Family & Relationships - 9 October 2006

This is embarrassing so I wish for girls only to answer please. I have no one to ask.

My fiance and I decid to remain virgins until we marry two years. It is our religion. We are not supposed to be alone together but sometimes we do. He always ask me stimulate him with my hands and mouth and he touche me everywhere. I tried to stop him many times because of our vow, but he say it is not sex and it is all right to do. The first time he touch me, he push hard and there was little blood and pain. He say sorry but keep to do. How I tell him stop or is OK what he is doing?

2006-10-09 22:28:45 · 13 answers · asked by hoho 2 in Singles & Dating

my bf cheated on me what should i do ??????

2006-10-09 22:28:34 · 36 answers · asked by x Jessicaa x 1 in Singles & Dating

My partner is going through depression, however if i ask her questions about her day, and what shes being doing i'm intrograting her. If i dont ask then i'm uncaring. How can I win?.ie she never mentioned seeing the doctor yesterday, so a bit shocked that shes been signed of sick for a week!. never said a word, the lack of communication isn't helping this fragile relationship.

2006-10-09 22:27:41 · 18 answers · asked by wondergeezer 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

Lately, my boyfriend is really short with me. He hardly ever tells me how he feels. He says he loves me, but thats it. How can I get him to be more open and vocal?

2006-10-09 22:26:54 · 4 answers · asked by Ashleigh 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi,my boyfriend is on ship right now,military.,we email each other everyday and i havent heard from him in like 3 days,he always email me from his work address,but he hasnt email me yet,i checked on his page on myspace and it says last time he logged in was today,he doesnt know i know he has a page and he has many girls on his page added as friends.But i havent seen anything yet to make me not trust him.why hes not sending me messages all of a sudden?everything was fine.

2006-10-09 22:26:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

So there is this guy I like, who's my friend, he's 10+ years older than me. We've gone out a couple of times and have had long conversations that lasted for hours about everything from our deepest secrets to relationships. He's given me signs that made it seems like he likes me, for instance, the way he smiles at me then kinda looks away, the teasing, things like that. Anyway, we laugh and joke around with each other all the time. There were times when he would find excuses to touch me, like my hand or my back. It kinda surprised me because I saw him as a very shy, and kept to himself type person.

Now the weird thing is, we have friends who are between my age and his age. Whenever we are around the people closer to his age, he tends to shy off and we don't really talk, but when it's people closer to my age, we act how we do when we're alone. I don't get him. He's told me that the youngest he would date is 25, but his actions speak differently.

Please, I'm in need of advice. Thx

2006-10-09 22:26:05 · 2 answers · asked by CROWN_PRINCESS 1 in Singles & Dating

(pls dont say love.affection,care etc which i already given)my budget is 1500 to 2000rs

2006-10-09 22:24:54 · 20 answers · asked by crazy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my wife left me for another man and took all furnitue in the house i was left with nothin appart from joint debt witch she has refused to pay.i had to take out a iva.I have been turned down for legal aid but can not afford the divorce canse of the debt.my solitor dosnt seem to want to help me.I had to move away from my home town due to threats as her new boyfriend is involved in crime.

2006-10-09 22:24:52 · 20 answers · asked by adrian c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

please serious answer

2006-10-09 22:24:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Tell me, I don't know.

2006-10-09 22:23:11 · 3 answers · asked by cucumis_sativus 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Rob is better than me. He made two girls laugh. I am jealous, because i am a loner and nobody likes me. Please help. I want to be like him. and know how to flirt properly.

2006-10-09 22:22:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of a year and a half decided that day after I broke up with him would come to my house at 3a.m. and tell his best friend, who happened to become a best friend of mine during our relationship, that he was in love with her. He was scared to come get his stuff from my house, but he could annouce that to her in my yard. So, now I want to be friends with her, but at the same time it breaks my heart to know the man I was in love with never loved me..and our whole relationship was a lie. So, what do you think.. do I still remain friends with her.. or do I let her go?

2006-10-09 22:19:47 · 12 answers · asked by lacymichelle38901 2 in Friends

2006-10-09 22:18:34 · 11 answers · asked by gila_paulineling 1 in Singles & Dating

hello all
my 33yr old cousin passed away on saturday morning which is my dads brothers son,now i do not get on with my dad or his wife, so should i go to the funeral and say my goodbyes to my cousin or should i stay away as my dad will be there and i do not want to cause a scene ????????

2006-10-09 22:17:22 · 20 answers · asked by gosport girl 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I met my boyfriend on the 4/9/06 and im moving in with him on the 22/10/06 are we rushing things.

2006-10-09 22:14:35 · 13 answers · asked by tracey a 2 in Singles & Dating

were can i get suport. am alone and have split from my bf after 2 years. were can i get support from?

2006-10-09 22:14:04 · 15 answers · asked by sherry 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

can i know is....... mr. bean or james bond .....which personality
.....does women likes.....in a man

2006-10-09 22:13:55 · 9 answers · asked by firu 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-09 22:13:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I bf split from me yesterday after 2 years togther. He didn't actually say its over but i said if you walk away its over. He was drunk at the time. We have been having problems but i know he loves me. I can't deal or cope with this. Im 17 and never away from him. I'm finding it hard to cope by myself. He won't answer my calls and has now turned his phone off. I'm lost. i havn't no friends or a familly to talk to. what can i do? please help i cant stop crying

2006-10-09 22:12:03 · 29 answers · asked by sherry 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

actually, none of us has a problem...we just can't figure out why we can't have a baby...does it have something to do with the position? or....etc. Any advice please??

2006-10-09 22:10:58 · 16 answers · asked by krave t 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i like a person whos in a diff. class
i need 2 make him notice me n make frnds wid him
wot can i do
pleez give ans exept 'concentrate on ur studies' pleez'

2006-10-09 22:08:15 · 10 answers · asked by aakanksha 2 in Singles & Dating

When a guy says that he doesnt like to make plans/arrange things eg dates, because he never knows whats going to happen, what does he really mean???

2006-10-09 22:06:29 · 35 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Singles & Dating

You're dating someone who you are into.....YET...they come up to you one day & say....

I just want to be friends
We are better off friends
or
I am just not commited to this relationship like I need to be....

OR
The best one of them all........

It isnt you....it's me....

How does it make you feel to hear these....IF you have heard them before...

If you havent heard them...but have said them....how do you think you made the person feel?

Just curious...I know I have felt kind of like I was lost on the fact that we were having problems....but I later found it was because he cheated & got her pregnant....lol...

2006-10-09 22:05:59 · 15 answers · asked by mysticfairy74 5 in Singles & Dating

i had a baby about 2 weeks ago and she was 2 months premature....she is doing fine now but it was neck and neck there for a while the only thing is now my boyfriend the father of the child has run out on me and left me to do the whole deal on my own...i was kicked out of home and was living with him but now that he has left me i am living at home again the only thing how can i cope without him and his support he was so good through the whole pregnancy up until now what do i do without him how can i cope??

2006-10-09 22:05:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

For unusual evening type dress tht would be suitable for a wedding dress (but not white?)

2006-10-09 22:03:39 · 3 answers · asked by emily_jane2379 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Wat r the ways to seduce a guy mentally as well as physically?

2006-10-09 22:02:16 · 19 answers · asked by jyoti 1 in Singles & Dating

About 3 months ago, I lost a good friend of mine. We used to text each other all day everyday. The night of his death, I had a dream that my phone was going off...playing his ringtone. I could hear it so clear. IIn my dream i was actually asleep , and woke up to the phone going off. I look and it is a message. It says " Hey darlin. Im okay. Its all a misunderstanding. I will see you again soon i swear." Over and over all night i had this dream. I kept waking up and looking at my phone....I would like to think that it was his way of letting me know that he is alright. Trying to comfort me in some way or another. What do you think??

2006-10-09 22:02:10 · 4 answers · asked by Simply Complicated 2 in Friends

Well here's the deal....Earlier today i called my man on the phone,And his mother picked up.I was being real nice to her, And all of a sudden she say's Antonio isn't there, and isn't going to be there.But I knew he had work this morning,So anyway's Usually he get's online to speak to me before work,So i hit him up like normal.So she is on his name, And i didn't know it was her...So i hit him up and i'm like..."WOW YOU BEEN ON ALL NIGHT DONT YOU GOT WORK?"....and she say's "GET OFF MY COMPUTER SCREEN"..So i'm thinking Antonio Is mad at me about something..And I didn't like the way she came at me..But i was thinking he was the one comming at me like that, So supposely i cursed out her, Thinking it was him, And now i'm scared to call him or even pm him...What would you do in this case?..Any suggestions?

2006-10-09 22:01:02 · 13 answers · asked by mizz_tooshort 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-09 22:00:42 · 7 answers · asked by hugh_cheung 2 in Singles & Dating

My 3 year old daughters picture is on a persons My Space site and this person did not ask me if it was ok first. This is not a relative or a friend ,and I have asked her many times politely to remove them.

2006-10-09 21:59:17 · 9 answers · asked by Giselle 1 in Family