Family & Relationships - 16 October 2006

how much truth is there in the saying "SIZE DOES MATTER" refering to penis size.

2006-10-16 12:05:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-16 12:05:09 · 3 answers · asked by ann K 1 in Friends

You lead a women on to make her think it's going some where when it's really not, and instead of being the man you claim you are how come you guys are never man enough to tell a women that. You say you don't want to hurt her feelings by telling her, but being distant, and unavailable emotionally is just as bad. You say I don't want to be with her in that way, but I will have sex with her. You say I don't want anything serious but you keep her phone number just incase someone else does not come through for the night.

How are men able to do this, and #1 not feel any regret behind it, and #2 say the last thing you want to do is hurt her feelings, but everything you do ends up hurting her feeling because you have no emotional connection to her.

Last when a girl is fortunate enough to do it back to you, why do you get so upset? We are just doing what guys always do.

2006-10-16 12:05:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay so i wrote this fake love letter to this guy and like i had one of my friends hide it in his backpack and like im scared that his parents may find it or somthing and then show the school what should i do????? i dont want to get in trouble i was doing it with no bad intentions ahhhhh help me! ek

2006-10-16 12:04:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

If you like someone for themselves, but the looks also eventually play a factor in the equation, are you shallow?

2006-10-16 12:04:57 · 10 answers · asked by Answerer 7 in Singles & Dating

i am trying to make a decision on what to do with this terrible mess i am in i will exp a little i am separated due to the prblms im going to share with you my babys daddy has came back into my life after 2 years my baby is 3 he wants to be a part of her life and mine we are involved from time to time and i still do have feelings for him but he wants me to move in with him i am married to someone else who is good to my daughter and he has raised her over the past 2 years but at this time due to the situation i have moved out and live alone with her i must make a decision based on what is best for her and maybe not for me i feel that my husband will love her as his own but i feel i must give this other man a chance and i kinda want to but still sooo unsure of what is best they are 2 diff ment in nature one is controling the other not (my husband) one i have had problems with in the past and the other not the prblem is my daughter loves them both and i think i do too so what am i to do

2006-10-16 12:04:51 · 5 answers · asked by UNSURE 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im crazy about my boyfriend we have fun together, but me as a person im pretty crazy i love to do random things, do things without worrying about people judging me and just having fun all the time basi cally being a kid. I know he likes me alot and says i make his life fun adventurous, full of exitment and happy but when i do these things sometime he says dont ever do that again and its not even things that are big there things like when i stare off in the distance, or i make a funny face, or i do a wierd dance its almost like he's embarrased by me or might think that i might do something thats wierd in public or around his friends ... ever happened to anybody before help would be greatly appreciated. thnx

2006-10-16 12:04:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is 25th a big anniversary? I was thinking of throwing my parents a surprise party? I have no idea what to do. It’s a whole year away, but never too early to start planning right? I was thinking about renting a ballroom at a local hotel? Having deserts? I'm newly married and don't have a whole lot of money. Anyone have any good ideas, or suggestions?

2006-10-16 12:02:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

and when we get to nitty gritty they are crap

2006-10-16 12:01:46 · 32 answers · asked by lady_luck 3 in Singles & Dating

ok i was at a race this saturday and i had about 10 guys grab my butt or spank it. and they were all hott! they gave me their numbers and i told them to not to call me and now they are calling me! i told them not to call and txt but they do anyway. i told them i had a fieance too. What am i suppost to do!?

2006-10-16 12:01:36 · 20 answers · asked by Lilnickygurl 1 in Singles & Dating

Well turns out the girl I like is really shy so ****. Hell maybe she's just really uncomfortable when I'm around because she doesn't know me. Anyways. I have 5th lunch and she has 4th. I'm thinkin of goin ahead and skippin class 4th and approaching her with her friend and try to hang out with them. I suppose I'd start the convo out like this.

Me: Hey Crystal! Sup
Her: Hey not much
Me: Well I don't feel like goin to class, and I don't know many people 4th period.Is it cool if I hang out with you guys?
Her: Hopefully a positive response.

I've only talked to her 3 times. I hope she doesn't think I'm tryin to stalk her or something. Man any help is appreciated. What should I do here? We have no classes together. But I just found out she has the same passion for music that I do. She plays guitar. And I play drums and guitar. Please help me here!

Do girls like it when guys have confidence like this and make an attempt to go ahead and have lunch with you and your friends?

2006-10-16 12:01:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

whats this mean, please help?
ok about a month ago, i spilled my guts to one of my friends, told her that i like her alot, and all this stuff, shes only 13. well she wrote me back and said she hasnt ever seen us as more thanfriends, and that she dont like me like that but she dont want it to ruin our 8 year frendship.. well..over the past month, I've been avoiding her, simply for my sake, just simply not to bring those feelings back up, cuz when I'm around her they all come back. but she emailed me yesterday, and said she was sad, becauze it was straining our friendship. and she wants things like they used to be, well i told her why i had been avoinding her, and she said she totatlly understood why. well, I know she dont like me like that now, but am I crazy to think there mite be sumthin in the future, cuz she was obvioulsy ( she said) she was really sad, seeing us like this, and since shes only 13, am i crazy to think there mite be sumthin in the next year or two? she also said, " dont take the rejection to heart

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13 minutes ago
that the reason was probably stupid anyway, whats that mean?

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3 days ago
and for those who say, I am punsihing her, I am not in any way. We have had very friendly discussions, and she understands why, things have been this way. And I have reassured her, promised her, that I will make things the way the used to. Do u really think I want to lose the friendship as well? I mean, that hurts.

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I mean, its not like I'm ugly, I'm very atractive, and so is she. I mean I'm fit, I play varsity baseball, and am only a sophmore, It's not like I'm a geek or anything. And the same with her, she is very good lookin, has guys hitting on her all the time, and is on the national swim team, I just dont know what to do, cuz i swear to god i love her more than anything in this world

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3 days ago
i mean i just cant get over her, I have never in my life, liked anyone, or felt so strongly for somone. Believe me, this isnt a crush, I have had many, but htis is more

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but, since me and her are friends again, we were talking about this girl who likes me, but i dont like her... and the girl i like, said i should just tell her i wanna stay friends, just incase i ever change my mind....?? which is the exact same thing she told me.. what it mean??

2006-10-16 12:01:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-16 12:00:24 · 11 answers · asked by Tyson 1 in Friends

I have a big red birthmark on my stomach, and I am in High School so I have to change my cloths, I guess my question is, is the a way i can not get noticed, Thanks!!

2006-10-16 12:00:16 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

social security claims my daughter is not entitled to any benifits due to the fact that he did not work enough years. could this be true?

2006-10-16 11:59:55 · 3 answers · asked by susienunez1969 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-16 11:59:48 · 6 answers · asked by badass-mofu 5 in Singles & Dating

I would really like to know

2006-10-16 11:59:39 · 2 answers · asked by santagia 1 in Friends

I believe there are multiple reasons (in no particular order) why there are less "traditional" marriages in households than there have been:

1.) Homosexuals living together that are not in a traditional marriage - domestic partners. They cannot get married (except for Massachusetts).

2.) It is getting more expensive to live. People that graduate high school and college have less money (when adjusted for inflation) than in the past. They need to take on roommates and are quicker to rush into living with their "significant other" prior to marriage.

3.) Sexual/societal changes with regards to sex. People are more willing to try a sexual partner and make sure that they are compatible before marriage.

4.) People will live together for a time before getting married in order to make sure that they are socially compatible with regards to family values (taking out trash, throwing clothes on the couch, dishes, laundry, finances). It has its pluses and minuses.

5.) Women are now getting closer to men in economic equity (although I believe this will never be achieved in my lifetime). I believe it is up to $0.80 per every dollar that a man makes in the same position on average. This has allowed owmen to more freely live "independent" from men and have more choices about their own lives. This also follows in the previous point that people can try out a partner and still be able to be on their own in case it doesn't work out. Women are basically becoming more impowered (before I get backlash, I like the fact that there is more gender equality for money. I like my girlfriend when she buys the movie tickets and I buy the dinner. I make more money so I spend more on what I can - I'm an engineer, she's a teacher; just a fact of life I will make more).

6.) Teen pregnancy is down across the country (thank god), but pregnancy by individuals between 20-30 who are not married has not declined. This has caused people to move in together so that they can support a child. The other option is abortion (I won't go there) or adoption.

Lastly, the sentiment of "why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free," is losing its credibility because I have noticed multiple women who are on the prowl for a partner just like a "traditional" man. I think we are in a more sexual environment (for better or worse). People want friends and loved ones to be close so they live together. With the country getting more crowded, people are getting more roommates and living with people they like (or love).

Thank you.

2006-10-16 11:59:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-16 11:58:34 · 2 answers · asked by gary t 1 in Singles & Dating

The boy that i really like thinks that i am annoying and he likes my best freind. But he always flirts with me in Spanish so i never know what to think. What do I do to make him like me? Or to be less annoying?

2006-10-16 11:57:42 · 7 answers · asked by loser m 1 in Singles & Dating

I am searching for a nice, inexpensive reception site for my wedding that allows outside catering, in the Atlanta area.

2006-10-16 11:57:19 · 3 answers · asked by NAT 1 in Weddings

Should my friend and I just cut the cord?Cause we don't see eachother in school that much.Also we barely e-mail eachother.*sigh*I'm afraid to say that I don't really care about her anymore.-____-But there's nothin' I could do to change that!It's too late now I guess,we don't see eachother cause since we're in jr.high we have different classes.She's in 8th and I'm in 7th.Should I just cut the cord and get on w/ my life?T___T:(

2006-10-16 11:57:02 · 5 answers · asked by Marstar824 1 in Friends

I want to find someone who live there

2006-10-16 11:56:55 · 1 answers · asked by santagia 1 in Friends

I am caucasion, and my boyfriend is african american. We have been dating for 1 year now, and everything is good. I am his first white girlfriend, but I have always dated black men. I have started to notice certain things about him. I found a box of pornos in his closet, but they were all of black women. Also, he makes comments about my 'flat white booty' and that white girls don't have sexy bodies like black girls. When we go out, everytime a black girl walks by, he stares and makes comments under his breath. If we have an argument, he always says stupid stuff like ' if i leave you, i'll go get a sista'. Why is he interested in the exact opposite of what I am? I really care for him, but deep down I feel insecure. Why does he do this?

2006-10-16 11:56:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im over wieght does that make me ugly?& im 15

2006-10-16 11:56:17 · 27 answers · asked by princess 2 in Singles & Dating

So throughout life you learn a lot of things about yourself. Some things help you find yourself, other make it more diffucult to do just that. I'm at a point in my life where I'm very confused about who I really am. I believe that I try to be who others need me to be. And unfortunately I'm alright with doing that if it'll make everyone happy in the end. But that is only going to get me so far. Eventually I am going to have to know who I am before I can truly let anyone else know me. You know that saying 'You have to love yourself before you can let others love you'? Well I've always been like, I do love who I am, so I'm fully capable of letting others in and loving them back. However, how can you love someone you dont even know. I don't know myself. There are so many things about myself that I have yet to figure out. But now, more than ever, is the perfect time for me to "find myself". So can anyone help me figure out how to do this?!?

2006-10-16 11:56:12 · 11 answers · asked by Ms. Understood 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have many issued with my bf that lead us to disrespect each other and not trust each other anymore. I have trouble letting him go.. when i know it might be the best thing to do..but i cant give up i guess i do like him. What should i do? he seems to put his friends 1st now..and he tends to wana have many female friends now? should i try to make things work or give up?

2006-10-16 11:54:48 · 15 answers · asked by CALI GIRL 3 in Friends

it got scratched, and mostly because i called a male friend to come and help me about the scratch and NOT my boyfriend.I told my boyfriend over the phone and he was very MAD,even though he's not aggressive i don't know what he might react.What do u think ? How might he react in person ? he was very upset over the phone, and very loud,i told him to lower his voice tone a little but he was not screamimg.I didn't want to listen to him, since he scold me, i asked him Are you finished ?then i said ok bye.He told me I'm not finished ,let me finish, was this bad or ok ?

2006-10-16 11:54:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just wanted to say i'm really flattered that you care so much about me
and am really happy about it too
you're a really nice, caring guy
and i really appreciate your honesty and kindness


what do you think ?
good or bad ?
she has a BF (not me), but i still love her
does it seem like she has a small crush on me or jus she likes me as a friend ?

2006-10-16 11:54:03 · 11 answers · asked by Nick723 3 in Singles & Dating

Sometimes when he talks he is kind of ruff and I don't like that I don't feel comfortable I tried talking to him but it hasn't worked he said Ï'm going to work with it don't worry"Yeah right that hasn't worked at least not yet.

2006-10-16 11:52:53 · 6 answers · asked by girlpower0121 1 in Singles & Dating