was straining our friendship. and she wants things like they used to be, well i told her why i had been avoinding her, and she said she totatlly understood why. well, I know she dont like me like that now, but am I crazy to think there mite be sumthin in the future, cuz she was obvioulsy ( she said) she was really sad, seeing us like this, and since shes only 13, am i crazy to think there mite be sumthin in the next year or two? she also said, " dont take the rejection to heart

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that the reason was probably stupid anyway, whats that mean?

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and for those who say, I am punsihing her, I am not in any way. We have had very friendly discussions, and she understands why, things have been this way. And I have reassured her, promised her, that I will make things the way the used to. Do u really think I want to lose the friendship as well? I mean, that hurts.

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I mean, its not like I'm ugly, I'm very atractive, and so is she. I mean I'm fit, I play varsity baseball, and am only a sophmore, It's not like I'm a geek or anything. And the same with her, she is very good lookin, has guys hitting on her all the time, and is on the national swim team, I just dont know what to do, cuz i swear to god i love her more than anything in this world

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i mean i just cant get over her, I have never in my life, liked anyone, or felt so strongly for somone. Believe me, this isnt a crush, I have had many, but htis is more

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but, since me and her are friends again, we were talking about this girl who likes me, but i dont like her... and the girl i like, said i should just tell her i wanna stay friends, just incase i ever change my mind....?? which is the exact same thing she told me.. what it mean??

2006-10-16 11:37:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

k there is this guy that I sit next to in class and we talk. It is mostly sarcasmn though. Sometimes i help him with his work during class too. I dont know if it is just how he is or if he acually like likes me. He is pretty funny and i think he knows he can make me laugh. so do you think he like likes me guyz?

2006-10-16 11:37:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend,we just started going out a little while ago and we don't know each other to well but he's like punkish and all..he just said this ::::::: "you obviously dont condone it but self-harm in some forms is 'alright' with you right?" ..............what exactly does he mean by that?? i mean i know he used to cut himself and all but he told me he's over that its his past....What does he mean? I don't understand it?
im talking to him on msn and he just said "a needle(like...for obtaining blood samples)but only the bottom and the needle part." whats that mean?? What is he talking about? I dont get it?

2006-10-16 11:36:46 · 12 answers · asked by Kelsey's Mommy<3 4 in Singles & Dating

Im only 24, im successful, educated, attractive...moving to one of the greatest cities in the world...yet i feel so depressed...i dont even feel like taking care of myself and i attract the sorriest men ever...how can i remedy this? How can i feel happy again and full of hope? I was married 4 years and he left me to go back to his country and then i was raped and in a series of bad relationships where they either left and stopped talking to me or were too clingy...sorry for all the personal details but im really upset.

2006-10-16 11:36:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce