My sister had a falling out with my parents about two years ago. She has spoke to them less and and less since then and now she doesn't speak to any of us at all! What is going on and how can I get her to come around?
2006-10-01 17:02:43 · 16 answers · asked by Tiffany V 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
be kind. write to her regularly. send her xmas and birthday cards.
show her you care. eventually she will come around. but you cannot push it.
2006-10-01 18:53:41 · answer #1 · answered by dirtyoldman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't, she has to do it in her own time. I hope she does, cause I did the same thing and my mom passed away and we didn't speak for the last 3 years of her life, after being very close for the rest. I miss her so much. You never know what can happen. But she has to want to make up, you can't push her or she will go away for good. Just let her know you are there if she needs you, she might be going thru something none of you know about.
2006-10-02 00:05:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to her. If she doesn't want to talk on the phone, write a letter. Let her know how you feel, and that you miss her. At least you can let her know, and if she still ignores you, then you have had a chance to let her know what is going on in your head and how what she is doing is effecting you. You can't change her, but let her know you love her, and maybe she will come around.
2006-10-02 00:06:49 · answer #3 · answered by Lily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to make the first move. Call her or go see her and let her know her problems with your parents don't have to affect your relationship with her. If she does not respond well let her know you will be waiting to hear from her when she is ready. If she never responds to you then you will know that you have tried.
2006-10-02 00:07:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for an occasion. Her boirthday: any other occasion, when she is in a good mood.Timing is important. Choose a time when chances of rebuff are the least
2006-10-02 00:08:33 · answer #5 · answered by Rajesh Kochhar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IM SORRY THAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH THIS WITH YOUR SISTER, BUT YOU JUST NEED TO TALK TO HER
CALL HER. WRITE HER A LETTER. SEND HER A CARD
AND LET HER KNOW THAT YOU LOVE AND MISS HER
AND WHAT EVERY IS GOING ON WITH THE PARENTS
LET HER KNOW THAT YOU WILL ALWAY BE THERE FOR'HER REGARLESS OF WHAT GOING ON. THAT
ALL YOU CAN DO. GOOD LUCK.
2006-10-02 00:08:31 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she's really hurt and doesn't know how to approach the situation try calling her and let her know that u r there if she needs u but don't push her u might end up loosing her 4ever
2006-10-02 00:08:11 · answer #7 · answered by murkymom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she will come around in her own good time,just let her when she chooses to .she will need her family one day, just be patient.try talking to her or go where she works to see her if you have to
2006-10-02 02:16:43 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for one thing u have to have the facts straight........ she i guess had a fight with them about something.... it could be from something small or something big. some parents disown family members for certain thing's. like being gay for one..... for example. maybe she said terrible thing's about the both of them & she won't take it back... that is grounds for disownment.
2006-10-02 00:13:56 · answer #9 · answered by BIG BEN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her, tell her that you miss her and love her and that it doesn't matter to you what happened between the parents and her.......
2006-10-02 00:06:34 · answer #10 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋