ok so i have been with this guy for about 3 years now and i like him a lot and he likes me but the porb. is that he is 17 and he wants to do something that im not ready for and if i dont it will be over!
2006-10-16 12:26:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
just be frank with him
tell him no
and if he goes away
you will be better off
2006-10-16 12:29:27 · answer #1 · answered by Doctor Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is probably the most common frustration with young couples. If you really are not ready, you shouldn't engage in sex (my assumption since you didn't specify). If he wants out, then you really don't belong to each other. On the other hand, I can understand his frustration too. At 17, he wants to sleep with someone, hopefully you, but it's not working out. You'll sadly suffer losing him, but you'll remain true to yourself, which is more important.
2006-10-16 19:33:14 · answer #2 · answered by Arnold M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't do anything that you're not ready for, because you'll regret it forever. if it's been 3 years and he genuinely loves you and cares for you then he'll wait.
2006-10-16 19:30:00 · answer #3 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him straight up you don't want 2 do it.If he leaves you then it just wasn't meant 2 be.
2006-10-16 19:31:42 · answer #4 · answered by bootylicious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then it's over, any guy that says "if you loved me" just wants to get in you pants...if your not ready...DON'T
2006-10-16 19:32:29 · answer #5 · answered by blueman2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really loves you he'll respect you no matter what you do, so if you dont wanna dont, its not up to him, what you do is up to you
2006-10-16 19:31:10 · answer #6 · answered by beautifulmommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋