Well here's the deal....Earlier today i called my man on the phone,And his mother picked up.I was being real nice to her, And all of a sudden she say's Antonio isn't there, and isn't going to be there.But I knew he had work this morning,So anyway's Usually he get's online to speak to me before work,So i hit him up like normal.So she is on his name, And i didn't know it was her...So i hit him up and i'm like..."WOW YOU BEEN ON ALL NIGHT DONT YOU GOT WORK?"....and she say's "GET OFF MY COMPUTER SCREEN"..So i'm thinking Antonio Is mad at me about something..And I didn't like the way she came at me..But i was thinking he was the one comming at me like that, So supposely i cursed out her, Thinking it was him, And now i'm scared to call him or even pm him...What would you do in this case?..Any suggestions?
2006-10-09 22:01:02 · 13 answers · asked by mizz_tooshort 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
mmmmm i dont get along with the mother in law i just ignore her now..... in your case, you have obviously done something to offend her, i would either go to the house when your boyfriend Is NOT there and have it out with her. or if you are to scared to do that. I would text your boyfriend acting normal as if nothing has happend, and then take it from there. dont worry yourself over it, just act normal.......
2006-10-09 22:04:45 · answer #1 · answered by chicken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) stop talking like that! i can hardly make any sense out of you!
2) i think if you have already told your b/f you should all get together and try and sort it out. she might not like you because some mothers get jealous and think you are gonna take their "baby" away. They cant help it its a mum thing not all mums are like that though, just try and be patient. dont throw a fit either, i think that she wants you to go mad so she can say to your b/f she whats shes like. just be calm if she swears at you, dont swear back etc. dont let her see that she has got to you. but try to talk to your b/f about it.
if you do try this get together thing and it dont work, fvck her! let her get on with it. make sure she stays out of your relationship too, she might try to ruin that soon if she carries on!
Good Luck xXx
2006-10-09 22:08:39 · answer #2 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does she know your screen name? my mom ended up talking to one of my friends online because she didn't know what the thing was that kept popping up while she was using the computer. he probably jeft left on the messanger and your message popped up. so she just wanted it to stop and typed in for it to go away.
do you call him even though you know he will not be home? maybe if you call a lot its the constant phone ringing that bothers her.
just wait for him to call you and explain everything. maybe she had a bad day or something. if you don't call him he should call you eventually. i wouldn't worry too much about it.
2006-10-09 22:08:38 · answer #3 · answered by anonymous 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off nobody bf/gf's mom likes them your taking over a place they feel is there own. Just be honest about it and tell her the truth. Try not to use so much slang when you talk to her you come off as trashy and nobody mom wants to think there child dating a low life. be good and God bless.
2006-10-09 22:07:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heads up. This is the kind of thing you will have to look forward to, for the rest of your life, if you settle for Antonio.
Open up your eyes and look around. There are lots of fish in the sea.
2006-10-09 22:20:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off she was wrong if she was poseing as him , and if it was him then you dont need that fool . You know mamas boys aint no good anyways .
2006-10-09 22:05:44 · answer #6 · answered by Giselle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is mom using son's screen name? You don't really know who you chatted with. Have a talk with your boyfriend when you know its him - face to face. .... p.s. Don't skip anymore English classes.
2006-10-09 22:05:31 · answer #7 · answered by farahwonderland2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you REALLY love your boyfriend, make her (bf's mother) feel that you really lover her son, let her son love you. It will work
2006-10-09 22:08:32 · answer #8 · answered by Shengjie Su 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she will never like you have to get use to it.Yes call him fine out what is going here.He may not be worth it...move on
2006-10-09 22:06:09 · answer #9 · answered by Connie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can only explain and the rest is up to him.
2006-10-09 22:07:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋