he's 17 and he acts like he's ready but i'm not what do i do
2006-10-12 17:40:46 · 15 answers · asked by sexygothgirl101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
just say....I'm not ready to have sex with you !
2006-10-12 17:42:13 · answer #1 · answered by Diamond in the Rough 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
look, if he truly loves you then he will understand your feelings on not being sexually active. most guys just use there girlfriends for sex and when they don't want to do it then they say, "wel I will dump you if you don't" thats when yuo can tell if he is useing you for his own pleasures. not saying your boyfriend is like that but you nver know, so tell him that you don't feel that you are ready for to have sex. if he trys to pressure you in any way dump him. don't be used. I have been used by guys like this and in the end it only leads to tears.
2006-10-13 00:47:09 · answer #2 · answered by angela w 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. Tell him you're not ready. If he really cares about you, he should understand.
2. Depending on where you live and assuming you're younger than he is, both of you may be under the legal age of consent. While "statuatory rape" is not always pursued when both people are under the age of consent, all you need is one upset parent to endanger your whole relationship unless you can wait.
2006-10-13 00:45:27 · answer #3 · answered by eriurana 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him "what part of NO didn't U understand..." that's not a question by the way.
you could do the reverse psychology thing & say "fine yes, OK.- but don't blame me if i dump you tomorrow."
even after he take you up on that, or calls your bluff, U can still say NO.
2006-10-13 00:56:57 · answer #4 · answered by carbazon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont feel pressured into it.
You dont want to spoil it by doing it when you're not ready. You just need to say to him that you're not ready yet, that you're not going to be pressured into it and if he cares about you he'll wait.
2006-10-13 00:50:05 · answer #5 · answered by honkytonkface 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you to shy , I can tell him "you are not ready" just tell him.
2006-10-13 00:44:51 · answer #6 · answered by Toto 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Say, "I am not ready to have sex".
2006-10-13 00:42:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him your not ready for all that yet, if he can't respect that, then he doesnt respect you.
2006-10-13 00:57:42 · answer #8 · answered by Kymmie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him. He doesn't give a damn about you if he insists. All he is interested in is his own pleasure. Tell him to get lost and then tell your parents. You deserve better.
2006-10-13 00:43:32 · answer #9 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just say no! If he really loves you he will honor your choice.
2006-10-13 00:45:14 · answer #10 · answered by Lora D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋