I think I have gotten so used to being with him, its more of a comfort zone for me. We met within a year of both of us getting divorced from other people. He works a lot and so do I.
I am tired of feeling like I am in 2nd place. I wanted us to have a life together and start over brand new, but he keeps moving his adult kids in and out of his house. He refuses to move into a home we choose together. I own my own home and he is making payments on his. He still wants to be best buddies with his ex wife and I frankly, I think he spends too much time concerning himself with her. I am afraid of what he could do to me financially if I married him. He is about to send 2 kids to college. I like to have a clean house and car and keep my yard clean and mowed and he just lives like a slob. I am a nurse and he thinks he knows more about health issues than me which is doubtful since I have worked in a hospital for the last 12 yrs. We do have sex and he really is not that good. What to do?
2006-10-12 17:50:46 · 3 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Oooo! Do you really need to ask? Run as fast as you can to the nearest exit! Take a break and then try dating again. Join a social club and try to find someone else. You might even be better off with no one. Sorry.
2006-10-12 17:59:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know what to do, and you're asking us to affirm what you already know. It's over, move on.
2006-10-12 17:57:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIND A NEW MAN!!!!! I DONT KNOW WHY U STAYED!
2006-10-12 17:56:59 · answer #3 · answered by bleudivabubbles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋