Family & Relationships - 21 September 2006

Right now I am in a tricky financial mess because my wife just up and leaves jobs without finding a new one. She goes like 1 month with a job and 1 month looking for a new one. Its totally irresponsible. Right now we are trying to move into a new place, but because she hasnt been able to maintain a job for even more then 45 days we have problems. How can I teach her about doing things smart without offending her. Shes 28, but goes through life like she can still count on others to take care of her. Should I just let her stand on her own and work the problem out or step in a fix everything once again? Im to the point where its really getting me angry.

2006-09-21 00:38:24 · 15 answers · asked by Joe Bob Charlie, Joe Bob Chopper 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I ve known her for only 7 months ,i really had a crush on her,i ve been trying to court her but i am working very far away frm where she is currently. she is studying in university,and there another guy trying to court her.Do i still have a chance?and how to win her heart can anyone help??

2006-09-21 00:36:50 · 9 answers · asked by lamlieth 2 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy 6 months ago when I was taking a french course. He's a very nice guy, polite, well-educated, he was so sweet to me. We dated for couple of times, and we both had a good time together, and he told me that he liked me. Then, just before summer, I asked him about his plans during summer, and he said : "My gf from NY will come to France and we'll spend the summer together". And I was shocked, and sad. Since that time, I lost contact with him, and we never met again. And now, I actually want to contact him again, because I think he was my friend, and I don't want to lose a friend, although I still have a feeling for him. Should I contact him again?

2006-09-21 00:35:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-21 00:33:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

a homeless guy comes into where i work almost every night and i always buy him a cup of coffee, well i dont really buy it. i figure if the cops get it free he can too so i ring it up as a police promo.

2006-09-21 00:32:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-09-21 00:30:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

if a guy likes a girl , but never says so, but always show respect and lotz care for the girl.......he knows that the girl likes him too...

Does it mean he is not ready ...or that he is simply shy , so that he is simply not intereted...

2006-09-21 00:29:43 · 8 answers · asked by hi 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm sure you do know a fellow roommate, friend or acquaintance whose time spent on-line is, shall we say, excessive....

2006-09-21 00:29:37 · 36 answers · asked by catty blond 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-21 00:28:57 · 2 answers · asked by nashid w 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, I am 4 years older than this girl i really really love!!! BUT all her mom sees is our age diffrence. I feel that if she really knew me then she wouldn't mind me going out with her daughter.What should i do???

2006-09-21 00:28:26 · 8 answers · asked by John R 1 in Singles & Dating

im starting to think that drinking keystone ice beer and chain smoking must be a true beauty secret. is that true or is my mind just very clouded?

2006-09-21 00:27:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Loser's and lopps and married guys, ect....
and bypasses her best friend (thats me !) and then feels she has to lie about it? I love her a lot so if that makes her happy OK (not perfect ! Just OK) WHY THE LIES ?

2006-09-21 00:27:16 · 3 answers · asked by george m 1 in Singles & Dating

what to look for to know if a person is a gay? like a***?

2006-09-21 00:26:11 · 8 answers · asked by Who knows ????????? 2 in Singles & Dating

My thinking is that sexual relation is totally different from true friendship.

2006-09-21 00:25:51 · 16 answers · asked by satishk1087 1 in Friends

2006-09-21 00:25:34 · 4 answers · asked by Henry W 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wedding is fast approaching (october 28th) and I need to submit a song list to my DJ asap. What are good songs for:
mother/son dance?
introductions?
bridal party dance?

etc.... ? The only 2 I have picked out now are for Our 1st dance, and father/daughter dance....?

Thanks!

2006-09-21 00:24:24 · 7 answers · asked by Lisa S 3 in Weddings

2006-09-21 00:22:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

pain consist of physical,mental,social . is there anything in which a person feels all kind of pain

2006-09-21 00:20:22 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-21 00:20:09 · 9 answers · asked by R 1 in Singles & Dating

doesnt it kinda suck that you meet some really decent people online to chat to but it always seems like the really decent ones that you would really want to hang out with always live really far away?

2006-09-21 00:19:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

But suddenly he got panicky, saying he was having doubts we were right for each other. He said he needed a break from us. obviously this left me completely devastated. I moved home to the UK from his home (Canada), and tried to pick up my life. After a week he called saying he didnt think he was in love with me anymore, and that our relationship had changed. This sounded so final, I was heartbroken.. We had an amazing relationship and now everything is a mess. So I tried to pick myself up the best I could.
Untill today I was doing ok. But he called this morning. He sounded so down and sad. He told me he had started taking drugs (which he never did with me) he needs them to 'have a good time' He says his life's a mess. He misses me, and has thought about coming bk to UK and begging me to take him back. He said he keeps thinking about the good times, but NEVER actually said I WANT YOU BACK, which is what I needed to here. He made me promise to call tonight, what shoud I do?

2006-09-21 00:19:16 · 20 answers · asked by Sophie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm dating a guy since one year and we've realised that we do not really know each other. l don't know what to say to him or what type of questions l should ask him. l told him everything l know about me and still l'm feeling this gap between us. please help.

2006-09-21 00:19:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when you know a girl doesnt like you no more but she doesnt dumb you? and you already rind someone else but you still with that person should you keep her or dumb her your self or let it be an adventure

2006-09-21 00:18:26 · 13 answers · asked by cooldude_92627 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-21 00:17:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-21 00:15:57 · 15 answers · asked by kitty 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

This is somewhat related to my previous post, but my boyfriend has no academic drive. He's smart, but he was never a good student in school nor does he have self-ambition. However, he told me he would complete a degree just because I wanted him to. He told me he doesn't want to, but because I want to, he'd do it to fit my "ideal partner" notion. Is this the right motivation or does it even matter? I'd rather he want it himself...

2006-09-21 00:15:55 · 7 answers · asked by Indubitably 1 in Marriage & Divorce

she is always so caring, i wish i could be that polite all the time. i really think she is the most wonderful person in the world.

2006-09-21 00:14:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband and I said no new dog after ours passed away that was before she did now after she has been gone a year I miss her and having a dog - husband thinks the world is black and white - I WANT A DOG!! If I just go and get one - he would always be saying "I told you we did not need a dog" everytime something went wrong which dogs get into trouble - how do I turn him around?????

2006-09-21 00:12:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend of 2 years has been cheating on me behind my back. I'm so heartbroken and the girl is his ex.

2006-09-21 00:12:42 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just wondered what features that makes a man sexually attractive? This question is aimed at anyone.
I understand a nice smile or personality and many other features might make someone attractive but what about sexual attractivity?

2006-09-21 00:11:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships