How long should I wait before I call?

Question

My gf has not called me in a week. She is probably done with me. I still love her and I am going to be persistent without annoying her. I want to give her spaced and time and I know she still cares about me and if I do the right things, she will get back with me.
Whenever I call, she just forwards it to the voicemail. Previously, I used to call her once every night. Recently, when she stopped answering, I called her more frequently which might have probably drawn her away.
Question:
How long should I wait before I call her and how many times in a day is ok? Once a day? Wait 2days, 3 days, week? Remember, its getting hard to spend one second without her so I dont know how I can wait one week.

2) I know she listens to my voicemails - wjhat can I say that will melt her heart and want to pickup and answer or call me back?\\

Please ladies- help me out here.

Answer 1

i think u should wait til she calls u and try to be patient. she does need her space and wen she feels lik talkin to u she will, but if u feel u need to really talk to her go see her and talk about wit her in person..maybe shes not mad at you or anything
but if u have the urge to call her, call her once a night, let her know your there 4 her wen ever she needs u and wants 2 talk about somehting. try to persuade her to give u a call and tell her how much u love her and will give her, her space if she really needs it.

Answer 2

There is NOTHING you can say or do that can automatically win her back. You need to sack it up and realize that sometimes relationships don't go the way that you want them to. Apparently she's upset or confused or being preoccupied by something else. Do you know what it is? Is she doing well in her classes? How is her relationship with her parents? Her extended family? Her friends?

My suggestion to you is that you ought to call her one more time and explain to her how you're feeling. In the voicemail, if you must, but emphasize the fact that you feel that it is necessary to speak with her either in-person or live on the telephone. Stand up for what you feel, don't succumb to anything she throws at you -- but also, remember that she is a person who has feelings, too. Be respectful, but also be firm about how you feel.

You'll be fine.

Answer 3

Haven't you heard the R. Kelly song, "When A Woman's Fed Up"?


Chorus:
When a woman's fed up
There ain't nothin' you can do about it...
It's like running out of love
And it's too late to talk about it...

She has pretty much let you know how she feels about you, and whether or not she wants to talk to you by not taking your calls. I don't know what happened, but she must be pretty mad to let it go for a week. Take the hint. Or, if she's just playing you...thinking, "I won't talk to him for a week..." or however long, just to prove a point, why do you want to be with some one like that anyway? I'm not condoning it - I think it's really immature and punkish just to ignore the situation. She should say it's over or it's not over, either way...but I'm just saying, that's what's going on, so you have a decision to make, too.

Answer 4

First of all you need to give more details as to why all of a sudden she is not taking your calls. Do you do something that hurt her. If so, what you did will determine what kind of answers you will get. Otherwise, absence does make the heart grow fonder so as a woman speaking, I would leave her along (as painful as that may be) and wait to see if she calls you. She KNOWS how you feel from your zillion messages so now it is in her court. If she doesn't ever want you back, than that is it. Sorry.

Answer 5

well I think maybe you could make her jealous or some thing by going wit hsomeone else. (if you are single) Only if she still cares for and you still think she will go out with you. Believe me that will work. But if she rele doesn't like you you should just give her space like maybe wait a week and call her. What ever you do do not call her to much like if she doesn't answer she oviously doesn't wanna talk to you. Just call like once that day.

Answer 6

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Answer 7

I am not a lady, but I can tell there is nothing you can do in this world to make a person like you if they do not want too, time to back off. Sorry, but it is not the end of the world, there will be plenty of girls, next time be less clingy with them...

Answer 8

Is there any way through a common friend you both have that he/she could talk to your girl and arrange a place to meet that is a neutral place, like a mall. I think you need to have a face to face conversation with her. If you don't already know the answer(I don't know what happend) you need to ask her what happened to the relationship. Perhaps you need to apologise for some behaviour/immaturity??? I don't know. But you do need to be honest with yourself and be willing to own any mistakes you are responsible for.

Answer 9

ignore her, for at least a week. then if she doesn't you call her and be like"here's the deal, are we or aren't we together? cause well it's not fair to simply vanish." I've had to many disappearing boyfriends and well there's really nothing you can do about people disappearing, but you can try and find out whats going on.

Answer 10

try calling her and if she fowards you're call leave her a message by saying that you know you messed up and you still care for her and that you want to work things out and then she'll call you back!! but you dont have to listen to me because i'm 14 going to 15 but that's what i would want my boyfriend to tell me so good luck hope this works out for you!! if it dosen't e-mail me at [e-mail] to see if i can help you even more!!!!!!!