Family & Relationships - 12 October 2006

iam 24 married and have 1 child. A couple of nights back I could not fall asleep and decided to chat 2 anybody who wanted 2 talk.Anyway 2 make a long story short i meet a man who is deployed in iraq and just found out his wife has cheatd on him. We started talking and have a lot in comman .Now he says he's fallen 4 me .....really bad.I did,'t tell him I was married as I thought nothing would happen. I also have started to have feelings for him and can't wait to speak 2 him again. I know that its wrong and that I should end it before it becomes more serious,but how ?I don't want to break his heart .he is such a lovley man.The truth is even I don't want my heart broken to because i have fallen in love with him. Help.........I also love my husband dearly,but he dosn't speak to me like the man i have meet or express his feelings at all. What do I do? I feel torn.........HELP!!!

2006-10-12 17:11:53 · 25 answers · asked by caligirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Sorry, I am too good looking to date anybody who isn't a 10. 10's stick together, so pelase how do I stop these 5's and under from coming on to me?

2006-10-12 17:10:45 · 26 answers · asked by NONAME 2 in Singles & Dating

...except i know that she wants to be together again. She said she needs time to herself but NOT as a couple. I don't know what this means. She said she doesn't want to meet any new guys she just wants time to herself, but i don't understand why we can't just go on a "couples break' what do i do?

2006-10-12 17:10:37 · 19 answers · asked by DefLeppardxXx 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 17:10:17 · 12 answers · asked by datcreekgurl 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I just found out today that I have herpes. My boyfriend is in Air Force boot camp my only way to contact him is through letters right now. I need to tell him but I dont know whether I should tell him in a letter or wait untill I see him at bootcamp graduation in the begging of Nov. I never cheated on him and there is a very good chance he has it because we had unprotected sex. He will not be able to give it to any one while in basic. I just want to know if it would be better on him to tell him in a letter or wait till I can tell him in person? And when I do tell him what should I say to make sure he knows I didnt cheat on him?

2006-10-12 17:09:25 · 6 answers · asked by SunShineBabe 3 in Singles & Dating

if your spouse was having dreams about someone else
and would it matter if it was someone they were once involved with
keeping in mind they cant control their dreams

2006-10-12 17:09:01 · 13 answers · asked by jes 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

when my ex boyfriend was 20 i was 14 and we started dating is it weird. we loved each other over time. and we had really good conversations

2006-10-12 17:08:57 · 13 answers · asked by valreemariecreed 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a 41yr old male and I have never even had a real kiss, I am getting desperate. What should I do?

2006-10-12 17:08:50 · 12 answers · asked by just me 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 17:07:50 · 9 answers · asked by IsThatSo 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was wondering if it's "weird" for a guy to call a girl out of the blue and ask her on a date. I know a girl who was a little "out of my league" in high school and still doesn't really go for guys like me. She's really kind of my dreamgirl. I rarely see her and haven't talked to her a lot since high school (5 years ago), except at the grocery store or meeting each other on the road. How should I go about just asking her to a few drinks or even starting off as friends? Plus, she has a kid, if that matters. Thanks everyone. No stupid answers, please.

2006-10-12 17:06:16 · 6 answers · asked by Brandon M 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 17:06:14 · 7 answers · asked by Sunshine 1 in Singles & Dating

i confronted her about now she mad at me was i wrong i have not said anything to my best friend need some honest advice

2006-10-12 17:06:04 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how do i no that he liks me for sure.....thses are some of the things that he does.... flirt..give me massage, laugh wit me , asks me how was my day, what i did on tha weekend, play around... all of this happens in class.... but their are times where he acts like an ***.... how do i know if he likes me without asking him.... i see him alot hugging and talking to gurls.... one time i caught him texting to some one saying i miss u 2 but he told me he doesnt have a girlfreind

2006-10-12 17:05:38 · 2 answers · asked by SofaKingBored23 2 in Singles & Dating

You see there is a girl i have a crush on in 9th world history class. She is smart, very cute ,blue eyes ,bernette hair ,perfect skin and all those features. Each time I want to ask her out, there is that felling you get that you can't do it, you know. All I need is hints and lines when I go up to her to use to convince her that I can be that guy she trust, love, and be loyal to you. Please give as much help and hints from your experience or knowledge or that other stuff as you can.

2006-10-12 17:03:45 · 13 answers · asked by saintsrowfighter 2 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend is great, she laughs at my jokes and we get along really well, but ever since I asked her out she's quiet around me and seems embarrased when I talked to her. After school she books out and doesn't even let me walk her to the bus. Do you think she's just embarrased, or could she be regreting her decision.

2006-10-12 17:02:49 · 17 answers · asked by The angel from your nightmare 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 17:02:01 · 12 answers · asked by kylinie 1 in Singles & Dating

why when people ask questions sometimes you get someone having a dig at one of your previous questions

2006-10-12 17:01:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am tired of feeling diassapointed and used in relationships. I am a nice girl, but I'm tired of being lied to, used, and abused in relationships. And nowadays, it seems like guys only want casual sex, so how can I learn to survive the dating jungle without being eaten alive? I really need to learn to seperate sex and emotion. And it's not like I'm out there being slutty, I have just had really bad luck with guys and I am tired of it. any suggestions on how I can harden my heart to the men nd not let them spoil me?

2006-10-12 16:59:43 · 16 answers · asked by Kanji 1 in Singles & Dating

When I see a guy I imagine how he would be in bed, I fantasize all the time,could this be normal, is anybody experiencing this, I am in my late twenties and single and not getting any.

2006-10-12 16:58:28 · 23 answers · asked by Karen 2 in Singles & Dating

Name 5 good reasons why you should listen to what your Mother tells you.....
10 points for best answer......
(This should be interesting!)

2006-10-12 16:58:05 · 6 answers · asked by Sweetea 4 in Family

whats the thing in a guy that women look for the most.Put another way what in a guy makes you really want him to be with you.

2006-10-12 16:57:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

nail polish on my girlfriends toes to dry evenly. I have tried getting in my knees and blowing gently on it but it doesn't work too well. This is a nightly ritual I must perform so I need to get it right, otherwise she makes it very painful for me.

2006-10-12 16:57:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 16:55:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 16:55:45 · 12 answers · asked by LO 2 in Family

2006-10-12 16:55:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have no doubts about marrying him; i would've never said yes if I did. He's been this way from day one; i loved him then, I love him now, i'll love him tomorrow. It's more that I am worried about him. I want him to be around forever, and to be happy with me, with life, with us, and it makes me feel inadequate that he doesn't seem to always feel that way . . . You don't walk away from someone you love because there may be something wrong. Love never fails.

2006-10-12 16:54:38 · 7 answers · asked by at_thebuzzer 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have this friend who never respects me and does all these awful things to get me back. She treats me like a back up friend that will always be there waiting, shes awful. When we get in fights, its because she refuses to listen to my side of the story, and somehow twists it to make it seem like my fault. She says I expect her to do all these things for me, and I do. I expect her to be a good friend, i expect her to listen to me, I expect her to give a ****. And So I try to find ways to see if shes realy my friends, and she says that testing your friends are immoral!!!! can u belive that!!!! When we get fight, and she ends up saying sorry, its hard for me. you know to forgive her, its hard to let go of the memory of betrayal and she doesnt seem to get that. I know it seems like im just venting so heres the real wuestion. How can I save this relationship?

2006-10-12 16:52:53 · 17 answers · asked by furyfluf 1 in Friends

Why or why not?

2006-10-12 16:52:17 · 5 answers · asked by pureessence 2 in Family

I am 20 and he is 24.My brother thinks i'm too young to be dating.When I try to point out the fact that at my age he got married, he dismisses it. The guy is respectable and is exactly what my brother would want me to have if it wasn't his friend.How can I get him to look past the fact that i'm his sister and just be happy for me?

2006-10-12 16:51:47 · 7 answers · asked by lucky girl 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do you like guys with boobs. Not pecks but they few guys who have fat around their nipple that almost look like a girls' boob. Is that a turn on? I'm just curious.

2006-10-12 16:51:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating