Family & Relationships - 15 October 2006

I was with a guy for about 15 months. I truly thought he was the one. He was pursuing an advanced degree and would cancel most plans with me to study or would have "emergencies" with his mother and couldn't make it. I tried to be supportive, but he would stand me up without consideration. He just didn't understand why I was so hurt all the time. I never gave him an ultimatum and tried to compromise, but he wouldn't bend. I broke it off 5 months ago because I was tired of always coming last in his life. We stay in contact via senseless email forwards. He has made no attempt to reconnect otherwise. We are both dating again via a online dating service. My problem is I can't get him out of my head. I still love him and want so badly to have him back in my life. I know our relationship could have been good if he would have just compromised with me. I still don't know if he would be willing, but life is short and I want to ask if he will consider working things out. Any advice?

2006-10-15 14:24:15 · 8 answers · asked by lolabellaquin 4 in Singles & Dating

For the first time in months, I messaged him on aol. I told him it still hurts. When I got off of work, he left me a message saying I know what you mean. We talked. About missing each other. Even if it is a mistake, I told him how much I missed him. He said, "I have to see you. For five minutes, I don't care." He'll be here in about ten minutes. Hurry, what the hell do I do? Am I setting myself up for heartache? Kiss him or don't? Hug him, tell him everything I've wanting to tell him, or no?

2006-10-15 14:24:14 · 21 answers · asked by cree siempre 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy that lives next to me that told me today that he has fallen in love with a 17 year old girl and that he plans to divorce his wife. What in the world is happening to Men nowadays, I think it is sick?

2006-10-15 14:23:56 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im a virgin. my partner inserted his finger inside me few months back and i got a little light red blood. i figured this is my hymen torn. he did not insert his finger fully tho and i got my period afterwards so maybe it was just period blood. i had sex with him for the first time yesterday. he was not rough and just went in fully once. i had quite some blood. i thought it was my period but it turn out not to be because i did not get anymore blood throughout yesterday and today. i also just got my period 2 weeks back. could this be blood from the hymen torn?could it be torn twice like halfway at 1st then fully in the 2nd? how much blood is it supposed to be? sorry for the long detailed question! im 24

2006-10-15 14:23:47 · 3 answers · asked by 106 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so, my parents just had a HUGE fight and my dad left the house. im not gonna say the reason y they were fiting bc its personal and id rather not say it on here. but im real sad. hoe can i deal with this? my parents were never married but they had two children, me and my younger sister. how can we deal with this?????

2006-10-15 14:23:22 · 8 answers · asked by NoBody 4 in Marriage & Divorce

what is it that makes you attracted to a women ?? is it her athletic build, her eyes, her smile, her cooking, her hair , her legs what ??
please don't say her chest.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-10-15 14:23:18 · 10 answers · asked by E.M. 4 in Friends

my step-sister varee is way too interested in boys and she's only 12. i've told her to watch herself because she'll end getting her feelings hurt by some punk. I love her so much and just don't want her to get herself in trouble. any advice on what I should say the next time I talk to her about it?

2006-10-15 14:21:46 · 6 answers · asked by lowrida 4 lyfe 2 in Family

what do you do for cramps? I have major cramps today ive took midol and used the thermacare ..nothing but a hot shower works .what dou do? please i mean they are very bad hurts me so much

2006-10-15 14:21:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-15 14:21:38 · 7 answers · asked by Shal 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-15 14:20:11 · 14 answers · asked by Michael F 2 in Friends

or im just greedy?

2006-10-15 14:19:53 · 9 answers · asked by super girl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to meet people just to talk with and have a good laugh..become friends. I am tired of jerks and perverts. I want to have an intelligent conversation and not about what am I wearing.

2006-10-15 14:19:49 · 15 answers · asked by veronica j 1 in Friends

or with your baby or cooking or cleaning or even doing the few dishes in the sink or even picking up things?

first year marriage
4month baby and university

2006-10-15 14:19:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

He wants to get a paternity test done but doest have the money for it. He wants to know now so he can see his son. They dont let him see him now and he hasnt been pushing it because he doesnt think that he is his. Where can he go to get a free paternity test.

2006-10-15 14:19:41 · 5 answers · asked by sweetsnickers 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

The lies are about different things.None that harm me, I think. Sometimes she says things I want to hear but not really what she's thinking. Other times, it's about her own personal life. Other times, it's about what she's doing etc. I'm not used to having friends that lie about so many things. It's hard to know her and trust her as a friend. But she has been helpful and supportive to me through a difficult period. BUt now I've discovered her lying, I'm afraid she may blab about everything to others.

2006-10-15 14:18:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-15 14:18:11 · 13 answers · asked by crzycoolswmr 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Does anyone else think like me?

I think older people should be encouraged to learn how to use the computer...Not for just banking but:

If they live alone...often that is very cruel ...so by even being able to use a site like this...they could spend time, helping others...

Giving all that life experience...and it would help to combat being lonely.They don't have to buy a computer...just use the Library as I do!...I have one at home, my 14yr old is always on...lol.

But, also they may not feel well and can even buy food on line, delievered to their home for less than $10.oo (well in australia)..
Not sure if other countries...and they can stay in touch with family...

I say lets teach one person over 50!!! to use a computer!
Whos with me.!!!

2006-10-15 14:17:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

He wont work or help out around the house. he is almost 20. Help!

2006-10-15 14:17:39 · 39 answers · asked by david b 1 in Friends

2006-10-15 14:15:19 · 15 answers · asked by sidekickLX! 3 in Friends

I hear this all the time, and it's just so hard to do. It's like breaking your own heart...I don't understand...

2006-10-15 14:14:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How can i be there for her? she seems to be coping but at the same time goes off into day dreams. i want to be there for her but live away from her and cant always get there but try to visit once a week at least, i want to get her a house pet to keep her company is it a good idea?

2006-10-15 14:14:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-15 14:13:59 · 6 answers · asked by Jeanniegirl 5 in Singles & Dating

young dating is wrong, teens should focus on their priorities

2006-10-15 14:13:53 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The guy I am dating doesn't want to get into a serious realationship, because he just got out of one. But I am not good with dating around, and the thought of him dating others upsets me, how can I ask him to be just with me without being pushy, or even worse losing him?

2006-10-15 14:12:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is a serious question and I want a serious answer.
I agree its nice for both partners in a marriage to have sexual experience prior to marriage, but should it be with each other? Also, will too much of it with each other spoil the chances of a happy future married life?
Thoughtful and thought provoking answers from experienced people will be appreciated. You may rule out issues like HIV, STD, etc. when answering.

2006-10-15 14:12:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

When it's hot and humid he doesn't like to wear underwear. I have seen his butt crack acouple of times when he is doing gardining. He travels for work. When I saw him pack for his trip I saw him take only 2 underwear. He said that some of his Jeans are torn around the back pocket area and people might see his underwear. But if doesn't wear any underwear then they could see his butt. Is it normal for man to choose to not to wear any underwear? I never asked him about this because I don't want to sound silly.

2006-10-15 14:10:32 · 18 answers · asked by cluelesschickus 1 in Singles & Dating

This is a serious question and I want a serious answer.
I agree its nice for both partners in a marriage to have sexual experience prior to marriage, but should it be with each other? Also, will too much of it with each other spoil the chances of a happy future married life?
Thoughtful and thought provoking answers from experienced people will be appreciated. You may rule out issues like HIV, STD, etc. when answering.

2006-10-15 14:09:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what would you like for dinner ?????

2006-10-15 14:09:07 · 4 answers · asked by E.M. 4 in Friends

My brother bought a Furbee and I had to bang it with a hammer to make it shut up because it was sitting in the kitchen, didn't have an OFF button and it kept TALKING. Well, It broke and he's pissed. What should I do?

2006-10-15 14:08:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Amisha she yell at me for nothing. She hit me a lot.

2006-10-15 14:08:04 · 1 answers · asked by Aliah J 1 in Friends