You lead a women on to make her think it's going some where when it's really not, and instead of being the man you claim you are how come you guys are never man enough to tell a women that. You say you don't want to hurt her feelings by telling her, but being distant, and unavailable emotionally is just as bad. You say I don't want to be with her in that way, but I will have sex with her. You say I don't want anything serious but you keep her phone number just incase someone else does not come through for the night.
How are men able to do this, and #1 not feel any regret behind it, and #2 say the last thing you want to do is hurt her feelings, but everything you do ends up hurting her feeling because you have no emotional connection to her.
Last when a girl is fortunate enough to do it back to you, why do you get so upset? We are just doing what guys always do.
2006-10-16 12:05:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Instead of saying we can't handle the truth how about "DON'T LEAD US ON", and we can handle the truth if the truth is told to us up front, but you guys wait until we get involved emotionally before you decide to tell us the truth.
2006-10-16 12:08:41 · update #1
What do you mean it 'never works'? Apparently it does or you wouldn't be posting about it.
Guys are generally less emotional than women...and many of them don't realize (or care maybe) that women don't think like they do...therefore they don't think a lot about behavior that wouldn't bother them, bothering a woman...
Why do women allow themselves to be led on? There are almost always red flags in these situations, and yet we plunge forward wanting it to all be okay, and then get hurt when we discover he didn't mislead us at all...we simply HOPED he'd feel for us like we did for him, but he didn't...he just wanted to have sex...
Women are often their own worst enemy...guys aren't as deceitful as they are made out to be much of the time...it's simply too embarassing for women to admit the guy was just 'being a guy' and not being misleading, but we saw and heard what we wanted to and when the end result wasn't what we'd hoped for, we choose to get upset and feel hurt and betrayed...
Not to say there aren't unkewl guys out there...but they aren't nearly the majority that some women seem to think...
2006-10-16 12:11:50 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why dose it always have to be the the guys fault?! If the woman knows whats going on and still participates, isn't she just as guilty as the man? It a game of cat and mouse. If you don't like the way the game is going step up and change the rules. Be a leader not a follower, then see what happens for you!
2006-10-16 19:21:55 · answer #2 · answered by docslim694u 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
But my dear, isn't this exactly what women do especially those good looking ones. Well, I suppose it goes both ways too. For you to know this at least now you realized that guys, too, are vunerable and can be easily led on and/or hurt as well.
2006-10-16 19:09:33 · answer #3 · answered by FILO 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because he's not as honest as you thought he was, and he's in it for just that one thing. It's not worth trying to get revenge though, it's better for you if you just leave him behind. But don't hurt other guys because of what that guy did.
2006-10-16 19:12:20 · answer #4 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
But girls could also save themselves heartache by not jumping in the sack before they actually know the guy, really know him and all his little flaws. That way they don't feel shocked.
2006-10-16 19:10:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Honey not all are like that but you have to be two steps ahead of them and as soon as you have an indicator that they are going that route dump them.
2006-10-16 19:08:08 · answer #6 · answered by postal_marg 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because women CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH!
2006-10-16 19:06:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Its' called life.Guys do it to girls,girls do it to guys and no matter how good you are at the game it will ALWAYS come back on you.
2006-10-16 19:06:52 · answer #8 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you go girl! Do you feel better now that you have that out in the open?
2006-10-16 19:10:58 · answer #9 · answered by cee cee 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Amen sister...
2006-10-16 19:07:08 · answer #10 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋