Hi,my boyfriend is on ship right now,military.,we email each other everyday and i havent heard from him in like 3 days,he always email me from his work address,but he hasnt email me yet,i checked on his page on myspace and it says last time he logged in was today,he doesnt know i know he has a page and he has many girls on his page added as friends.But i havent seen anything yet to make me not trust him.why hes not sending me messages all of a sudden?everything was fine.
2006-10-09 22:26:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i am really going crazy,i love him and i have been waiting for him for 4 months already,i dont know how to feel about the girls on myspace,should i send him a freind request or would i look like i have been investigating him.I just dont wanna look like a punk.
2006-10-09 22:36:06 · update #1
i must add we are gettin married when he gets back and he always sends me like 4 emails everyday and tells me how much he loves me....i dont know whats going on?
2006-10-09 22:49:21 · update #2
No offense...... typical .. females always over think, over analyze, look for hidden meanings in everything.
Just remember guys are simple, girls are complicated.
Guys don't send hidden messages or even try to be complicated.
He probably just forgot to email you, or was unable to access his work Email. If any real suspicious actvity occurs, than investigate.
Remember that guys don't always think of others or the emotions of others unless it directly affects them, (which in this case, probably not because of the distance between you)
Just relax.. this means nothing YET
GOOD LUCK AND THERE ARE MORE FISH IN THE SEA!!!
*remember to choose a best answer
2006-10-09 22:35:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to send him mail and find out if everything is alright... Maybe he has been unable to send due to a technical fault or something.. the best u can do is ask him when last he was able to connect to internet, if he lies, then u know something's up. if he tells the truth (as in he was able to log in, good). just dont start concluding things.
Join his "myspace" but pretend to be someone else... just seem so interesting...u know what he likes n see how it goes
2006-10-09 22:40:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just send him 1 email, if he dont reply, dont send him anymore, if he replies dont email back straight away otherwise he will probably think your sitting at your screen all day everyday waiting for the pop up saying u have a new message. dont look to eager, when/if u do reply say sorry i have been a bit busy i didnt have any time to check my emails untill just now, play him at his own game!
If you send him this 1 email and he dont send you one back, i wouldnt bother with him honey. i wouldnt be happy that he has girls on his myspace as it is!!!
Good Luck i hope he replies xXx
2006-10-09 22:32:40 · answer #3 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send him a message asking why. just dont get all obsessed and send tons of emails. it might push him away. maybe he logged on but didnt have time to email..or he had trouble with myspace as its always screwing up ya know
2006-10-09 22:29:10 · answer #4 · answered by spunky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MMMMmmm poor honey, just let go angel, have you ever heard the phrase
"he is just not that in to you?" well that's it, if you want to be treated like a second best, hang on. If you looking for someone to treat you like the absolutely fabulous person you are, move on...I would - don't settle for second best, you'll just end up missing out on the ones who'll spoil you to death and carry you on their hands.
2006-10-09 22:46:20 · answer #5 · answered by mortierella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y girls are so doubtful and don't trust guys, no body understands that not even girls also.
what if he didn't send u mail? may be just logged in and logged out just in seconds due to some reasons n couldn't mail you,
I suggest you to ask him straight away, rather creeping about it, if somethign fishy is there you know sooner the better for u to know that.
And if nothing is there, then for God sake let him breath, give him space.
2006-10-09 22:36:41 · answer #6 · answered by aarshi72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he may be busy on tha ship. but if he comes on the page every day and does not responds you that means he is up to sumthin with sumone else.
but before you make a decision keep waiting and keep riting him daily if he dosnt responds back after a month leave him and tell him you dont depend on him
2006-10-09 22:32:57 · answer #7 · answered by sunny k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont get worked up over nothing.If there is no proof please dont go looking for trouble.You know absence makes the heart grow fonder....dont worry when he emails you the feeling will be so noce because you will have missed each other for a while and will have so much to say......say hi when he emails.
2006-10-09 22:34:28 · answer #8 · answered by Mikillah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that sucks... leave him a myspace comment on that secret page saying "Adios sucka"
2006-10-09 22:37:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't say anything right now!!
he don't know....that you know...that he got a myspace.... keep your cool for a sec and save his slow response time in yo mental roladex, sweetie!!
get more info/evidence...whatever ...before you go there.
you get time to cool down....and it gives him a chance to respond to you before you snap at him!!
if it turns out to be nuthin to worry about...you'll be happy you didn't get foolish with him...
even if the outcome were to be bad... you have time to think of the perfect parting words....instead of crazy lady talk!!!
give him (and yourself) a break- just don't over-react!!!
2006-10-09 22:38:30 · answer #10 · answered by melig26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋