Family & Relationships - 1 October 2006

Poor Daddy.....she acts like it is all my fault. He was not the perfect Dad by no means....in fact, he didn't even want her when I told him I was pregnant with her. Why? She doesn't even want to live with me after the divorce is final because she doesn't want Daddy to be alone and sad. Why is this happening? It really hurts me. I have been a good mother and been there for her for ll yrs. now....I feel second fiddle and second best.

2006-10-01 17:33:59 · 27 answers · asked by lucy p 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-01 17:33:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Last night I was in my house and I was watching TV and all of a sudden my dog appeared in my room.

I was like "WTFROFLMAO hi baby," and just went back to watching TV

And then he (MY DOG) was like "Hello."

it sounded like a bark but he was saying hello, i understood it in my mind

2006-10-01 17:33:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what do you talk about on a first date? what are some imporatnt things i should kinda focus on trying to get to know first?

2006-10-01 17:31:10 · 7 answers · asked by racingurl37 1 in Singles & Dating

Kelsey why the fck did you cheat on jake? Jake emailed me and told me
and you know what he didn't do anything for you to cheat on him so your
just being retarded. If your suprised that i know don't be because jake
tells me everything and the last email i sent you was for jake cuz he
wanted to know if you were cheating on him so haha you *****....yeah i
didn't email you just to say hi!!! Damn do you know how mad jake is?
Well i do and he's soooooo mad and you prob don't care cuz your prob
thinking if he dumps you you still have the other guy to date. Wow
kelsey
i'm suprised you cheated on jake wait no i'm not because a slut would
do
that plus a ***** would 2 and lets see your both hun and btw if jake
flirted with other girls that doesn't mean he's gonna cheat on you.
I'll
try to feel bad for you because jake loved you a lot and it looks like
you didn't and why i feel bad for you is because you prob won't find a
better guy than him!!!! BYE *****!!!

2006-10-01 17:29:48 · 9 answers · asked by diamonds_are_love 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a older brother and sister (10 and 12 yrs older) Its a long story but they do not do anything to care for her. She is still alert but has cognitive problems and sometimes "acts out." I would like to know if anyone has any answers for me because my Fiance' is in AZ I am in NY and I cannot leave and afraid to leave my mother and my brother and sister will not treat her well. BTW, my mother does not want to leave her house either. I do not know what to do. I feel guilty if I left right now because of the lack of responsibility of my siblings. Any Suggestions at all I welcome,
Thank you

2006-10-01 17:27:56 · 8 answers · asked by Jen 3 in Family

I've been with my boyfriend over two and a half years.I feel like lately hes not been listening to me. And things have just been weird. Anyways, I'm getting my tonsil out and I'm 21.I've never had surgery before and I'm scared. I asked him to ask off for it 2 months ago. About a month ago I told him how i needed to switch a doctors appt and push it back. Tonite i was saying yeah i'm scared for next weds and he said why.I said well duh its my surgery. I have been talking about it a lot. And I know i have even said the date and the word weds a lot.He was like i thought it was friday? You said you had to change your appointment.Yes I did but i didn't say i changed my "surgery" So he then he started getting mad at me . Like it was my fault. He said he couldn't make it. And i really wanted him to be there. Then i called him and told him it would mean a lot if he was there. And he said I guess i might be able to manage to come. Does this mean he doesn't listen to me? Should I be mad

2006-10-01 17:26:47 · 16 answers · asked by jackiejunebug 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 17 years old and i know im gay, no if ands or buts about it. The only thing is i have a horrible fear being found "out". My friends all know and i dont hide it, if someone asks i will tell them the truth. My question is really how can i find the right guys for me unless i tell everyone, and im not very popular in school to begin with, so i think everyone but my friends will shun me. What should i do, im just so confused.

2006-10-01 17:25:26 · 11 answers · asked by Doug 2 in Singles & Dating

Hypothetically speaking…

Let's say Bob is engaged to Jane. Bob knows that Jane is really close to her coworker Frank. If Jane and Frank repeatedly cuddle, embrace and on occasion hold hands when they are alone and drinking does that constitute cheating if nothing sexual happened? Is this okay?

2006-10-01 17:25:26 · 14 answers · asked by random thoughts 1 in Friends

These are family members who just have issues . I didnt do anything to them. They talk about me behind my back to the rest of my family just because they made up rumors about me. Ever since then, they have given me hell but i think it makes them even more mad that i ignore them anywhere i see them. They see I am happy without them cause all those people they once had against me still talk to me. I honestly got used to living my life without including them or their drama. So now when we have family get togethers, I see them there and laugh and have fun with everyone else but them. I had tried for a straight year to fix things with them but they refused to accept that i could forgive and forget. Guess they like the drama in their lives...Is it bad for me to keep ignoring them?

2006-10-01 17:25:14 · 18 answers · asked by Becky S 2 in Family

2006-10-01 17:24:04 · 12 answers · asked by doeboi94 1 in Singles & Dating

none

2006-10-01 17:23:08 · 6 answers · asked by the_matrixdc 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex-gf just got together with another guy and now she's happy, which makes me kind of depressed but still happy that she's happy, and I was wondering if anyone knew of a song that relates to this kind of situation.

2006-10-01 17:22:22 · 15 answers · asked by Brendan S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I know that sounds pretty dumb but now that I have your attention need some advice. Over the past couple months we've been seeing and talking less and less. Not really sure what happened but its apparent is over romantically now. Do I let her know I know she came and took the guitar? Or just let it go and try to shelve her in a happy place?

2006-10-01 17:22:12 · 15 answers · asked by Foss 4 in Singles & Dating

im not the groos, slimy, real agressive type
i like it to be passionate, sweet, romanitic, and sexy
like the movies .............you know what i mean?

2006-10-01 17:22:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Him and I want out for about seven months and we broke up last may, it seemed like for a while him and I would still be good friends, but now he says he sees no point in being friends so what should I do? I'm driving my poor frineds nuts when I talk about him everyday. I still love him so much but he says that we will never get back togehter, and all I want is to just be friends if that's possible? please help me. Is there anyway I could win him back again?

2006-10-01 17:21:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi there,

Are U a multilingual? if u could Japanese, Spanish...

wanna make friends.


Cheers

2006-10-01 17:21:32 · 4 answers · asked by Ana 2 in Friends

does anyone else have the same problem as me at weddings during the father/daughter dance? my dad whom i was very close with, passed away a year before i got married--i was 21 at the time, and ever since it always tears me apart at weddings when the time comes for the f/d dance. sometimes it's easier than others, but on the days when it hits...it hits hard and is kinda embarassing--i hate crying and esp around others!.
can anyone else out there relate? how do you get through it at weddings? (aside slipping out of course)...which i do sometimes.

2006-10-01 17:21:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

why??

2006-10-01 17:20:41 · 12 answers · asked by bluepuddle 3 in Friends

Hi! I am 18 and I rarely get approached by guys my age. I am asked out by always much older men or I have guys that say they want to stalk or kill me (yah true story :/ ) or like recently a group of guys hollered and said "your so hot you fine piece of ***"-it upset me very much and was very degrading and I almost feel like all guys are like that. :( anyways, I am sort of shy but not around my close friends. I love laughing and smiling a lot and I am always friendly to everyone I encounter. I am a Christian and apart of that I have decided to save myself for marriage. My best guy friends and people tell me I'm beautiful which I don't feel, I feel like I must have an arm growing out of my head for them to not approach me. I feel like the only guys interested are the old men or stalkers. What is wrong with me?? I try to always be nice to people, but it seems like guys don't want the good girl. Is there something wrong with me?? Thanks for any advice and God bless!! :)

2006-10-01 17:19:56 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I saw the divorce coming for about 5 years, since i was 17. My brother, who is 12, only found out 2 days before my father moved out three weeks ago. My parents are still on good terms, my father just moved down the street, so he sees my bro every day almost, but apparently my bro is withdrawing and has quit his extracurriculars and just secludes himself in his room. I am not living in the same state anymore so I can't be there for him in person. It's driving me nuts. My mom took him to therapy, but he didn't want to go back after the first time, and the doctor said not to force him.

Is there anything else I can do to help him through this? I've told him its something that happens all the time, and that he's lucky that our dad is still nearby and on good terms with our mom. I told him it was normal to be sad, but not to let it overwhelm him because it could be worse. Is there anything else I can do to help him through this?

2006-10-01 17:19:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what are things girls want to hear from a guy that makes em fell special ( its my first time so dont give me wild answers)

2006-10-01 17:19:35 · 7 answers · asked by Frank 3 in Singles & Dating

long lost love that slipped through my fingers.

2006-10-01 17:18:41 · 5 answers · asked by likeablerabbit_loose 4 in Friends

2006-10-01 17:17:16 · 28 answers · asked by Romeo 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-01 17:17:00 · 3 answers · asked by NEF 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Kelsey why the fck did you cheat on jake? Jake emailed me and told me
and you know what he didn't do anything for you to cheat on him so your
just being retarded. If your suprised that i know don't be because jake
tells me everything and the last email i sent you was for jake cuz he
wanted to know if you were cheating on him so haha you b*tch....yeah i
didn't email you just to say hi!!! Damn do you know how mad jake is?
Well i do and he's soooooo mad and you prob don't care cuz your prob
thinking if he dumps you you still have the other guy to date. Wow
kelsey
i'm suprised you cheated on jake wait no i'm not because a s*ut would
do
that plus a b*tch would 2 and lets see your both hun and btw if jake
flirted with other girls that doesn't mean he's gonna cheat on you.
I'll
try to feel bad for you because jake loved you a lot and it looks like
you didn't and why i feel bad for you is because you prob won't find a
better guy than him!!!! BYE *****!!!

2006-10-01 17:16:52 · 12 answers · asked by diamonds_are_love 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok here goes:


I’m 15, this girl is 13: ITS only 2 years

A few months ago, me and this girl were really close, we would talk and flirt all the time, and this went on for a while, well eventually people started talking about us, being so close, and wondered if we were dating. She started backing off big time, and seemed like something was bothering her. Well I asked her to the movies, and she said idk maybe. I took it as a nice way of saying no. Well she told her friends she just doesn’t know, because I’ve liked many different girls b4, and she just want to see if I could stick with her for a while. Well months passed, and we got further and further away. I wondered why? Well she and her mom are REALLY close, so I asked her mom. Her mom said she was just really scared, because we have been friends since age 7. Well then she told her friends she just doesn’t want to hurt my feelings. It got to the point were I couldn’t stand it anymore. So I emailed her this about a month ago


can we please talk??
I've got to tell you something, because, well, i just got to know.
I really like you, alot. And it seemed like you used to like me. But now, it just seems like you are really really trying to avoid me. I mean, i know youve been busy and all with swimmin, but like since carrowinds, we havent talked, barely any , at all. It seems like you just dont care about me. I mean, i feel so confused, because, for some reason, you just stopped talking to me. Why? I mean, are you trying to get me to take the hint? Or what? I mean i really dont know what to think. Tell me anything, tell me that you hate me, just please please be honest. Remember that thing at carrowinds, guys cant stand when girls beat around the bush? Well, if you dont like me, please just tell me straight up. My feelings wont be hurt. And if you do, but just arent sure, just tell me. I wanna be there for you, I want you to be able to trust me, and be able to talk to me, about anything

This is what she replied

hey,
well first of all, I don't hate you. second, I haven't been avoiding you either becuase its not been just swimming that I've been busy with its been life.I also haven't been beating around the bush because you never asked me if I did or not. But I haven't ever thought of being more than friends with you because we've always been good friends and I think thats how things should stay.I just don't want to ruin a friendship.hope you've had a good day, and i will talk to you later.





This is what I replied



hey!!. thanks for being honest with me. I really value our friendship too, and if you don’t feel comfortable, because of ruining the friendship if something were to happen, that is cool with me.




Now to me, that sounds like two things (1) she doesn’t want to ruin a friendship, cuz we’ve been friends since age 7 or (2) shes just letting me down easy. But now she is flirting with this other guy, like she used to do with me. But she seems more comfortable around me than she did before. But when she sees that I am not going out of my way to see her, she seems to talk to me more, and flirt a little more, almost like she don’t have me anymore. And sometimes, Ill catch her looking at me, and when I look she’ll look away. And then sometimes, her body language, she just seems sad, like she wants to tell me something, or likes me or IDK what, its just she seems different since we talked about it. But I mean b4 she really seemed to like me, and IDK why she just would have stopped. , I mean I’ve like many girls, just none like this, When I wake up sheds the first think I think about, and the last think when I go to sleep. I just cant let her go.
My question is do you think she was letting me down easy, or is just scared, and what should I do about it? And please don’t tell me I’m too young

2006-10-01 17:16:37 · 7 answers · asked by how many 1 in Singles & Dating

What DVDs would you guys suggest for cuddling up with your date back at your place?

2006-10-01 17:16:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for only a few months, but i see stability in our future together. We both are looking for a long term relationship, and I think he is the one that I want to be with. I just found out that he needs to update his status as an immigrant, but he doesnt have a green card yet. I want to marry him so that he wont worry about it, but i am not sure if that will hurt our beautifully blossming relationship, or make us even closer. So should I marry him?

2006-10-01 17:15:34 · 13 answers · asked by cocokutie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

They sincerely believe in magic, what would you think?

2006-10-01 17:14:10 · 7 answers · asked by fslcaptain737 4 in Friends