and because he said my blouse was too open, that everyone could see my boobs and because he said i flirt with my coworker, i just laugh and smile a lot.He's just a coworker, we only had lunch together , i didn't want my bf to find out.What can i do now ? What would u guys have done?
2006-10-16 12:35:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If your man can't handle you having male friends then tough. I use to work in an office with all guys and just me and one other girl. My man had no problem with me hanging out with them. I would even go out to bars after work sometimes. Sounds like he's really insecure. You need to have a talk with him. Or does he have a reason to be insecure?
2006-10-16 12:40:39 · answer #1 · answered by texas y'all! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why wouldn't you want him to find out if it was "just lunch"? Examine your true feelings, and examine your actions, and possibly the non verbal cues you were giving this guy. Think about the lunch date, and think about why your bf would have any reason to feel insecure. If he has none, and you can honestly answer the questions you pose to yourself with genuine innocence, then it's time to sit your bf down for a real heart to heart about overreacting, and about trust in the relationship.
2006-10-16 19:41:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything in private that you wouldn't do in front of your boyfriend--that is a good gauge. The fact you didn't want him to know makes it seem like you had something to hide and maybe you are indeed interested in this coworker.
2006-10-16 19:39:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, being a guy, had my gf gotten upset under the same circumstances, I'd have said don't let the door hit you in the butt on your way out. Consider saying that to him. He needs to get a life.
2006-10-16 19:49:24 · answer #4 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋