my bf cheated on me what should i do ??????
2006-10-09 22:28:34 · 36 answers · asked by x Jessicaa x 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump him...
2006-10-09 22:38:43 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to do what your heart tells you, If you can feel that you are able to move on from this and trust him then go for it, You never know it may make you too stronger as a couple, but if you will always have doubt and have any doubt in the trust that you have then maybe its best that you finish the rel, You have to make the desicision to what best suits you, i have know people to stay together after affairs and they don't get along because the trust is not there anymore, the other person feels that they are being punished the whole time and that can just lead to much unhappiness to the both of them. If you decide to stay together than you really have to forget it properly to be able to move on from this and be happy together............good luck
2006-10-09 22:37:16 · answer #2 · answered by blondegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in these situations too many times but each time I have learnt a little bit.
Don't go back to him, I know it's hard and the temptation is too great but don't. Do it for yourself and your pride. If you go back to him you will always have in the back of your mind if he will do it again and you will start to become very paronoid.
Spend sometime with your friends and family, pick up a hobby, do a bit of travelling and go out clubbing.
Don't rush back into another relationship, because it will not be the real thing.
Take your time, enjoy life to the max
2006-10-10 01:43:25 · answer #3 · answered by Prudence22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST AND MOST IMPORTANTLY IGNORE THE RELIGIOUS PIOUS REPRESSED NUTTER ON HERE>
SECOND Look to yourself what were you doing or not doing to drive him into someone elses bed.
Nagging and whining
Sex? Enough of it..Prolonged Oral Anal Outdoor BDSM if you do not give your man what he wants and needs..they stray.... remember you can end it as a lot of the dullards will say..but the next guy and the next will do the same until you sort out the problem xx Go for it..you will BOTH enjoy it more x
2006-10-09 22:32:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure he didn't mean to jump into bed with another girl. It was all an accident he tripped and fell onto her! He was drunk it was a mistake!
If he's done it once he could well do it again. Do you feel comfortable with that thought. Do you really think he'd not do it to you again?
Just dump him and save the heartache!
2006-10-10 00:40:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A relationship will be nothing with out trust. If you think you can trust him after this then try keep things going but if you can't get rid of him. In fact just drop him, how are the dogs out there ever going to learn to keep their trousers on if you ladies don't ditch them staright away. No questions asked, no second chances. Get rid of him!!!!
2006-10-10 01:37:30 · answer #6 · answered by mbaker_713 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say nothing
watch him until you have more proof then dump him theres plenty more who would most probly die to have a date with you or find a good male freind who would just take you for a meal that would show your fella what you think of him but make sure the guy you pick can handle himself the green eye might show
2006-10-09 22:34:01 · answer #7 · answered by The tagg master 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him - once a cheat always a cheat!
2006-10-09 22:32:44 · answer #8 · answered by Dan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, hard one. if hes genuinely sorry then possibly forgive him if its once and didnt mean anything. personally id kick him into touch and get a new one! i know plenty of relationships where someone has cheated and they are great now takes time to trust again but can work if its a genuine mistake??? your choice.
good luck. xx
2006-10-09 22:31:02 · answer #9 · answered by caroline17nov 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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far. If you are down, you need to get up and start doing something with
your life. Don't need to be shy, be straight forward and allways say what
you want and expect from the others.
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2006-10-09 22:29:53 · answer #10 · answered by mada m 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
N e 1 that doesnt treat his lady with respct isnt worth it luv, he obviously dnt think much of you if your not the only woman he wants.
If he realy loves you he wouldnt want n e 1 else.
take carex
2006-10-09 22:43:01 · answer #11 · answered by fletch4144 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋