Family & Relationships - 21 September 2006

I'm a Sr. and I'm 17 yrs old. I have the opportunity to go to college and not have to pay for anything. The catch is i would have to join the army I would not be at the front line i would be working as a nurse or a doctor and i only have to serve two to four years. My parents don't think it's a good idea but they are already paying for my other two sisters for college. I plan to become a doctor which is a lot of college and a lot of money. should i join the military even if my parents don't want me to or should i listen and not joinl?

2006-09-21 09:04:45 · 5 answers · asked by shortcake 2 in Family

2006-09-21 09:04:30 · 22 answers · asked by destiny12 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Right ppl.....here goes!
I am male. i slept with a straight french guy who cant speak english. i caught an std the weekend b4 but i didnt know about it. the french guy has a girlfriend. and i dont know how to tell the french guy he might have the std, b4 he goes back to his girlfriend. help!

2006-09-21 09:04:25 · 24 answers · asked by martyb 2 in Friends

(oddly) many of us wives complain that our husbands are tired, stressed, and have reached mental exhaustion......and it takes away their sex drive. We try to understand, yet dont' know how to fix the problem. We wind up feeling insecure, unattractive, awkward, etc. You tell us it's not us, we listen, yet we are never 100% sure. Do any of you men have this problem? What insight can you offer? What can we do to fix the problem when life is so crazy? A healthy sex life is important, yet we dont' want our men to feel pressure that adds to the problem.

2006-09-21 09:04:14 · 15 answers · asked by paintgirl 4 in Marriage & Divorce

We've been dating for 3 months. Things are going well. I'm 27 and know what I'm looking for - and that she's it. Should I just go for it?

2006-09-21 09:03:53 · 31 answers · asked by Johnny Onomatopoeia 2 in Singles & Dating

My wedding is outside. Reception inside. Our colors are purple (closer to eggplant) and a soft yellow. Unfortunately our mongram would be "c O w" ...so we're not going with that. I don't think my fiance would really be behind butterflies or anything too "girly."

I need ideas!

2006-09-21 09:02:57 · 12 answers · asked by Crystal P 4 in Weddings

show off in front of the girls they like. like usually i like a guy and i can tell they show interest back, and they always have to act super loud, "fun" or "talented" when im around (or just guys around girls they like in general). why cant they just act normal?

2006-09-21 09:02:47 · 17 answers · asked by AngeSurTerre ♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

How do they know if they are good looking or not? Is it just a craps shoot? Also, what about no pre-maritial touching/sex. What if he finds out she is really stinky down there after they get married?

2006-09-21 09:02:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I read a lot of poetry and quotations of wisdom. I have a quote for every occasion that you can think of.

Ladies, do you find it annoying when a person is always so poetic? Should I lay-off on quotations?

2006-09-21 09:02:18 · 11 answers · asked by Inquisit 2 in Singles & Dating

Knocked my dog up can I get them for puppy support ?

2006-09-21 09:01:16 · 22 answers · asked by candidworker 5 in Singles & Dating

iwanna marry again with my girl friend . but i already married.i did n,t agree with that marrige because my parent arrange marrige 4 me and now my first girl friend back .is it possible

2006-09-21 09:00:53 · 26 answers · asked by stranger 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-21 09:00:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-21 09:00:40 · 11 answers · asked by Emily N 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i want to get rid of someone on 360. how. also i went to thier page and cant see how!!
how can i change my name on here ? like iam candy now.
thanks.

2006-09-21 09:00:09 · 1 answers · asked by grasshopper 1 in Friends

2006-09-21 08:59:44 · 37 answers · asked by truthyness 7 in Marriage & Divorce

if a girl is really not all that good in bed due to her previous experiences, would you be willing to train her?

2006-09-21 08:59:39 · 34 answers · asked by flashypsw 4 in Singles & Dating

I have a crush on this one guy. He is so sweet and nice. To admit it he is kind of cute also. He never gets mad and is always nice to me. there is no way we can be together. And when I say that I mean NEVER. There are two factors that will never change and we can't be togethr. I just can't stop thinking about him! What do I do?

(Before you say it NO! There is no way we can be together!)

2006-09-21 08:58:53 · 14 answers · asked by actresst22 5 in Singles & Dating

i have a few friends at school, and sometimes they are really nice to me and we eat lunch together and stuff, but some days they just totally ignore me and act like we've never met. this one girl that i'm good friends with is nice to me when it is just me and her, but when her other friends are around, she just ditches me for them.its hard for me to make friends and i feel left out a lot. what should i do?

2006-09-21 08:58:26 · 8 answers · asked by LLAMA 2 in Friends

Are there really girls out there that would accept a one nighter proposal?

2006-09-21 08:57:56 · 12 answers · asked by BG4 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-21 08:57:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Like going to churses and read the bible.
And they are diference, think deference.

2006-09-21 08:57:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Or anything that will make you say, "hmmmm what's wrong with this guy?" Also, anything a guy say that will make you think twice .
Thanks in advance, I will read every single one of your answers until expiration day. :-)

2006-09-21 08:56:57 · 18 answers · asked by Believe me 3 in Singles & Dating

there is a girl that i have a mad crush on but i dont want her too think that im a stalker cause alots of girls thinks this about me cause my previous ex's i gave her a poem on thursday morning every morning she waits on the bus stop to go too work after she drop her kids off at daycare so i approach her and gave her a poem eventhough she was on her cellphone i told her that i seen her around a few times and i was thinking about her so i wrote her something and i asked her did she had a boyfriend she said no so i replied i dont have a girlfriend then i told her too give me a call and on the poem it had my house number and cell number and chirp number then i walked away i didnt get her name or number but i know what time she catches the bus everyday should i leave this alone until she call or should i buy her a rose and give it to her and ask her name what should i do

2006-09-21 08:55:27 · 8 answers · asked by bigpipeinjersey 1 in Singles & Dating

My sister & her bf have been together for 1 yr & live together. Her bf works a night shift with his ex gf's mom, my sister works a day shift somewhere else, & his ex gf works an afternoon shift at the factory beside where he works.

Her bf still talks 2 his ex gf's mom all the time, buys her coffee at work & is really friendly with her even though he doesn't date her daughter anymore. His ex gf's father passed away about a couple of weeks ago & his ex & her mom r both on compassionate leave.

My sister said that today her bf went away, so he wasn't at home when there was a phone call at noon from his ex gf's brothers phone # (by the way her bf would b sleeping). Her bf doesn't know his ex's brother, so she is wondering if his ex is calling him from her brothers house & if he is cheating on her or wants 2 get back with his ex again OR if it is the mom calling 4 something. She said that they haven't had a sex life for 3 months & everytime they try he goes limp. What do u think?

2006-09-21 08:55:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Are you crazy as this girl, I put gum in the girl's hair last week and today she kicked me in the balls, and then when i was on the ground crying she held me down and took a leak... in my mouth. I was horrified, I never thought one person could be so evil. Did I deserve this, and would any of you out there ever even CONSIDER doing such a evil act.

2006-09-21 08:55:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I get along great. But when we fight it's always about the same thing...school.
I go to an adult vocational learning center and i'm in my second year now.
My bf don't like the school and hates the teachers for the reasons he claims are legit.
He thinks the school is screw'n me over when it comes to my grades or school work etc.. and all i wanna do is get throught it and someday get a good job.
When we fight I break down and cry for hours and he never stops no matter how many times I tell him to or beg him to stop.
Most the time I end up in a panic attack.
I have enough stress without his constant complaining about something so petty....
I don't know what to do or how to get him to stop.

Any well thought out advice is welcome.

Rude comments and bashing will be reported.

2006-09-21 08:55:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I found out that most people with my last name are from Sweden or the netherlands... but that doesnt mean my heritage is of that descent does it? i would really like to know and i dont have any direct family anymore that can tell me... its just frustrating when everyone knows that theres is and i dont. so can i just assume thats correct, or is there better search abilities on the internet, that dont cost money to use?

2006-09-21 08:55:00 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-09-21 08:54:49 · 5 answers · asked by Jas M 1 in Singles & Dating

He and I have been going out for a little over 2 months, and I just don't like him like that anymore. I'm starting to like other guys, and I don't think I should stay with him. Any advice?

2006-09-21 08:54:16 · 27 answers · asked by Jen A 2 in Singles & Dating

If you were to be stranded on an island with any three people......................
What alcoholic drink would you bring along, that would get every ones clothes off the fastest? Remember, you have to populate the island so you have a cheap labor source, so this is an important life skill. If you list the people you would like to be stranded with instead of reading the question, you will be DISQUALIFIED! Yes, and it will go on your PERMANENT RECORD!

2006-09-21 08:54:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating