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Question

I bf split from me yesterday after 2 years togther. He didn't actually say its over but i said if you walk away its over. He was drunk at the time. We have been having problems but i know he loves me. I can't deal or cope with this. Im 17 and never away from him. I'm finding it hard to cope by myself. He won't answer my calls and has now turned his phone off. I'm lost. i havn't no friends or a familly to talk to. what can i do? please help i cant stop crying

Answer 1

Leave him alone for a bit and see if he comes back. This way he is most likely to.

Answer 2

You have written with your heart and not with your mind. Now if you can stop crying and bring your mind into play, things will begin to look a lot different you know. Your mind will ask a few tough questions to your heart and the truthful answers to these questions will let you know how to handle the situation. For instance…what is a 17-year-old girl doing with a drunkard guy and that too for two years??? So you were just 15 when you gave this guy your heart??? In two years at the tender age of 17 he made you CRY…in another two years at sweet 19 he may make you DIE…THINK ABOUT IT!!! What do you mean, “I haven’t no friends or a family to talk to.” They are all there; you just closed you heart on them. There are millions of lovely people out there don’t give away your heart to the first guy who comes along. Join a group of young people your age freak-out, have fun, learn how to survive in this big bad world…First find SMILE discard cry, continue with EDUCATION work towards GOOD HEALTH, then meet WEALTH…eventually LOVE will come along bringing PEACE and HAPPINESS. Some of these guys may pop in and out of your life, however, never, ever discard SMILE. Cheer-up!!! If you are feeling better drop me a line (Don’t worry, I am Very Happily Married) at [e-mail]

Answer 3

This will seem hard for you to cope with at this present time. with any relationship that is not working out as you may have hoped can be really stressful.
your partner has only recently left and it has dented your confidence try and use the time to build your confidence and self esteem up.
with no family/friends support it may seem harder but you could try a counseling service like relate, that may be able to help you deal with the emotions you are feeling, they will be able to guide you forward, which will help you progress in feeling more equipped to deal with your situation.
in the mean time try to keep yourself occupied by joining a gym or any sport that you can gain some social interaction studying is a way of meeting more people.
Try not to look at it that it must have been something wrong about you, or run yourself down as too many people do. Recognize that the reason for the breakdown may have been nothing to do with you but more to do with where your partner was at and maybe how they had changed.
I wish you well for your future.

Answer 4

hun you will be fine. hurts the most the 1st time.
you must have family to talk to and even if you havent there are lines to speak to and maybe teachers or a friend ? you would be surprised at who is good at listening! maybe join some groups so you can at least get some company.
If he has walked away from you hes not worth it and you are only 17 and have plenty of time to get a new better man!!!!
take a deep breath go out and have fun like a 17year old should be im only 25 and still remember the way i felt the 1st time i had a relationship end, and honestly you will be fine, keep busy and dont pander to him, if he walks away from you then hes not worth it, obviously i dont know the story but i would move on and be brave, good luckxxxxxxxx

Answer 5

Allow the situation to cool off for a week, maximum two. If he is
at all interested, let him call you. Now, if he does nothing it means
that, either he is interested in someone else and does not know
how to tell you, or that he has completely lost interest in you.
A guy that does that, does not deserve your attention so move
on. Go out with a girlfriend and lead a normal life. Sitting at home
waiting for a phone call is crazy because you will never fully trust
him as you did before. I wish you good luck and happiness.

Answer 6

You have my sympathy. Every day will get less painful although you may not think that right now. Keep busy, there are many people who would appreciate your company and joining a club or voluntary organisation would get you out and distract you from your upset until you feel strong enough to deal with it. Try to get back in touch with friends/family if you can, when you count on one person to supply all your emotional needs as you have, it leaves a space that's too big to fill if they go. Good luck honey x

Answer 7

.Though you may not want to hear these words, you are quite young and therefore it is best to see this as an experience which you should not repeat. I, Luke, know the full pain of being rejected by somebody I love and though it will take a lot of time you do need to realise that you cannot depend on a man for your happiness. You say you don't have many friends or family - perhaps you should focus on making some instead of on this boy who clearly isn't worth your time.

Answer 8

Stop crying love..

Try not to be so dependant on a guy at this time in your life. I can guarentee that he will come back to you if you just let him be.. dont try to stalk him or anything, it will make him snap & maybe stop loving you. Take this as an opportunity to have a break. Spend some quality time with your friends or family. If he doesn't come back to you.. there will be more.. youre young, relax.
Try to accept rejection.. its part of life. It is very healthy to accept rejection sometimes & learn to deal with it. It will make you a stronger & wiser person next time around.

Good Luck.. Smile!

Answer 9

You are still very young, there are many more decent men out there. You should take your time and remember that a big part of growing up is learning to live and be by yourself. It will mean that when you do meet Mr Right you will not be so dependant on him and have a more balanced and loving relationship.

Answer 10

Never give an ultimatum you are not ready to stand behind. Considering that he was intoxicated at the time, and probably acting a little foolish, take some time, and talk to him, apologize for telling him to make a choice when he was unable to be responsible, and stay Positive, Good luck.

Answer 11

Love is the answer to everything. All you ever need is love,
communication and understanding. That's what I figured out so
far. If you are down, you need to get up and start doing something with
your life. Don't need to be shy, be straight forward and allways say what
you want and expect from the others.


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