OK so, I'm the one that broke up with my ex, and recently noticed she has all these dudes calling her sweety and cutie and all that stuff. 2 weeks ago, I did not to be near her, and could care less if she went on dates with other guys,,, but for some reason today I checked Myspace and find myself jealous... Why am I feeling this way? Can anyone relate?
2006-10-16 12:36:03 · 28 answers · asked by Duuuude no waaaay! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get over it, you broke up with her and she has her own life...it's hard sometimes to let go especially if the person was special to you. i'd say what you are feeling is normal, even though you broke up with her and don't want to be with her it is hard at first to adjust to her dating other guys.
2006-10-16 12:39:46 · answer #1 · answered by my101201cutiepie 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have a friend who seemed to have a similar problem a few months ago. He really was annoyed by his girlfriend, but when they broke up he would wonder where she was and who she was with. It took a while, but he stopped doing that. I think he did it because of the security he felt he had with his girlfriend, and he didn't want to lose that security just yet. But after a while, he realized his friends could provide the same amount of happiness. Hopefully you will figure this problem out!
2006-10-16 12:40:58 · answer #2 · answered by Breakdancer Girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I know what you mean. You feel this way because she is no longer yours, thus, she is a mental challenge. For me personally, when this happens, I think it happens because I am no longer in control (I don't have any power). And to regain that feeling of power (happiness, confidence) I get this desire to get her back. But once you get her back, you realize that nothing's changed, and you feel like dumping her again. Usually the second time is the permanent deal. I see a challenge, and I feel the urge to win, and prove something. I guess it's competitiveness, and the desire to win, which becomes the word, jealousy. If you know this is all that there is to it, you wouldn't go back.
2006-10-16 12:50:51 · answer #3 · answered by DN 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, why did you leave her? First, you have to come to conclusion as to why you let her go. If it was for a dumb reason, you may be having regrets, and seeing other guys interested in her might be making you feel even more regretful.
If you just didn't feel that interested, perhaps you didn't thinks he was exciting enough or good enough and now you realize she has guys all over her that do think she is worthy. Seems to me you're a bit miserable because she's not sulking and is actually getting compliments. Kudos for her.
2006-10-16 12:40:28 · answer #4 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
because in a way you still have feelings for her! you just dont want to admit it! you cant let her go just yet you just need sometime! i wouldnt start dating right away! and besides its your loss your the one who broke up with her its not her fault guys are hitton on her now they no she is free
2006-10-16 12:39:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you were used to her. you just need to learn that girls are like eating a pie made by two different cooks.one is necessarily not better than the other,they are just different.
in other words;go bite off a different piece of pie,and you'll be ok!
2006-10-16 12:44:36 · answer #6 · answered by jgmafb 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Don't it always seem to go that you don't know what you've got til it's gone?" Have you not heard those words in many songs, poems, movies? You realize that you may have just lost the girl that had everything you wanted and now that you notice everyone else wants her too it's just making reality set in even more.
2006-10-16 12:41:11 · answer #7 · answered by 31flavors 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yeah for now she is unavailable and its human nature to miss what you no longer have so since you broke up with her you need to move on and let her go
2006-10-16 12:38:48 · answer #8 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Cuz she makes herself look better on the computer than she ever did for you. Forget it, it's over. Don't act like a whipped dog cuz you're not (I hope).
2006-10-16 12:39:37 · answer #9 · answered by RivatricHistrionic 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't be.. on myspace everybody calls everybody sweety, baby, cutie, hon, and what not. just chill out
2006-10-16 12:41:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋