whats this mean, please help?
ok about a month ago, i spilled my guts to one of my friends, told her that i like her alot, and all this stuff, shes only 13. well she wrote me back and said she hasnt ever seen us as more thanfriends, and that she dont like me like that but she dont want it to ruin our 8 year frendship.. well..over the past month, I've been avoiding her, simply for my sake, just simply not to bring those feelings back up, cuz when I'm around her they all come back. but she emailed me yesterday, and said she was sad, becauze it was straining our friendship. and she wants things like they used to be, well i told her why i had been avoinding her, and she said she totatlly understood why. well, I know she dont like me like that now, but am I crazy to think there mite be sumthin in the future, cuz she was obvioulsy ( she said) she was really sad, seeing us like this, and since shes only 13, am i crazy to think there mite be sumthin in the next year or two? she also said, " dont take the rejection to heart
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that the reason was probably stupid anyway, whats that mean?
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and for those who say, I am punsihing her, I am not in any way. We have had very friendly discussions, and she understands why, things have been this way. And I have reassured her, promised her, that I will make things the way the used to. Do u really think I want to lose the friendship as well? I mean, that hurts.
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I mean, its not like I'm ugly, I'm very atractive, and so is she. I mean I'm fit, I play varsity baseball, and am only a sophmore, It's not like I'm a geek or anything. And the same with her, she is very good lookin, has guys hitting on her all the time, and is on the national swim team, I just dont know what to do, cuz i swear to god i love her more than anything in this world
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i mean i just cant get over her, I have never in my life, liked anyone, or felt so strongly for somone. Believe me, this isnt a crush, I have had many, but htis is more
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but, since me and her are friends again, we were talking about this girl who likes me, but i dont like her... and the girl i like, said i should just tell her i wanna stay friends, just incase i ever change my mind....?? which is the exact same thing she told me.. what it mean??
2006-10-16 11:37:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Attraction is not a choice. If she is not attracted to you, she probably will never.
Besides, it's very rare to progress from friendship to love. Once friends, always friends. Come on, boy ! At the physical attraction level, girls are interchangeable.
Just look for another! The sea is plenty of fish :)
2006-10-16 12:01:13 · answer #1 · answered by Franco 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't like you she probably never will. I would advise you to try and forget about those feelings and find some solace in the fact that your friendship is still intact. Try looking for someone else. Thats the best i got
2006-10-16 18:43:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut your losses and move on, guy. Hate to say it, but I'm speaking from experience here. And that's experience with college chicks, not 13 year olds. It's doomed.
2006-10-16 18:41:26 · answer #3 · answered by Robert M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey that's cool you add your own details with the time. Cool.
2006-10-16 18:42:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear guy:if you rele care for her than leave her alone. find a new girl and just be friends.
2006-10-16 18:44:43 · answer #5 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first come down there is no need to worry just be happy being friends.
2006-10-16 18:42:00 · answer #6 · answered by punk girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋