The guy I am dating doesn't want to get into a serious realationship, because he just got out of one. But I am not good with dating around, and the thought of him dating others upsets me, how can I ask him to be just with me without being pushy, or even worse losing him?
2006-10-15 14:12:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he is not ready then he is not. Women like to jump right into relationships. Take it slow and while he date you date. You never know what else you might be missing.
2006-10-15 14:15:16 · answer #1 · answered by Miss. Tee98 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
DON'T ASK HIM ANYTHING. IF HE ACTS AS IF HE DOESN'T WANT TO BE IN A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP YOU ACT THE SAME WAY AND HE'LL BE WONDERING WHY. DON'T BE CALLING HIM OR GOING TO SEE HIM SO YOU CAN BE AROUND HIM CAUSE YOU MISS HIM.LET HIM CALL YOU AND START COMING TO SEE YOU ASKING YOU QUESTIONS LIKE GIRL WHERE YOU BEEN TELL HIM ON A DATE EVEN IF YOU WEREN'T. CAUSE IF THE THOUGHT OF HIM BEING WITH OTHERS UPSETS YOU THEN THE THOUGHT OF YOU BEING WITH SOMEONE ELSE SHOULD UPSET HIM IF IT DOESN'T LET HIM GO. WE LET GUYS OFF TO EASY WITH THAT BS ABOUT I JUST GOT OUT OF A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP AND I DON'T WANT TO JUMP BACK INTO ANOTHER SO SOON. ALL THEY TELLING US IS I NEED MORE TIME TO FOOL AROUND WITH OTHER PEOPLE, BUT I STILL WANT TO BE YOUR FRIEND. IF HE REALLY LIKES YOU HE'LL BE WITH YOU. I'M NOT SAYING DON'T HAVE PATIENCE JUST DON'T LET HIM STRING YOU ALONG TO WHERE HE COMES OUT AND SAYS WE'RE JUST FRIENDS RIGHT AFTER BEING TOGETHER FOR AWHILE BUT STILL NOT IN A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP.
2006-10-15 21:30:23 · answer #2 · answered by KI-KI 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's plenty of fish in the sea. Just date around anyway, for practice, and make him want you more that way.
2006-10-15 21:17:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him how you feel. If he isn't okay with it, don't push it, just give him time. If you seem too overbearing, you might drve him away. Just ask him once, and then leave it alone for awhile.
2006-10-15 21:17:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give him time and if enough time isnt enough then sit him down and talk to him and let him know how u feel and if ur dating him y would he want to go around dating other girls??
just give him enought time and if he doesnt come around u do wat u have to do to make him understand!!
eather go ur own way or sit him down!!
2006-10-15 21:18:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant because he explicitly told you that he does not want a serious relationship. so you pushing the issue will turn him off.
2006-10-15 21:18:26 · answer #6 · answered by Tian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give him some time and give him signs that you want to be with him.
2006-10-15 21:15:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
what i would do is just tell him u really like himand how u feel jus get it all out in the open remember trust is the key k!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-15 21:20:51 · answer #8 · answered by danielle! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him exactly what you just typed.
if he is still uncertain then your best bet is to stay calm and wait and he will see it your way soon
2006-10-15 21:19:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont push and give him some time
2006-10-15 21:14:06 · answer #10 · answered by The King of Games 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋