You see there is a girl i have a crush on in 9th world history class. She is smart, very cute ,blue eyes ,bernette hair ,perfect skin and all those features. Each time I want to ask her out, there is that felling you get that you can't do it, you know. All I need is hints and lines when I go up to her to use to convince her that I can be that guy she trust, love, and be loyal to you. Please give as much help and hints from your experience or knowledge or that other stuff as you can.
2006-10-12 17:03:45 · 13 answers · asked by saintsrowfighter 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask her to marry you
2006-10-12 17:05:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is no 'hint' that will convince a girl to go out with you and know that you are the one she can "trust and love", that comes while dating not when you just ask her out. The tried and tested 'line' is the simplest - "Do you feel like going see a movie this weekend?". Don't be weird about asking her out like start quoting poetry or something, just be straight up about it, a lot of girls get guys being weird and they (ok maybe not all girls) just want a normal bloke to ask them out.
I don't know what 9th class is, are you old enough to drink? I presume not but another one is simply "Do you feel like going for a drink Saturday night?"...this one is good because if she is not sure about you she might be more inclined to meet you somewhere she can bring her friends for support and you should show up with no more than 2 of your friends also.
2006-10-12 17:20:03 · answer #2 · answered by Kicks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you need is some confidence boosters. Wear clothes you feel confident in. Get a makeover etc...
Try listening to music that, you know, get's you pumped!
Try just talking to her first. Like let her warm up to you first. talk to her friends too. Hopefully they aren't beezys.
Also think about it.It's no big deal. You're young! you don't have much to lose. If she says no you didn't lose much. just don't be a pussy about it in public. Just act like it's cool and move on. I'm sure there are other hotties at your school. There can't just be one! If you really like this one girl maybe you should try being friends with her. She can come around later on.
2006-10-12 17:10:49 · answer #3 · answered by fancy unicorn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep warming up to it. do u think she has any interest in u? she doesn't have to like likeu, but does she express interest? If not, get to know her better. if she does, get to know her a lot better and come on just ever so slightly stronger. JUST DONT MAKE IT OBVIOUS! maybe play a little hard to get, but don't ignore her. just have lts of friendly conversations w/ her, but not to the point of being annoying. find out more about her beyond her looks- who knows? maybe you will end up even disliking her from that!! but if u stick to this, then u will naturally gradually feel closer and more comfy around her and her around u as well. then u can kinda play it by ear from there. best of luck
2006-10-12 17:10:19 · answer #4 · answered by . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't muster up the courage, and if you fear rejection that much, you aren't a man and you shouldn't waste her time.
don't fear rejection - and don't worry about her rejecting you.
Don't spend 3 weeks comtemplating whether a girl is going to reject you when you can find out the answer in less than 3 seconds.
It all works out In the end. Sometimes somethings weren't meant but you'll never know unless you try.
2006-10-12 17:12:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ask borrow her notes or if she like to study together sometimes. Then that way u can start to get closer by talk withher asking her her likes and dislikes, then maybe u can get her to become ur girlfriend.
Good Luck Sweetie
Maybe she could be ur future wife =-) so be very nice to her
2006-10-12 17:37:01 · answer #6 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing I can say but this.
No matter what you are feeling every time you try to talk to her,
remember this, the feeling you get after she has said yes, is the best feeling in the world.
2006-10-12 17:08:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a few guy who's in my ingenious Writing and Philosophy instructions named Will. he's definitely warm and sensible. he's an english considerable and honors pupil like me and he writes the main eloquent issues in ingenious writing. I also have a weigh down :-)
2016-11-28 02:54:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that the next time you want to ask her out focus on her and take a deep breath and then ask her out i know is hard but you have to face it not matter what.
2006-10-12 17:25:34 · answer #9 · answered by *Cherrytop* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG I HAD THE SAME PROBLEM EXCEPT WITH A BOY I HAD MY FRIENDS TALK 2 HIM I TALKED TO HIS FRIENDS AND WROTE A PERFECT NOTE ASKING HIM 2 GO OUT WITH ME MAYBE YOU CAN DO THE SAME THE NOTE HAS 2 EXPLAIN Y U WANNA GO OUT WITH HER
2006-10-12 17:07:55 · answer #10 · answered by TAVIA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest...just be urself!!! if u really like her then let her know the real you because if she ends up liking your newfound alter ego...then thats not really u is it? she would be liking a fake. just strike up conversation with her. listen to the things she talks about or things u seem to notice about her...And good luck!!!
2006-10-12 17:08:03 · answer #11 · answered by itsurvision 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋