i met this guy last sunday at this store he works @. ive spotted him b4. so when i was there this past sunday with my mom, he came over & formally introduced himself! my mom actually told one of the ladies who works tehre that i liked him, and she happens to be his good friend. I thikn she may have told him to go over and talk to me, considering I kno he saw me too. long story short, i left him a note with my number cuz we seemed to hit things off, i also said i'd be back next week with some friends. I kno it was only yesterday but he hasnt called yet! problem: im 17, hes 22! however, his close friend who I talked to said hes a really sweet guy who wouldnt try anything. and i can tell shes not lying. he is going back to him home country, Spain in about 6 months or so.
2006-10-16 11:44:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not to mention the fact that there ware two other guys checkin me out who works there and when the guy i like came over and talked to me i could tell the others got jealous!
2006-10-16 11:46:46 · update #1
If he's going back home he may not want to start anything with you OR he's playing hard to get OR he thinks you're too young OR he's already involved with someone and doesn't want you to know.
Are you sure you want to get involved with someone who is leaving soon? Can you accept that it can all end if you do begin anything? I had a thing with a woman i met from Germany we had maybe a month together. I don't regret it but sometimes i do wish maybe we had a little more. I've also had flings with ladies from other countries and when they go back home you can find yourself wondering but you can accept the fact you knew it was temporal so be careful not to fall too far and remember i have seen guys come to the US then get a girl pregnant and then disappear.
Just because someone says he is a good person does not make it so. They said that about me when i was in my early 20's and i was anything but that.
Be careful.
2006-10-16 11:58:59 · answer #1 · answered by sprydle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what i can tell you is one you are not 18 so he might not want to risk going out because it happen one night turns out to be wild and he might really care about you just to chill a little so he dont jump into something and about him movin back to spain well they do have phone cards unless he waits till you turn 18 then you can be with him so hey i wish you luck i know how it feels to love and want to be with someone you love and care for but something is in the way it sucks and you could be pulling out you hair but dont do it just be stronger if it was ment to be then it will work out by it self peace
2006-10-16 11:51:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your to Young stop seeing him before somebody that hates you tells and that guy can go to jail so leave him alone hes leaving anyway.
2006-10-16 11:49:51 · answer #3 · answered by Christian c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for him to call and then date him casually.
2006-10-16 11:48:14 · answer #4 · answered by Arjun C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋