I know there's no RIGHT answer to this; I'm simply looking for opinions: When you reconnect online with someone that you have known since grade school (but weren't even friends with), and they say, "I always had this crush on you when we were growing up," is that a way of admitting that they still like you?
2006-10-16 11:44:33 · 11 answers · asked by FlirtyGirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Not necessarily. They could just be admitting that they had a crush on you while growing up.
But on the other hand, it's possible that they like you. In other words, it's been a while since they've seen or talked to you. So at that very moment when you both "reunited", they suddenly had an "instant crush" on you which made them admit about the past. So by saying that, it's like: "Hint, I liked you before, I like you right now, Do I have a chance this time?"
2006-10-16 11:59:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they just want you to know about the crush in the past. Maybe you'll think it's funny or cute. I had the exact same thing happen to me, someone told me I was the first one they liked, when she was starting high school and I was in grade 12. I didn't think that meant she still had a thing for me - because it was a long time in the past. I thought it was funny, and it was nice to hear, that's all.
2006-10-16 18:53:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its their way of saying I had a crush on you in the past now if they ended it with I still do have one then yes they are interested but it sounds like this person is just telling you how they felt about you in the past
2006-10-16 18:46:28 · answer #3 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If you take what he said literally, "I always had this crush on you when we were growing up," it's stated in past tense.
He didn't say "I've had a crush on you since we were kids."
Of course, that does not mean that he doesn't. I'm merely responding to what he actually said.
2006-10-16 18:48:37 · answer #4 · answered by errant_hero 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily, but it's certainly worth looking into if you think you might be interested in him. I had crushes on lots of people when I was younger, but no one that I still think about in that way;
2006-10-16 18:47:52 · answer #5 · answered by Hwy2?? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably so...and are just now getting the courage to tell you...perhaps to see if something could still be there...or, maybe hoping to hear that you felt the same way and never said anything.
2006-10-16 18:48:47 · answer #6 · answered by Nani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily, it could also mean that they don't anymore which is why they are now comfortable sharing that info - whereas before they would have been too nervous/embarrased, but now they don't care.
2006-10-16 18:47:16 · answer #7 · answered by GirlUdontKnow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its nOt necessarily that they still have the feelings they have grOwn with.. there's a fifty-fifty chance that he still likes you.. and the half not.. they just want you to know the truth..
2006-10-16 19:45:47 · answer #8 · answered by mi-an 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reminiscing on their part maybe?
Worse come to the worse you can ask.
=)
2006-10-16 18:47:40 · answer #9 · answered by demi-kun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say Yes, or why bother saying so!
2006-10-16 18:48:17 · answer #10 · answered by Jon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋