Family & Relationships - 1 October 2006

A girl likes me, although she shows it by acting hostile. We tease one another relentlessly, and not the garden variety flirt teasing. I do like this girl, and would like to ask her out, but i cannot stand the teasing. Its a strange situation though. she is very independant (as am i) but i have the feeling that any date will deteriorate if we just tease one another. However, once i get her past the teasing she is an incredible person who i love talking to. Ideas on bypassing the teasing or getting ti to stop?

2006-10-01 17:13:37 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

last friday in my spanish class,[iam freshman and iam new]
i was talking with 2 sophmores that i knew. one of the sop. said that he was going to a fight after school with other highschool kids. than we talked about fighting. i told them "i used to box " and they were really?
i am worried that they will tell everyone about it / iam worried that if people knew that i'd boxed , then someone will asked to fight me [i dont wanna fight b/c iam freahman ,iam new, and i have braces] today is sunday and i go back to school on tuesday

2006-10-01 17:13:16 · 9 answers · asked by kavinch 1 in Friends

Im 15 and i just moved into my mom's boyfriends new apartment a month ago and today out of no where he decides to hit me. Never happened before but he's a drunk and hes been beating on his 16 year old son which explains why he's so beyond being helped. I want to know what am i suppose to do about him. I know he's going to start to puch me once my step brother moves out. What am i suppose to do when he comes after me?

2006-10-01 17:13:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-01 17:13:00 · 12 answers · asked by crzybeachchic 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 24, and was dating a guy for almost a year. Thing got sort of bad towards the end of our relationship, and things that had bothered me from the past with him (Him not working, no place to stay...ect...) kind of crept up on me at once, and I broke up with him. I know that I still love him, and he still wants me back, but I just can't get myself back to that "love" that I once had for him. I don't know if it's fear that everything will change back to the way it was? He has a job now, and is moving into his new place next week. He thinks I'm dragging him on, but I just don't know what to do? Do I go back? Do I stay single? Help!!!!

2006-10-01 17:11:44 · 10 answers · asked by Cassandra 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-01 17:11:12 · 17 answers · asked by megh 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-01 17:10:55 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-01 17:10:16 · 3 answers · asked by doeboi94 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this girl that i know in my school (we dont have the same classes) and i would want to get her atention. Im really shy yet the nicest person in the world but being really nice just doesent seem to do much what can i do to have her want me really badly

2006-10-01 17:09:16 · 12 answers · asked by Frank 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-01 17:09:02 · 4 answers · asked by Michael F 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

what if there's a person who sits near you in class, but you have no idea who they are, and wanna be their friend. would you start a convo? if so, how?

2006-10-01 17:08:52 · 6 answers · asked by ♥heartbroken♥ 3 in Friends

I used to be mad at her many times but she forgave me every time after I begged her forgiveness. Now same thing happens, I verbally abused her again, and after three months she still won't forgive me, she said I hurt her a lot, I can feel that, and I'm ashamed.
But, the real reason that I got pissed off is because there's one problem that never solved in our relationship, which is, she treats every boys very kind, and does everything she does with me with several of her good friends, like shopping, see movie or having dinner. And they always went in pairs, I'm jealous. I tried to talk to her but she never changed, it's not that she's sluty it's just that she's childlike and simple-minded, almost a princess from a fairy book.
If so, could someone indicates how?

2006-10-01 17:08:20 · 6 answers · asked by umcris 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

so, he said he'd call, and he didnt, infact he had his phone off... when i asked him, he couldnt even remember he was supposed to..i decided to just leave him alone..good idea/bad idea??
Thanks

2006-10-01 17:08:10 · 7 answers · asked by Lolita 2 in Singles & Dating

is it italian?? chinese??? indian??? what is it???

2006-10-01 17:05:37 · 14 answers · asked by bluepuddle 3 in Family

Okay I recently decided I was gonna stop talking to this guy I had no business talking to in the first place,but I fear going back because I didn't let myself get over him first, I just all of a sudden got the courage to avoid him,how do I keep my word and not go back on the situation,because it's hard not to when you care about the person???

2006-10-01 17:04:36 · 9 answers · asked by Mycan Moneek 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok well i was wondering if me being thin would affect the guys from liking me. in 6th grade, i know 4 yrs ago, but this guy came up to me and was like "some guys dont like you because your skinny" it made me really disapointed because i am naturally thin, and i cant help it. I am 5'8.5" and 103 pounds, do you think thin girls are unattractive??

2006-10-01 17:04:33 · 26 answers · asked by Elle 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-01 17:04:32 · 17 answers · asked by Hobby 5 in Marriage & Divorce

nowadays i can't get this girl out of my head. I'm a college freshman, and I have known her for only about two weeks, but I feel that she is the kind of girl i like. She was very nice to me at first, but I get a feeling that she's getting cold toward me. Perhaps she is not so interested in me right now, but do some girls eventually feel attracted to guys whom they initially found not so attractive? As of now, I am trying to fully concentrate on my work because I don't wanna look desperate. I know there are many other girls out there, but I don't wanna give up yet. Once I set a goal, I always try my best to accomplish it. If I patiently wait and treat her politely, will I be able to get her attention?

2006-10-01 17:04:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He says he treats me the best in college. He says he's the closest to me. My best friend in college says he flirts with me. He's said he has feelings for me, but made it into a joke. He texts me all the time and chats with me online and when we are with a group of people, he makes me feel as though there is something we know that they don't.

2006-10-01 17:03:43 · 6 answers · asked by Nami B 1 in Friends

My sister had a falling out with my parents about two years ago. She has spoke to them less and and less since then and now she doesn't speak to any of us at all! What is going on and how can I get her to come around?

2006-10-01 17:02:43 · 16 answers · asked by Tiffany V 1 in Family

What are some interesting topics for conversation with someone you've just started dating 2 months ago?

2006-10-01 17:02:27 · 3 answers · asked by jade 2 in Singles & Dating

I notice that in America when an African American male is married to a white woman everyone is like, "O my God did you see, she is with a Black Guy." In Brazil, if a Black man is married to a white woman, it's no big deal. They are just a normal couple. Also, Americans are always trying to put a label on someone. For example, when one of my Brazilian friends who is Brown skinned talks to Americans, the Americans would ask if he is Mexican. He doesn't get offended because he knowns that Mexican people are hard working. Why is America so concerned with race???

2006-10-01 17:02:22 · 4 answers · asked by lavender 2 in Singles & Dating

if any man or woman divorced by his/her partner before marriage is worst?

2006-10-01 17:01:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What they need from you is undstanding, like:
"I enjoy good quality life, leisure, travel, music, movie. Dancing and dinning out, laughin and have fun"
if we can't afford - What we deserved to have?.....?

2006-10-01 17:00:39 · 20 answers · asked by Toto 6 in Singles & Dating

i have..... and im going through the most difficult time forgetting those memories out of my head.... plzzz help... i do try n get busy but nothin seems to work,,,yes i go out with friends go play.... go gymin etc... but end of the day when im home..it starts haunting me every night.... i even land up crying...

2006-10-01 17:00:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Guys tell me that I'm hot and kinda look like Angelina Jolie (I don't really see it but I guess its cuz of my eyes,lips, & hair) BUT the problem is I can't find any worthy guys to date. They all seem nice but in the end they just wanna try to get in my pants, but I wanna save sex for marriage and most leave cuz I won't put out. Why are guys so obsessed with sex? I'm a smart, pretty and fun girl but where are the real men who just wanna get to know the real me and not just try to get me into bed?

When has virginity been such a bad characteristic in a girl?

2006-10-01 16:59:35 · 22 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Singles & Dating

We were together for almost two year. Split up last year and are close friends. But even after a year I still love him. But he has made it clear that he cares a lot for me and will do anything for me but he doesnt love me. He wants us to be friends and we have been friends for a year after break up but I feel i m not being truthful abt my feelings. We feel comfortable in each other's company - more of him than me. I find excuses to fight with him now and I know thats coz of what happened in the past. I am afraid to lose him even as a friend. I know he loves me but in a different way. What should I do? I am confused and i love him.

2006-10-01 16:59:22 · 14 answers · asked by teddylove_04 1 in Singles & Dating

I recently got married in May and my husband is an easy going and benevolent guy. He's been really irascible lately. Two weeks ago after work he was really horny but I was tired. He pushed me against the wall and shoved his hands up my shirt. I pushed him and he backed off saying "what the f**k is wrong with you?!". Yesterday I was complaining about him leaving his clothes everywhere and he blatantly ignored me b/c he was so immersed in a football game. I got the remote and turned off the tv and he was furious. He pried the remote out of my hand and raised his hand up to hit me but he put it back down. I told my mom but I dont want to listen to her obsolete ways of thinking (men are dominant etc.) Im not afraid of him but things can escalate. What do you think I should do? Genuine answers plz.

2006-10-01 16:59:20 · 30 answers · asked by amina 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok here goes:


I’m 15, this girl is 13: ITS only 2 years

A few months ago, me and this girl were really close, we would talk and flirt all the time, and this went on for a while, well eventually people started talking about us, being so close, and wondered if we were dating. She started backing off big time, and seemed like something was bothering her. Well I asked her to the movies, and she said idk maybe. I took it as a nice way of saying no. Well she told her friends she just doesn’t know, because I’ve liked many different girls b4, and she just want to see if I could stick with her for a while. Well months passed, and we got further and further away. I wondered why? Well she and her mom are REALLY close, so I asked her mom. Her mom said she was just really scared, because we have been friends since age 7. Well then she told her friends she just doesn’t want to hurt my feelings. It got to the point were I couldn’t stand it anymore. So I emailed her this about a month ago


can we please talk??
I've got to tell you something, because, well, i just got to know.
I really like you, alot. And it seemed like you used to like me. But now, it just seems like you are really really trying to avoid me. I mean, i know youve been busy and all with swimmin, but like since carrowinds, we havent talked, barely any , at all. It seems like you just dont care about me. I mean, i feel so confused, because, for some reason, you just stopped talking to me. Why? I mean, are you trying to get me to take the hint? Or what? I mean i really dont know what to think. Tell me anything, tell me that you hate me, just please please be honest. Remember that thing at carrowinds, guys cant stand when girls beat around the bush? Well, if you dont like me, please just tell me straight up. My feelings wont be hurt. And if you do, but just arent sure, just tell me. I wanna be there for you, I want you to be able to trust me, and be able to talk to me, about anything

This is what she replied

hey,
well first of all, I don't hate you. second, I haven't been avoiding you either becuase its not been just swimming that I've been busy with its been life.I also haven't been beating around the bush because you never asked me if I did or not. But I haven't ever thought of being more than friends with you because we've always been good friends and I think thats how things should stay.I just don't want to ruin a friendship.hope you've had a good day, and i will talk to you later.





This is what I replied



hey!!. thanks for being honest with me. I really value our friendship too, and if you don’t feel comfortable, because of ruining the friendship if something were to happen, that is cool with me.




Now to me, that sounds like two things (1) she doesn’t want to ruin a friendship, cuz we’ve been friends since age 7 or (2) shes just letting me down easy. But now she is flirting with this other guy, like she used to do with me. But she seems more comfortable around me than she did before. But when she sees that I am not going out of my way to see her, she seems to talk to me more, and flirt a little more, almost like she don’t have me anymore. And sometimes, Ill catch her looking at me, and when I look she’ll look away. And then sometimes, her body language, she just seems sad, like she wants to tell me something, or likes me or IDK what, its just she seems different since we talked about it. But I mean b4 she really seemed to like me, and IDK why she just would have stopped. , I mean I’ve like many girls, just none like this, When I wake up sheds the first think I think about, and the last think when I go to sleep. I just cant let her go.
My question is do you think she was letting me down easy, or is just scared, and what should I do about it? And please don’t tell me I’m too young

2006-10-01 16:58:54 · 9 answers · asked by how many 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-01 16:58:54 · 4 answers · asked by rasckal 3 in Singles & Dating