Family & Relationships - 16 October 2006

What does it mean when a married woman say to her husband in bed (I want you because I love you?) What reason is that to make love to her husband?

2006-10-16 12:36:03 · 19 answers · asked by solid_s3curity 1 in Marriage & Divorce

OK so, I'm the one that broke up with my ex, and recently noticed she has all these dudes calling her sweety and cutie and all that stuff. 2 weeks ago, I did not to be near her, and could care less if she went on dates with other guys,,, but for some reason today I checked Myspace and find myself jealous... Why am I feeling this way? Can anyone relate?

2006-10-16 12:36:03 · 28 answers · asked by Duuuude no waaaay! 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 47 yrs old.My b/f is 46 he's never been married or had children. I have 3 girls ages 15-26.Not now and again.but like an obsession...he looks at girls as young as my daughters.We have split up several times over this.He just isn't attracted to people his own age.I know he loves me but this causes big problems.I'm not a jealous school girl and have been round the block enough times to know this is not normal. We went on holiday recently and I spent a whole week watching him scanning the girls. It sickens me to the pit of my stomach. Please would especially the guys on here give me their views.I want female view points too and anyone going through the same to let me know how it is for you. I am pushing 50 yrs old and want to start feeling good about my age

2006-10-16 12:35:59 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i tried to get attention from this boy. today i spotted my friend walking near him so i ran over and said hi really loud so he could turn around.that seemed to work but i noticed he was staring at me in a WEIRD way. so me and my friends decided to make up a plan to push me into him and i would tell him my name and start a conversation. do you think thats good??or is there another better plan

2006-10-16 12:35:53 · 10 answers · asked by Blabbity 5 in Singles & Dating

I just wanted to say i'm in Australia for my brothers wedding the sun is shining the beer is CHEAP and strong and today i'm taking my daughter to swim with dolphins.

What are you doing today and where are you????

2006-10-16 12:35:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

and because he said my blouse was too open, that everyone could see my boobs and because he said i flirt with my coworker, i just laugh and smile a lot.He's just a coworker, we only had lunch together , i didn't want my bf to find out.What can i do now ? What would u guys have done?

2006-10-16 12:35:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was at my aunt house i would not look at her so then she came and grabed my face i told her to let me go then she hit me all i did was push her back then she just came and stared hitting me with the phone in the head and punching me in the head over and over i wanna konw was that abuse i told me other aunt what happened she said that was not right. my whole arm was swolen and it was brused up. i told her to stop but she would not. i wannted to call the police but i didn't because she is my aunt. i dont know what to do. it just happened like three days ago(october 13) me arm is still swolen and brused up tell me what should i do? she also treats her kids like that but worse.

2006-10-16 12:35:07 · 4 answers · asked by stephanie s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

OK. I was acting crazy for about 9 months. Maybve early menopause. Well, for several reasons I am not like that anymore. But during that crazy period, my husband moved out. He said that he hoped that I would "get help." Well, I am better. We have spent some time together and talk about the kids. He wants to come back, start marriage counseling as a precursor to moving back home in December. He has been gone 7 months. In the meantime, while away, he has had one pretty serious relationship, that ended, and he has been involved with two other women, one a divorce in the neighborhood, about ten blocks away. I want to say "just forget it" but we have three kids under 8. And I have to admit that I still have a thing for him. Anyone been there, done that?

2006-10-16 12:34:56 · 20 answers · asked by lisa g 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i need advice. my husband is driving me nuts his idea of disipline is to make our kids stand in the corner no matter what they do (eg: if they burp wrong,walk wrong,etc. they are 3&4).sometimes he will play with them rough until the oldest one cries then he gets mad at him & tells him to stay away from him. i want to say something about this but if i do he gets mad at me & will pout& not talk to me for a week please help

2006-10-16 12:34:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My husband thinks that if something is not a big deal to him, then he doesn't mention it. For example, he is a little late leaving work but is playing foosball with his friends on base...I call and ask him if he's on his way, he just says "I will be home Shortly". I asked him why he doesn't just tell me what is going on at that moment like that he is playing foosball. He said because its not important to him. What I don't understand is if it is not important then what is the big deal in talking about it? This makes for some serious arguements in my home.....do other men work like this? Or does he just not want me knowing his business? I don't understand what is the big deal with saying what he is doing at that moment? Can someone help?

2006-10-16 12:33:54 · 20 answers · asked by ilih2006 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I feel horrible, I feel like I discussed him like if I am not worth his time, like I don’t even count he treats me like I’m the one doing stuff he does (going out, talking to hell knows who, i even feel he is messing around with one of his friends wife) my husband doesn’t want to work things out with me, he says I accused him most of the time, but I have plenty of reasons of why & he never even tries to make me think otherwise he has even agreed to it & at the end he says he answers that 2 shut me up according to him. i been with him since i was 16 my st everything we got marry at 21 and now have 2 kids i know we were young but that doesnt give him the right to treat me shiety, right? i mean if he doesnt want to work things out why does he have 2 be so cold, so disrepectful so insulting for no reason, I am mean if he is not cheating why doesn’t he take the time to reassure me that he is not! I feel pretty bad and feel like I would never get another chance to be happy.

2006-10-16 12:32:47 · 6 answers · asked by why 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my budies and i are young goodlooking, cute/hot black suburbian guys we have gotten beautiful looking woman,Now i am not saying just because someones overweight dosent mean there not beautiful if i said that i would be a a hole but we arent attracted to that body type and when we are at the clubs they allways try to take advantage of us when we are drunk thats why when we go out at least 2 guys are sober and watch out for us . I am not trying to diss anybody i just want some legitlimate awnsers

2006-10-16 12:32:33 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-16 12:32:23 · 9 answers · asked by coco 1 in Marriage & Divorce

In this moment.Im happy because yesterday,in my country itwas" the Mother Day " and my kids gave me theirs photos and now its are in front of my PC and the wall es very nice with them. Excuse me if my English language has some mistake but I m practicing .My happiness is very simple but the love of my kids is the most beatiful jewel that I have.

2006-10-16 12:32:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm a good looking guy, 31, white, grad school, good sense of humor and I've been thrust out into the singles scene in NYC. I started a company last year and I'm pretty busy with work, but a relationship is a priority for me. I'm open to any and all ideas - speeddating, match.com, hanging out in bars, hiring a wing woman, stalking innocent women on the street (relax...j/k). Any ideas as to how I can put myself in the path of attractive young women who are looking for a good man in the Big Apple?

2006-10-16 12:32:05 · 1 answers · asked by A M 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-16 12:31:09 · 4 answers · asked by Faith 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am from egland and ive spoken to a guy on the net from america for 4 years now, i think its amazing and funny how we both have little sayings... like me bloody hell, are you taking the p!ss etc, and him are you yanking my chain etc. can anyone give me some american sayings so i can impress my friend :-)

2006-10-16 12:30:47 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am concerned about my kids because they get so angry, sometimes my grandaughter who lives with me, will not argue at someone at school instead she will hit someone if they wind her up. My son broke my big mirror tonight, and chucked stuff over my floor, i ahve had enough, how do i stop them getting so angry. My son tonight said he did not like me and no one liked me, that really hurt, i just want them to be happy and stop this. i have to be with olivia at school everday because she punches people, the teacher said she has hit half the class what am i to do.

2006-10-16 12:30:06 · 8 answers · asked by guysmithdenise 3 in Family

2006-10-16 12:29:46 · 3 answers · asked by Rockvillerich 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

My gf has not called me in a week. She is probably done with me. I still love her and I am going to be persistent without annoying her. I want to give her spaced and time and I know she still cares about me and if I do the right things, she will get back with me.
Whenever I call, she just forwards it to the voicemail. Previously, I used to call her once every night. Recently, when she stopped answering, I called her more frequently which might have probably drawn her away.
Question:
How long should I wait before I call her and how many times in a day is ok? Once a day? Wait 2days, 3 days, week? Remember, its getting hard to spend one second without her so I dont know how I can wait one week.

2) I know she listens to my voicemails - wjhat can I say that will melt her heart and want to pickup and answer or call me back?\\

Please ladies- help me out here.

2006-10-16 12:29:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-16 12:29:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've went witth one guy fa lik 2 weeks, it didnt work but we stayed friends, but now we still both lik each other alot n he really cares about me. now the other guy we lik each other but never went together, we are lik sooo close and hes there wen ever i need him we talk lik all da time ....but they both are the jealous type n get mad wen ever dey see me talkin 2 another guy n i dont understand y wen we dont talk lik a gfriend&bfriend thing.. i am sooo confused.

2006-10-16 12:27:55 · 7 answers · asked by nia r 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-16 12:27:20 · 23 answers · asked by dmp1986 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am out-going, a Christian, funny, pretty cute, have a nice personality and an all around nice girl. What is wrong with me?

2006-10-16 12:27:01 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I say yes. I am happy for those that want to do it and have enjoyed it, but I think it is just a more expensive way to say "I love you and wan to spend the rest of my life with you." I think it really only serves a religious purpose now days, which I am not in any way. What do you think?

2006-10-16 12:26:59 · 15 answers · asked by Chris L 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so i have been with this guy for about 3 years now and i like him a lot and he likes me but the porb. is that he is 17 and he wants to do something that im not ready for and if i dont it will be over!

2006-10-16 12:26:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Where would it take place, what would you do, etc. Or if you have already had your perfect first date where was it?

2006-10-16 12:25:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Also, do you want to have sex with christina aguilera?

2006-10-16 12:25:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have recenty joined college as a freshman and my bf whom i have been dating since i was high school senior is also in the same college....he wants me to move into his apartment and tell my parent that i am living on campus.....i am so confused what should i do....how long did you girls wait before you moved into your bf's apartment

2006-10-16 12:25:29 · 8 answers · asked by Kelly D 1 in Singles & Dating

So my best friend is female and we kiss/makeout. But there is a particular someone whose quite upset with this. What's the big ****** deal? I don't wanna date her! I don't even wanna do more with her. We just like kissing. He says he gets jealous. Of what?! What is he so afraid that I'm gonna do? There's nothing to be jealous of. If it was another guy, I'd understand. 'Cause there's some competition there. There's a possibility that I could end up liking him more. But it's not a guy. It's a girl who has a boyfriend and would never replace a penis...not in a million years! She's cool, but c'mon....guys are so stupid.

2006-10-16 12:25:26 · 14 answers · asked by aslgirl143 2 in Singles & Dating