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One thing I'm so depressing....
Have you ever had those moments where sometimes you know you'll never be able to see or have chances of doing stuff or seeing?
It happens to me all the time. Family members dying.... =(
Pets running away..things so close to me disappearing right in front of my eyes....
Nowadays my friends say I'm so depressing to be around...

I just..I want it to stop..this feeling..
And this morning my grandparents left to go back to their state and I didn't get a good chance to say farewell.. We took pictures and ate breakfast and such but that was all. I'm so not used to farewells or goodbyes...*sigh.* Perhaps I'm a bit..weak minded? )=
I know I see them at least every 1 to 1 and a half years..but I wish I could find my 'lost' things or faded dreams once more....
And just be happy..

How can I just be happy for at least just this once?

2006-10-16 11:39:12 · 9 answers · asked by Alan 4 in Family & Relationships Family

9 answers

i'm going to type a good descent conversation. First to say, i was almost in this situaiton, but i caught myself before it got worse. to be honest, the only thing to do is be happy!!!! think of happy things. what i did was prey. then when my answers came it changed me. don't be afraid to do so. you can be happy :) i say this because im a good person. theres very few good people on this planet . find the right friends and start over. your friends....that said your depressed to be around...... don't even THINK about them! i wish i met you face to face.... i a very nice person. A lot of people do not like me because of that. another thing is be closer to your MOTHER AND FATHER. it works trust me. It will pay off one day to be happy, especially with that person who is looking over you.... :) please you'll be okay trust me. I don't need friends, my family are my friends! see think happy H-A-P-P-Y :) also do fun things too with your family...... trust and believe, you'll be alright. I'm your computer friend and buddy ^-^

2006-10-16 11:52:06 · answer #1 · answered by AMANTILLADO 2 · 1 0

I believe happiness is a choice as is being sad all the time. I am currently battling being sad/depressed but for no apparent reason. I have a very blessed life. Many would trade their positions to be in mine, but I can't help feeling like something is missing. I know it makes God sad because He's given so much and is there to bless us with so much more, when we are ready. However as long as we choose to look at closed doors, broken relationships, things that aren't meant for us to have in the first place, we will not reach that which He intends for us to have.
So I said all of that to say, your sadness is real. It's what you are holding on to now, and when you decide to let it go, I guarentee you, you will feel like a brand new person. The past is just that, you can't bring back what's gone, but you can choose to have a better tomorrow. I am not trying to minimize your feelings for I know they are real. What I am doing is reminding you that it is really up to you to be happy. The bible says choose life or death. So that tells me that it is all about choices. I know you will be alright, because just writing this to you has helped me to feel better already. Be Encouraged!

2006-10-16 11:58:23 · answer #2 · answered by felrie 1 · 0 0

You sound like you have clinical depression. This is very real and it won't get any better on its own. Trust me. I was depressed so badly I could hardly move. Then I finally had enough brains to get myself on a course of talk therapy and medication. I feel 100% better. I still have problems, but now they don't overhwelm me. Please get in to see a qualified counselor and dicuss you options for meds. I know it will turn your life around.

2006-10-16 11:42:40 · answer #3 · answered by Isis 7 · 0 0

Go to GNC and get some supplements to help you feel better. Sounds like a chemical imbalance. Try taking 5-HTP and L-Tyrosine. Good Luck!

2006-10-16 12:18:07 · answer #4 · answered by Sandstorm222 2 · 0 0

human beings could desire to be waiting to settle for the ameliorations in others. No ones ideals are for particular the main appropriate way. permit human beings have their own critiques and settle for them and pass on. you do no longer could desire to trust each little thing a individual does basically enable them to have their existence and additionally you have yours and additionally you will nevertheless get alongside. Tim

2016-10-19 12:33:09 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

i know the feeling but we just have to snap out of it. I maintain by keeping busy. doing crafts, cooking oh yeah & shopping and getting a pedicure. happy thoughts to you!

2006-10-16 11:43:27 · answer #6 · answered by Jon 1 · 0 0

well i think you should go out in this big ole world and volenteer for a hospital a nurseing home do something where you are giveing of your self that will help you alot!

2006-10-16 12:16:44 · answer #7 · answered by just_me_1955 5 · 0 0

well start by thinking positivebe in controll of your emotions

2006-10-16 11:44:15 · answer #8 · answered by callie girl 2 · 0 0

Cheer up! I hope you feel better.

2006-10-16 11:40:57 · answer #9 · answered by Rj 3 · 0 0

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