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I dont mean the criminal records.. but how many other men or women they had etc is what i m talkin about.. do u really think its important for you to know the truth..?Would you be honest about you to him or her in return?

2006-10-16 11:47:06 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

36 answers

Numbers are not important to me (since I'm kinda high mileage myself), but honesty is. Truth is all I would expect.

2006-10-16 11:51:58 · answer #1 · answered by Rockvillerich 5 · 0 0

I don't think how many partner's in the past my partner has had is really not so important to me and I'm not too concerned about it.
He's had loads of girlfriends, while I've only had a two men in my whole life before my current partner, and we have both been married once. Obviously we have mentioned this to each other and its not so relevant to our relationship, as its the present that matters.
Also, you have to bear in mind that some people do have to go through a number of relationships before they get to meet... 'The One' .
I believe people should be honest about the number of previous relationship's they have had, if their asked by a new partner.

2006-10-16 12:18:23 · answer #2 · answered by snogger18 1 · 1 0

I am an honest person and could not lie or hide my past
what i am - i am!!!
Also I would ask about my partners past but would not be alarmed about it whatever the result or disclosures

The important thing is if you are straight with each other you have the basis for the perfect relationship
I am totally happy
bin married for 37 years and do not regret a minute of it

2006-10-16 11:52:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

i dont have a partner right now...but i dont remember ever asking my ex how many girlfriends he'd had before me ...i am always honest...i think it should only come up at all if it someone has an issue with something like health...your past is your past,everyone has one and when you meet someone new you should both meet head on at equal terms with a clean slate...whats the point in anything if you start off with ridiculous judgements and expectations of each other...;0)

2006-10-16 12:15:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

i think people should be honest about EVERYTHING.

I like to know the past to an extent simply because i dont take sex lightly and if they've had a lot of partners theres a greater chance that they do. though my boyfriend now has had quite a few, he's just changed his views on sex a few years back.
you shouldnt be ashamed of how many people you've been with, so be honest

2006-10-16 11:49:55 · answer #5 · answered by attila 6 · 0 0

Great question

If it is Mr or Mrs Right then I don't think it matters from the point of view that neither of you had met each other and therefore your behaviours were totally independent of each other. For my own part it would not matter if my partner had been on the game before she met me because what matters is THE NOW.

2006-10-16 11:52:17 · answer #6 · answered by Drummer 2 · 0 0

My husband's past is a really big deal to me because when we got married I was a virgin. There are times when he get's headaches, or is just to tired to make love, or even doesn't stay erect after 5 times. And I feel like I'm not sexy enough for him, and I start to think about the women in his past and if they were just as good as me in bed, or in his life in general. I dont think my past has ever gotten to him but I know I think about his everyday! (I guess its somthing we all have to change) ..

2006-10-16 11:59:37 · answer #7 · answered by ~* Pink Princess *~ 3 · 0 0

i think the past should stay the past, if you needed to know something very important then yes they would tell you with out worrying, but we should all learn form our past relationships to make for better new ones, but don't let it rule you, but open to people, making a big deal of it will only show us up as it might be something we're not over yet, if so we need to face this and find out why, this will lead you a better understanding of new relationships with people.

2006-10-16 11:51:53 · answer #8 · answered by Kickback 4 · 0 0

i am always honest when my partner asks me about my past but personally i really dont wanna know there's i mean i figure leave the past in the past and as long as i trust them that is all that matters i dont wanna grudge up old memories for them that can cause them pain or hurt because i know that is what it can do to me if i get to in depth with my past

2006-10-16 11:55:20 · answer #9 · answered by psycholilblondegirl 4 · 0 0

I asked my husband about his past and he doesn't like to talk about it. I just ask out of sheer curiousity. He knows about my past, but never judged me about it. Not that I was bad or anything, I just had a rough life. I guess some things are just better off left unsaid.

2006-10-16 11:50:57 · answer #10 · answered by hazeleyedbeauty1967 6 · 0 0

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