I am a 41yr old male and I have never even had a real kiss, I am getting desperate. What should I do?
2006-10-12 17:08:50 · 12 answers · asked by just me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
two words: lowered expectations
2006-10-12 17:11:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What? Not you? A secret agent? lol just kidding....a real kiss does not happen until there is a real lady. You've probably really short relationships before, and now you're looking to settle down, right? Anyways, go to the library...there's lots of cute chicks in the library! Or you can try going to church, lots of good women are looking for a good man, Good luck!!
2006-10-13 00:15:12 · answer #2 · answered by josiedickelman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know a female 35yrs old who is also a virgin. She's my sister do you want to meet her? She's getting desperate too. Everybody is sick and tired of waiting for her to get married and have some kids. She claims that she's scared to death of meeting bad men. I don't blame her but that biological clock of hers is ticking and I'm sick of hearing it!!!!
Both of you can take baby steps together or better yet, "dive in head first!"
2006-10-13 00:12:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch "The 40 year old virgin", or stop asking questions and go find somebody... unless of course, your 14, because it says you are secret agent 14, and 41 is 14 flipped... if you are 14, go to bed. (if you live in the USA)
2006-10-13 00:11:39 · answer #4 · answered by Drake ☮ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hire someone!! lol joking. Don't be desperate because it shows trust me. I can tell when a mans just desperate, and it's a big turn-off.
2006-10-13 00:12:09 · answer #5 · answered by bird_e80 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go to Vegas get a hook and a room. You can play the slots if you know what i mean.
2006-10-13 00:11:23 · answer #6 · answered by da_Boo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
gee....what r' u doing last 20 years???? there's many real kiss...real kiss from your mum/dad or families or girls or even chicks..dude u must decide it hoho or u lose it
2006-10-13 00:17:18 · answer #7 · answered by the crow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn how to date.. try doubleyourdating.com it helped me.
I pray to Jesus often also.. he brought a girl in my life that i deeply connect wtih. he would also give you direction in life.
24/Los Angeles
"premarital sex creates broken families, broken families creates broken society - a vicious cycle only you can stop."
2006-10-13 00:13:17 · answer #8 · answered by Guy w/ Answers 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are only 14, expect it when you least expect it! It will find you when you are not looking for it!
2006-10-13 00:11:33 · answer #9 · answered by LadyL 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow!! I need more info to tell you what to do!! do u think u are attractive? do u have a good social life? etc. etc.
2006-10-13 00:11:37 · answer #10 · answered by kim 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋