Ok well i was wondering if me being thin would affect the guys from liking me. in 6th grade, i know 4 yrs ago, but this guy came up to me and was like "some guys dont like you because your skinny" it made me really disapointed because i am naturally thin, and i cant help it. I am 5'8.5" and 103 pounds, do you think thin girls are unattractive??
2006-10-01 17:04:33 · 26 answers · asked by Elle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am in 10th grade now
2006-10-01 17:11:33 · update #1
Also, i am NATURALLY thin, i am not annorexic or whatever, my mom is thin also.
2006-10-01 17:13:40 · update #2
my god elle....half the female humans on god's green planet earth would kill to have ur frame and pyhsique. please oh please do not listen to anyone but me.....live for you. live your beautiful life. i dont know what that young man meant but i would do anything to hop on a plane just to hug you and plant one on your beautiful lips as if to say "elle, you are so beautiful to me."
u r such a cutie in ur avatar pic.....blond blue eyes is rare u know.
5'8 is tall 103 might be borderline rail thin but a nice healthy harty candlelight dinner and chocolate mousse dessert would add few pounds to you LOL all in right places namely chest area. HAHAHAHA. so go out and enjoy a grilled cheese sandwich and a twinkie with nice cold small glass of milk on me.
i hope all is well with you. email me.......i'll holla
2006-10-01 17:34:51 · answer #1 · answered by Necat T 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Go to a doctor or friend. Have them draw an outline of you on a wall. If you think the outline is too thin, then most likley you are too thin. This is a common test failed by underweight women. They think the person drawing the outline is tricking them.
Do it. If you don't belive that is you then yes, you're too thin. Your BMI is 15.7!!!! That is WAY too thin. You are burning muscle and bone. You have very little fat. You are unhealthy and if you stay on this current trajectory, you're life expectancy is cut by at least 15-20 years. (Good luck, there)
To answer the second part of your question: it doesn't matter how fat or thin you are, some guy will find you attractive. I hope for your sake that you find a healthy weight. Currently, you are seriously underweight.
I've looked at some of your previous answers from people who don't seem to have an ounce of medical knowledge. I see a lot of woman with eating disorders. Most of them start out by asking questions just like yours. You may be okay. But you're under weight.
Like most people on these websites, you'll probably pick the "Best Answer" because it's the one that affirms who you already are, not the one which challenges you. Get into the normal weight range. Not only will you attract a mate. You will live long enough to see your children grow.
2006-10-01 17:10:37 · answer #2 · answered by Ignoramus 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
As long as your healthy and not anorexic your fine. But yes, some guys feel that being too thin just doesn't look right. (From what my guy friends tell me). I used to be a toothpick myself and I was attractive and all that.... but since I've gained a little weight, I've actually met someone that was out for more than just looks. I'm not saying go pack on the pounds but honestly, just be yourself, be confident and don't worry about what those guys think. There are many more out there. Real guys look for the confidence. Keep that in mind.
2006-10-01 17:11:07 · answer #3 · answered by Some Girl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sweetie, don't worry about it. I'm tall too, 5'11" and I weigh 115 pounds. I'm 22 yrs. old and I was kinda gawky looking when growing up, but I filled out as I matured. When I was young and the boys at my school would call me stick stickly, but as I grew older and went into high school, they weren't calling me names than, they were flirting with me and wanting my number. When I was younger, I was all legs and no meat or anything. Some thought I was too skinny, but as I got older, I started to fill out through every inch of my body. I have a butt, medium sized boobs, thin waist and long legs now. I've been told I look some what like Mischa Barton and some say Jennifer Love Hewitt, either way, my boyfriend loves me, loves my body and tells me I'm beautiful everyday. So don't feel like you need to do anything to your body. Learn to accept what God has given you. You're tall and thin, embrace that. All men are different, they like thin girls, they like girls with meat on their body, its no shame to be thin. Accept your body as your temple. Treat it right and be healthy. Love yourself.
2006-10-01 17:53:44 · answer #4 · answered by Emmie_katz7 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my friend tells me the same thing, people dont realize the damage they do with the words they say. I'm sorry you have to go through it, but if it makes you feel unattractive than you should do something about it. and yes everybody has there standards some might think thinner is better and others may feel voluptuous is more appealing. i always say its easier to gain weight than to lose it. the key is to get on a diet, either eat larger portions or more often. we just have faster metabolisms that's all, or you could be subconsciously anorexic.(dont take that literally, I'm not sure its a real condition)
2006-10-01 17:17:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No one is unattractive because they are thin. Everyone is unique in their own way. Anyone who wouldn't like you just cause you are thin, isn't worth knowing in the first place. If you would gain weight, guys wouldn't like you cause you are too heavy, or not pretty enough, or not the right hair color. Be proud of who you are. As long as you are not sick, be happy and do what makes you happy, no one else.
2006-10-01 17:07:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do not pay attention to what boys say. Learn to LOVE yourself. Think about a modeling career. You sound perfect. Boys made fun of me because I developed breasts in the 5th grade. I did not get over the teasing until I was well in my forties. Become a famous model. Just have faith. Faith can move mountains. Don't slouch. Walk with confidence. I became a lady wrestler by faith. Models were made fun of before they became famous. Read books on famous models. Think famous; be famous.
P.S.: That boy probably likes you.
2006-10-01 17:19:55 · answer #7 · answered by glenda576 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thats too tall for that weight really, especially if you have hips. Hey look on the bright side, Eva Longoria was way too thin for many years and finally she filled in and became the hottest girl on earth!
2006-10-01 17:08:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sweetie..I'm as think as you but only taller(not insulting you)...well it all comes down on how do you want to be looked at in the kingdom of man.you could be thin and be smart and attractive,don't try to hard to impress them,coz you'll make a fool out of yourself,try a diffrent look,maybe a make over.get some new outfit.beside your still young,.you got alot of other stuff to worry about then how dose a guy look at you,
2006-10-01 17:14:15 · answer #9 · answered by lexus 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, that seems a little thin for your height, but we are what we are. You could start lifting some weights to build up muscle tone.
2006-10-01 17:06:55 · answer #10 · answered by dhalia_1977 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋