i always knew my life was messed up but am i in trouble?

Question

Im 15 and i just moved into my mom's boyfriends new apartment a month ago and today out of no where he decides to hit me. Never happened before but he's a drunk and hes been beating on his 16 year old son which explains why he's so beyond being helped. I want to know what am i suppose to do about him. I know he's going to start to puch me once my step brother moves out. What am i suppose to do when he comes after me?

Answer 1

call for help, let somebody know. I was in the same position you were from the time I was about 10 til I was 16 years old and I put up with it and should never have because now I am dealing with it at 21 years old thinking every man I meet is going to beat me, it's not fun.

Answer 2

Defend yourself by all means, and being in an awkward situation as your in, I really feel for you. Unfortunately, your mom is partially to blame, and yes you can do something about it. You and his son should at least let the authourities know what's going on, and then take steps in maybe trying to assist and or help this guy. Maybe he's reaching out for help., and just maybe there are reasons for his drinking, and acting out on his son. Try and find out why he's so violent towards his son, maybe there is a good reason. Could be grades in school, something that happened before you and your mom moved in, at any rate by no mean do you feel you have to take his sons place in punishment when he moves out because then, quite simply have him legally dealt with by your local police department.

Answer 3

Call the police and have him arrested for battery.
Your life is not messed up so don't say that ! Don't let your life get messed up by tolerating this kind of bulls-it behavior - do the right thing and get his asss arrested for what he did.
People tend to let things like this happen and then it never stops - put an end to it right now and don't ever let someone else put their hands on you !!
I wish you the best.

Answer 4

Contact CPS (Child Protection Services), FIRST, Then tell your mother that her boyfriend hit you and that you have called CPS. You do not have to put up with him hitting you just because he is your mother's boyfriend. I would have to say your mother is a very poor judge of character or desperate for a man in her life she would take one who was a violent drunk

Answer 5

Have you discussed this with your mother? I know parent tend to block out the child when they share information like this with them. But its best to tell her or let some other authority know. If he has a temper problem he could very well be abusing your mother. Talk to your mother and if all else fails seek other help.. Take care

Answer 6

You need to call the cops NOW before he gets too comfortable in thinking he can hit you! If he knows your gonna call the cops he won't do it. He's not your dad so it's illegal and called battery. If it was me I'd keep a bat by my bed and beat the crap outta' him. It's called self defense grown men have no right punching little girls!!!

Answer 7

You need to tell someone,your mom,a teacher at school,an aunt,or even a police man. YES, the police or call social services.

Answer 8

Call someone, call for help and then get out of there. Violence shouldn't be tollerated and you as a human being and teen shouldn't be introduced to this. Talk to your mother as well, she may not know but seriously, don't confront him just get outta there
Peace

-Wallabies!

Answer 9

you call the authorities. you also tell your mother. if your mother refuses to get you out then u go at it own your own. I have friends that do foster care. They have girls that were abused for years, not something you want to live in. also if your father is still in your life you should contact him.

Answer 10

Call child services now.