Family & Relationships - 21 September 2006

So many couples split up and then we have to see them fall apart, physically and mentally.Wouldn't it be easier to not be? Sure, in our late teens/early 20s we may have alot in common with our partner, but we all grow, spiritually/religiously, we all change, so do we try to keep a commitment to that person that we knew 'back then' even though if we were introduced to them now, we might not be as interested in them?

2006-09-21 02:06:16 · 15 answers · asked by Andrea 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i have been talking to this guy whom i knew during college days over msn for a year or so. we didnt really know each other during college days, mere acquaintance..

we are both shy persons, and we chat practically everyday for hours. we talk abt daily routines, confide in e/o, share plans, future, and dreams.. yet i am unsure if he has feelings. our future plans do not converge as we are in different locations, and do not foresee any possibility of moving. also, we are of diff religions..

also, we have met up a few mths ago after 2 yrs i left college and had few days of fun together.

Yet, what does he really want? i really dont know.

Guys and girls, feel free to advise me, what u all think abt this. i am really tired of guessing. :(

2006-09-21 02:05:50 · 7 answers · asked by teddie 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-21 02:05:16 · 5 answers · asked by jemz 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-21 02:03:17 · 8 answers · asked by MARGARET B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

can anybody help me out? How can I tell that he really does " love me" like he say he do? he shows it. what should I do?

2006-09-21 02:02:07 · 18 answers · asked by audrey p 1 in Singles & Dating

Are you a child of the living Lord who was crucified, buried, and who rose again for you? If so, then why are you afraid? Why do you worry so? If God is with you, there is no reason for fear. There is no reason for worry.

If you do not follow Jesus, you have every reason to worry. However, if you would just trust in Him, there will be no reason.

2006-09-21 02:01:22 · 8 answers · asked by Dead 2 Self 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-21 02:00:55 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he dumped me on sunday via text, we met on holiday 6 weeks ago. i slept at his quite often and got on really well with his mum. but after we split his mum texted me askin to still visit her. i've told i'd think about it but im not sure whether i should. what do you think?

2006-09-21 02:00:50 · 17 answers · asked by KiRSTY--BB3 2 in Singles & Dating

.....and more open with their needs in this area, have women become sex goddesses in this new century, or have we just found new ways to have fun ??

2006-09-21 02:00:49 · 6 answers · asked by ho2asme 2 in Singles & Dating

When I have an orgasm I shoot a very large amount of fluid and it shoots very far and fast (like accross the room or it hits the ceiling making a very large mess). Is that normal? Is it ok?

2006-09-21 01:59:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and said it was weakness of his. What was I supposed to say???

2006-09-21 01:59:25 · 29 answers · asked by Beth 3 in Singles & Dating

I also need some tips on how to be really sexy in bed!!

2006-09-21 01:59:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Or is a lie a lie? i am guilty of that at least once in my life.
I only do it if it saves the feelings of the person in question.

2006-09-21 01:58:41 · 10 answers · asked by ? 4 in Friends

My daughter had a weight problem as a child, it peaked just before puberty when she was about 180 pounds. She went down to a size 6 by the time she reached high school and she loved wearing all the fahions and all the attention from boys.
Now she has graduated and is taking a gap year. However, over the past year she has gained about 30 pounds and I see her heading back down the same road. Whenever I mention anything to her clothes wise, food wise, etc. she gets emotional and accuses me of trying to make her anorexic. I don't say anything any more, but it saddens me to see her this way. Yes, healthy food is placed on the table every day, but I know she's eating fast food when she's out and hoarding treats in her room. Any suggestions?

2006-09-21 01:57:57 · 19 answers · asked by LuckyO 2 in Family

I have an abusive alcholic father. He wants me to spend more time with him and talk to him more often. THe thing is, that every time I know that I am about to see him, I have panic attacks. ANd usually after I see him, I am really depressed for days. I just cant find it in me to forgive him. I try so hard. Still, sometimes when I see him he is mean to me. SO I really dread talking to him because he always is mean to me on the phone. He says that he loves me. I think he does. But the alchol is distorting it. SHould I give him another chance?

2006-09-21 01:57:09 · 35 answers · asked by Broken_Inside 1 in Family

2006-09-21 01:57:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-21 01:56:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

are ***** really only for chicks? come on people going for 5 straight bans or is it 6

2006-09-21 01:56:34 · 5 answers · asked by Wondering If ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my late husband passed away 6 years ago and i ended up falling in love with my brother in law. we been together since he has been gone is it right ?Will i go to hell ..I do think it does tell in the bible.

2006-09-21 01:56:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-21 01:56:11 · 10 answers · asked by tanya 2 in Singles & Dating

I have met a guy online . we live in hte same city but have not met up yet. Im started to have feelings for him and he has for me . Im moving away in the next two months and he told me he didnt want me too cause he would miss me alot. What should i do ?

2006-09-21 01:54:33 · 15 answers · asked by dramaqueen 3 in Singles & Dating

my exboyfriend was very jealous right from the beggining, but i could work, well, with him,of c my friends, but later, i had to stop working, i couldn go in to the shop or so, he was upset over everything. is there any chance for him to get better?i love him,i want to be with him, but not like this

2006-09-21 01:54:16 · 9 answers · asked by Eli 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hey all I have a problem and i need advice?
My girl and i have or had a good relationship for a long time almost 4 years we have both done some jive things to each other but our relationship has and is losing its fire. Im losing her to her friends in which I feel I should come first especially when Im home because im away at school. She really doesnt express herself that much to me anymore. She and we usually say I love you all the time but we havent said it in almost a week now, shes not as bubbly or loving as she used to be. I tried to talk it over with her and because I've done this on numerous occasions she doesnt want 2 hear it anymore. I love her a whole lot but Im completely lost?

2006-09-21 01:53:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

but i also think my partner is cheating

2006-09-21 01:53:18 · 24 answers · asked by purdy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hey all I have a problem and i need advice?
My girl and i have or had a good relationship for a long time almost 4 years we have both done some jive things to each other but our relationship has and is losing its fire. Im losing her to her friends in which I feel I should come first especially when Im home because im away at school. She really doesnt express herself that much to me anymore. She and we usually say I love you all the time but we havent said it in almost a week now, shes not as bubbly or loving as she used to be. I tried to talk it over with her and because I've done this on numerous occasions she doesnt want 2 hear it anymore. I love her a whole lot but Im completely lost?

2006-09-21 01:52:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

this year and in youre whole life? please honest answers only.

2006-09-21 01:52:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I believes, There is only one heaven it is
where we are living now. Hell is our private creation, to our s/roundings. What is ur Idia.

2006-09-21 01:52:01 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Hey all I have a problem and i need advice?
My girl and i have or had a good relationship for a long time almost 4 years we have both done some jive things to each other but our relationship has and is losing its fire. Im losing her to her friends in which I feel I should come first especially when Im home because im away at school. She really doesnt express herself that much to me anymore. She and we usually say I love you all the time but we havent said it in almost a week now, shes not as bubbly or loving as she used to be. I tried to talk it over with her and because I've done this on numerous occasions she doesnt want 2 hear it anymore. I love her a whole lot but Im completely lost?

2006-09-21 01:51:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

should i sign them or contest them and try to recover my property she stole

2006-09-21 01:51:18 · 18 answers · asked by ransom4660 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I been talking to a lot of women lately and they state that when a guys is indecisive, that turns them off. Now I always thought that compromise in a relationship was good. I mean I thought it was normal to sacrfice for your other once in a while t o show you care and to ask what she wants to do also . thus my question above folks above. ALL OPINIONS ARE WELCOMED

2006-09-21 01:50:21 · 22 answers · asked by Arthur D 3 in Singles & Dating