I try and try but can't seem to get along with them, unless I am fake and pretend I like them. Sad I know but will it affect my man and I's relationship, should I keep pretending or come out with it
2006-10-12 17:48:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Talk to him about it. Communication is the key here. If you want to have a good relationship with him, let him know how you're feeling. This doesn't have to be just with this, it should be with everything.
2006-10-12 17:51:07 · answer #1 · answered by yblur 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be pretending always that you can go along with them...be yourself what makes you happy and also tell your bf about it in that way he will know..and he can look other ways on how you can get along with his friend. Express yourself.
2006-10-12 17:54:08 · answer #2 · answered by jacky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in this situation you have to keep pretending. it will gert him angry if you say you dont like them. he will take it as though theres something about him you dont like. guys can be weird with friends and girlfriends at the same time. it depends on how often he sees and hangs out with them since he started seeing you. maybe you are jealous of the connection he has with them and they are jealous of the time she spends with you? just a thought though
2006-10-12 17:52:44 · answer #3 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your relationship between you and your boyfriend that you have to consider. If you really can't deal with his friends, you may have to tell him that you want to be with him, not his friends. You may also want to consider telling him that if you're going out on a date with him, it's with him and no friends along. In any case, you have to be consistent with your own feelings. Acting like you can deal with his friends is more likely to make you nervous, irritable and resentful towards him -- not his friends.
2006-10-12 17:52:58 · answer #4 · answered by eriurana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should try finding a thing you have in commin with
if they dont have no commin with you then maybe just tell you boyf or if your afraid to tell him then i dont know what to do
2006-10-12 18:02:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on why you don't like them. Do they like you? Maybe you're just a little jealous of them. Try harder.
2006-10-12 17:51:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should tell him to keep his friends and his gf seperate because of this so he will have to split himself
2006-10-12 17:51:17 · answer #7 · answered by muthafaka8o8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋