Family & Relationships - 12 October 2006

I live with my boyfriend and we have a 4 year old daughter together. He introduced me to a friend 2 years ago and just recently that friend and i have started seeing each other. I really like this friend a lot and he likes me too, but he will not have a relationship further than dating (w/ benefits) right now because he has a really bad history of being hurt. I talk with him everyday and spend all my free time with him but i still live with my boyfriend. I have tried breaking up with him but he keeps coming back. I tried to be firm and told him i dont want to be with him and he tried to kill his self in my kitchen. After 6 years I still love him but I dont have feelings for him anymore, and if I leave him the friend may not be with me anyway, he likes just being my friend and my benefit....... What do I do??????

2006-10-12 17:55:15 · 11 answers · asked by Laprincessa1182 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 17:55:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have fun on our nights alone, we dont get into anything serious, just messin around. But when he's around he act like an uncle or something. I want this fling to go a lot further than it has, but I'm thinking about calling it off because of the way he's acting. So my question is go further, or forget?

2006-10-12 17:54:43 · 15 answers · asked by just me 1 in Singles & Dating

Everyone tells me that I'm hot ( don't wanna sound all high-ego-ish)...but the thing is...I'm single and I don't kno why....I have a few guy friends and I think one of them might like me but none of them ask me!!! They just act all flirty but never ask!!!!!

WHY??!?!?!?!?!?!?!?

2006-10-12 17:54:28 · 36 answers · asked by Soraya 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 17:53:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I told my husband that I was leaving him because he got caught cheating on me. He was having an affair with a coworker.

We do not have any children. His mistress may be pregnant...

I told him that he had to decide between me and the other woman and he said that he loves both of us...and I didnt think that was fair to me...So I told him that I was leaving...

I packed all of my things...and on my way out HE started CRYING...SOBING...ECT...He told me that he loved me and wanted to work things out....I told him that I loved him...which then led to sex...

Now I feel like it was just fake...an act...him crying I mean...

So...Men...have you ever cried intentionally to recieve sex?

2006-10-12 17:52:51 · 13 answers · asked by Bella 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Of my girlfriend who just broke up with me today because she needed a break to get back with me soon?Me and her both know we are great together. I don't know why she would want to do this.This is KILLING me. I thought we would be together forever...not saying that won't happen tho..

2006-10-12 17:51:20 · 7 answers · asked by DefLeppardxXx 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 17:51:19 · 17 answers · asked by pooter 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I think I have gotten so used to being with him, its more of a comfort zone for me. We met within a year of both of us getting divorced from other people. He works a lot and so do I.
I am tired of feeling like I am in 2nd place. I wanted us to have a life together and start over brand new, but he keeps moving his adult kids in and out of his house. He refuses to move into a home we choose together. I own my own home and he is making payments on his. He still wants to be best buddies with his ex wife and I frankly, I think he spends too much time concerning himself with her. I am afraid of what he could do to me financially if I married him. He is about to send 2 kids to college. I like to have a clean house and car and keep my yard clean and mowed and he just lives like a slob. I am a nurse and he thinks he knows more about health issues than me which is doubtful since I have worked in a hospital for the last 12 yrs. We do have sex and he really is not that good. What to do?

2006-10-12 17:50:46 · 3 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

If she had a male friend, and this friend is not gay?
I ask my boyfriend this question a couple months ago ... He switched the question around and ask me what would i THINK if he had a girl/ friend' ...I tought about it... I didnt like what i was picturing in my mind...i seen his point..But fellas' could there Ever be a way that an attractive female could have a friend of the opposite sex(also attractive)...and be trusted???...How do you men see it?(in your eyes )

2006-10-12 17:50:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

At my lunch table in the cafeteria my "friend" constantly makes fun of me and picks on me in front of 5 other friends at the table. I think he just does it to get a few laughs. And when i said shut up and stuff he would just imitate me? What do I say to him, should i fight him?

2006-10-12 17:50:00 · 23 answers · asked by brandon 1 in Friends

What should I do, if my father refuses to talk to me b/c of an assumption he has? Then to make things worse,he knew I was having surgery for cervial cancer in a few weeks but still avoided me...Keep in mind, that I have tried to reach out but have not gotten a reply..what should I do??? My father and I were very close but when he was not there for me with my surgery, it made me question his love fo his oldest daughter (me). :(

2006-10-12 17:49:12 · 9 answers · asked by denise 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I try and try but can't seem to get along with them, unless I am fake and pretend I like them. Sad I know but will it affect my man and I's relationship, should I keep pretending or come out with it

2006-10-12 17:48:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

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2006-10-12 17:47:49 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Keepin it simple..

I wanna bang this guy....I think he likes me...problem is he's my cousin's ex and also I barely ever see him...I don't kno but all wanna do is bang him not date him...how can i do that guys???

2006-10-12 17:47:34 · 13 answers · asked by Soraya 1 in Singles & Dating

to get to the center of a tootsie pop? What would you do for a klondike bar?

2006-10-12 17:46:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

He will be Fifty Five next month and I am not sure what to get. Last Year for my Fifteenth Birthday he went all out and i would like to do the same thing for him. i love him so much

2006-10-12 17:45:54 · 11 answers · asked by tiffany15 1 in Singles & Dating

What is most attractive on a girl in a physical aspect?
1. Breasts (large or small)
2. Butt
3. Eyes
4. Hips
5. Lips
6. Hair
7. (other)

Please explain

2006-10-12 17:44:09 · 18 answers · asked by just me 1 in Singles & Dating

I just found out I had herpes. My boyfriend is away at basic and will be home the begging of Nov. I want to know should I tell him in a letter or wait till I see him? He has no chance of spreading it while in basic. My concern is what way would be the best? And when I do tell him what do I tell him. Neither I nor him has cheated one of us got it from a previous partener. So how do I tell, what do I say and how do I make sure that he understands I didnt cheat?

2006-10-12 17:42:47 · 13 answers · asked by SunShineBabe 3 in Singles & Dating

Who thinks the Yahoo! Answers Best Answer picture that you receive when one of your answers has been selected as a Best Answer, you know, the women sitting on the couch with the laptop and her feet in front of her...does she have some hot looking feet or what?

2006-10-12 17:42:42 · 8 answers · asked by cardinalfanusa 3 in Singles & Dating

Where's a good place for singles to go hang out in the chicagoland area???

2006-10-12 17:42:09 · 7 answers · asked by denise 2 in Singles & Dating

Having a significant other to love adds the real colour to life and bringsa great joy and happiness.True or false.

2006-10-12 17:42:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he's 17 and he acts like he's ready but i'm not what do i do

2006-10-12 17:40:46 · 15 answers · asked by sexygothgirl101 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am not attracted at all and he kills romance when he doesn't brush his teeth and then tries to kiss me. When I don't kiss him he gets very mad at me and says I shouldn't care and he doesn't care if I didnt' brush mine. Is it just me or is this gross? I don't know why he doesn't care or want to brush his teeth. I tell him to and he gets mad or says I brushed them yesterday. HELP!

2006-10-12 17:38:49 · 47 answers · asked by tina*21 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Is my husband pretending he's with the girls in the magazine when he's having sex with me?

2006-10-12 17:37:23 · 18 answers · asked by curiousin08 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I leave a trail of Hersheys kisses from the front door to the master bathroom in which the tub is overflowing with roses and a little card that says "now that ive kissed the ground you walk on, and showered you with roses, will you marry me?

2006-10-12 17:36:20 · 19 answers · asked by Savant 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Just wondering.

2006-10-12 17:36:08 · 13 answers · asked by seven_omega_4 2 in Family

I was with my ex for 2 yrs , everyday. We did everything together. We went to the club,danced,fought,smoked weed, drank,ate and even bathed together.He could roll a j real well, and he was good in bed, he had a muffin butt.I have a son with him and we were going to get married.but he got deported. Now I am with someone else and I find myself talking about him all the time.I s that bad , what does that mean?

2006-10-12 17:35:48 · 8 answers · asked by primamaria04 5 in Singles & Dating

Im 16, and have been a Wiccan for 3 years now, and studying for 4. I want to tell my parents that I am Wiccan but they are Concervative Christian and I asked my mom what she would do if one of her children were of a differnt religion, she said she wouldnt let them. But saying one thing and Doing another is 2 differnt things. I wouldnt change my lifestyle or act any differnt, just stop having to be so secrect about it. How can I tell them?

2006-10-12 17:35:27 · 15 answers · asked by Jimmi H 2 in Family

if my recent ex-girl is going some where with ehr new girl and i am going to the same place with my new girl what should i do if we run in to each other and would it be wrong if i go knowing that she is going to be there

2006-10-12 17:34:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating