whats this mean, please help?
ok about a month ago, i spilled my guts to one of my friends, told her that i like her alot, and all this stuff, shes only 13. well she wrote me back and said she hasnt ever seen us as more thanfriends, and that she dont like me like that but she dont want it to ruin our 8 year frendship.. well..over the past month, I've been avoiding her, simply for my sake, just simply not to bring those feelings back up, cuz when I'm around her they all come back. but she emailed me yesterday, and said she was sad, becauze it was straining our friendship. and she wants things like they used to be, well i told her why i had been avoinding her, and she said she totatlly understood why. well, I know she dont like me like that now, but am I crazy to think there mite be sumthin in the future, cuz she was obvioulsy ( she said) she was really sad, seeing us like this, and since shes only 13, am i crazy to think there mite be sumthin in the next year or two? she also said, " dont take the rejection to heart
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that the reason was probably stupid anyway, whats that mean?
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and for those who say, I am punsihing her, I am not in any way. We have had very friendly discussions, and she understands why, things have been this way. And I have reassured her, promised her, that I will make things the way the used to. Do u really think I want to lose the friendship as well? I mean, that hurts.
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I mean, its not like I'm ugly, I'm very atractive, and so is she. I mean I'm fit, I play varsity baseball, and am only a sophmore, It's not like I'm a geek or anything. And the same with her, she is very good lookin, has guys hitting on her all the time, and is on the national swim team, I just dont know what to do, cuz i swear to god i love her more than anything in this world
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i mean i just cant get over her, I have never in my life, liked anyone, or felt so strongly for somone. Believe me, this isnt a crush, I have had many, but htis is more
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but, since me and her are friends again, we were talking about this girl who likes me, but i dont like her... and the girl i like, said i should just tell her i wanna stay friends, just incase i ever change my mind....?? which is the exact same thing she told me.. what it mean??
2006-10-16 12:01:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh, please.....
At your age you should be more concerned with getting good grades in school then this soap opera bullshite.
2006-10-16 12:11:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first no one is phsycic and u never know what may or may not happen once both of u hit high school.and if she only wants u as a friend isnt that better then nothing at all?my advise to u is just play it kool,be how it use to be or atleast play the part as if it were.i know its going to be hard but if u have a friendship thats worth it then try ur best.
2006-10-16 19:07:44 · answer #2 · answered by laase12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm same thing happened to me. Except I was only 1 year older than the girl I liked. I'ma sophomore right now. Uhh yea we had a long friendship and she figured out I like her one day. I was rejected. =( So I did what you did avoid her, ignore her and try to make myself stop liking her. Ya she was sad about our friendship but she ended up liking me. I don't know what happened, but I asked my friend girl who was her friend. She told me the girl I liked started liking me cause I was consistant in my mood, treated other people well, had muscular legs O.o, and wasn't 2faced. Ya so I asked her out and she said yes.
2006-10-16 19:42:05 · answer #3 · answered by N/a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, at 13 a girl dosen't know what she wants, wait tell she gets to high school. Find someone eles in the mean time.
2006-10-16 19:06:43 · answer #4 · answered by keithr2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing for you to do is stay in school. You are only 15 you have your whole life ahead of you. Trust me there will be more fish in the sea.
2006-10-16 19:07:58 · answer #5 · answered by corey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Didn't you just post this same question just a few minutes ago?
Was the first batch of answers not to your liking or what. No offence it just seems really pointless.
2006-10-16 19:05:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that happened to me before
just act like nothing ever happened and continue to be friends
the girl i liked, after rejecting me, was fine the next day when i talked to her.
so just act normal and talk to her again.
you can still secretly like her, but dont say it until you think she'll accept you.
2006-10-16 19:07:10 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋