wat should i do , i mean i love him and also care bout our relationship ,but my patience is killing me .and other dudes is tryna holla at me
2006-10-16 11:39:13 · 7 answers · asked by latasha s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that's up to you. personally, i have been in your situation and you are wasting your time on a guy that is locked up. he should have been there for you and thought about his actions and he would;t be in this mess in the first place. if you love him and really want to be with him, then stay. if not, tell him that you don't want to wait for him and move on.
2006-10-16 11:41:53 · answer #1 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey girl, i'm in a relationship with my boyfriend who is also locked up. I understand how hard it is. The one thing you must have when your in a relationship like that is patience. If you love him you won't cheat on him period. How would you feel if he starts a relationship with a female guard. You can live without sex, you can get a body pillow to cuddle up with if you need one. I don't know if you believe in God, but pray. Forget about "other dudes trying to holla at you". Do you feel your man is worth your honesty and love. I don't know how far ya'll intended your relationship to go, but this is a test of commitment. Do the guys who are trying to holla at you, know about you boyfriend? If so then they are just playing games so they can have something to tell him when he comes home. Stand strong baby girl. If you can't wait an decide to seek other options, then at least be honest. I know where you are coming from!!!!!
2006-10-16 18:52:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How much longer is he going to be in there and if it is more than a year I would write him a letter and explain to him that it is not fair to you to have to wait for him to come out since you didnt put him there in the first place.
2006-10-16 18:44:26 · answer #3 · answered by postal_marg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you truly loved him other guys wouldn't matter to you but since your patience is killing you than you don't love him like you should ...
2006-10-16 18:41:56 · answer #4 · answered by emnari 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, hun, if you truly love ur bf, then you should not have to worry about others holler'n at ya. You can remain friends wit da others, but stay loyal to your love.
2006-10-16 18:42:38 · answer #5 · answered by sis_jk27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you think, when have you ever heard of a man giving his gf permission to see other people
get real
2006-10-16 18:43:28 · answer #6 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CHEAT WITH YOUR SELF.
2006-10-16 18:42:03 · answer #7 · answered by tinkerbell 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋