We have fun on our nights alone, we dont get into anything serious, just messin around. But when he's around he act like an uncle or something. I want this fling to go a lot further than it has, but I'm thinking about calling it off because of the way he's acting. So my question is go further, or forget?
2006-10-12 17:54:43 · 15 answers · asked by just me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First, get out. He is too old and you are too young. I don't want to hear about " Age is just a number" crap either. What do you two have in common? Other than the fact that you can see him in jail. Or he is the same age as your father. You need to experience life and he needs to stop shopping at BABY'S R US.
2006-10-12 18:06:49 · answer #1 · answered by Wanting to know 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should forget not so much because of the age thing (even though that should be considered) but because if he is acting like an uncle or just a family member, then maybe he feels remorse or a lil bad for being with you. If you really want to know then call it off and if he protests then maybe he does want to be with you. Also he might be waiting until you turn 18 to go any further with you he might just be showing you his reserve so he doesn't over take you
2006-10-13 01:00:40 · answer #2 · answered by Laprincessa1182 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FORGET IT!
Why would this grown man want to get with you? Sorry--I just have been in that situation too many times to count. I worked at a company for two years where I was constantly hit on by 30+ old guys. I liked the attention but soon realized I shouldn't get it in those ways.
I went over to the guys house one night when he called--and was almost raped. These men are molesters. They aren't in it for the relationship but are in it for the thrill. They like the idea that even though they are old they can still get a (young) girl interested.
Watch out before it gets too serious and you can't get out. Best of Luck!
2006-10-13 01:00:07 · answer #3 · answered by .vato. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm..eewwwwwww, Why would you wanna be with someone old enough to be your dad anyway? If you were 32 would you wanna date 17 year old kid, and what the H does a 32 year old man have in common with a 17 year old girl. If your daughter was 17 would you et her have a bf who is 32?
2006-10-13 00:58:15 · answer #4 · answered by twysty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is acting like an uncle then he already knows your too young. You may want it to go further but it looks like he doen't. If he did then it would have cause he would have tried something by now.
Before you both get hurt and ruin your friendship you should end it.
2006-10-13 01:08:41 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is only one reason why a guy twice your age wants to have fun with you and unless you secretly what to get to know your Uncle, really well, then chances are good that it won't last long enough to find out his address!
2006-10-13 01:02:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget that! There are many single guys your age who would love to go out with you, and there are many single women in their 30s who would love to go out with him. Why do you want to go out with someone who's old enough to be your father? Then again, my mom is young enough to be my father's daughter (the age gap is 28 years). But I don't think you have a good future ahead of you if you stick with the old guy. He will probably die much sooner than you. Not to mention that what you have in mind is very illegal. Good luck!
2006-10-13 01:05:17 · answer #7 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget it! What is a 32 year old doing hanging out with a 17 year old? He shoud be on dateline as a sexual preditor. I'm sure you can find someone your age that you have a lot in common with.
2006-10-13 01:04:50 · answer #8 · answered by saiahg22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget it....He's perv material..... He is to old to even look at you in a sexual way. Your 17, who's to say he won't stop messing with you and mess with someone younger? He needs to quit, he know your fling is wrong just as well as you.
2006-10-13 01:02:57 · answer #9 · answered by Kymmie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, u better run hard and fast away from this man. I was in the same situation yrs ago and it never dawned on me until we divorced that he wanted a little girl to have fun with. RUN! RUN! RUN!
2006-10-13 01:18:21 · answer #10 · answered by GREG G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋