Family & Relationships - 21 September 2006

my friend got marrid to a guy who lives here, they been arguing since beginnig and its the guy's fault(who is here)who make it difficult for her to continue this relationship. he is trying to bring her here also but she doesnt want the things getting worse. he already file her document and trying to bring her with K3 visa(fiance visa) . she wants to get divorce but doesnt know how to apply for it over her.can i do anything for her?

2006-09-21 01:50:20 · 2 answers · asked by sami 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The first time he came to my workplace I noticed that look in his eyes but he couldn't tell me much as my colleague was talking to me. The 2nd time round we talked more & the 3rd time he asked for my number. He called, we went out and it was exciting although I've never been so nervous. After this one date he wouldn't stop calling & txtg me for another date. I was too nervous to meet him again just then. I then txt him to be patient with me. Since sending him that txt I haven't heard from. Its now 3 days. Do you think he's still interested in me?

2006-09-21 01:50:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Once a month my husband can be a real butthead. Do any other women have the same problem I do?

2006-09-21 01:50:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-21 01:48:39 · 21 answers · asked by sunny 4 in Singles & Dating

I know wot it means but from where did it come?

2006-09-21 01:48:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He is a muslim Iman and is so sweet & respectful I really admire him....However I'm looking at long term, I'm very independent and strongly opinionated I like him alot but what type of problems can I encounter and how can I effectively deal with it. what should I do ?

2006-09-21 01:48:27 · 14 answers · asked by Blaque Inque 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-21 01:47:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-21 01:47:52 · 7 answers · asked by julawh 1 in Friends

I know this girl, she has a boyfriend, yesterday she was mad at me and i asked her if she was ok she looked like she was ok and even told me.and told me i was a big flirt . then she hugged me unexcpectedly in front of her boyfriends friends. then the next day she totally avoided me. the only thing she said to me was could you get me a book.

WHATS HAPPENING!!!!

2006-09-21 01:47:46 · 5 answers · asked by Shawn T 1 in Singles & Dating

Just out of curiosity really, as I've heard many stories of "1 or 2 month's salary", jsut wondered if there is a 'standard' amount that people tend to spend?

2006-09-21 01:47:43 · 50 answers · asked by Andy F 2 in Weddings

Where do you draw the line before holding yrself back from just wanting to jump on someone...and ravish them.....

5 minutes....1 hour....a few dates....how do u stop the urge to just grab em and kiss em hard

2006-09-21 01:45:57 · 36 answers · asked by Adams abs 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-21 01:45:50 · 4 answers · asked by marcus k 1 in Singles & Dating

I had pretty,sweet woman, maybe a bit young for me, but she really loved me and showed it many ways.She had a habit of lying to many people, but in our relationship she was fathful and caring, available in many ways. I felt lucky, happy, until I did my usual thing in relationships: got bored, started to take it for granted, going out and flirting occassionally. I left for 6 weeks on business and she had an affair. I returned, over-reacted. She lost friends from her behavior, felt alone, so she left the area and found work in a large city 8 hours away. After a month she returned to get personal items from her mom's home, and I contacted her. We met for 3 evenings, she was hesitant but open to me, we made love each evening.Tomorrow she leaves, possibly to never return,says she is happy and busy in her new life, that she just wants to get established, get own place, doesn't want any guys.Tonight we meet.What can I say to win her love and trust. I would move there gladly if she accepts.??

2006-09-21 01:44:15 · 22 answers · asked by Nick N 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

what can i do

2006-09-21 01:44:04 · 14 answers · asked by deepthi m 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-21 01:42:53 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Don't want to give off the impression that I am something that I am not just to get attention. Advice? How do I send that message that I'm interested?

2006-09-21 01:42:18 · 19 answers · asked by poof-a-nini 1 in Singles & Dating

I had pretty,sweet woman, maybe a bit young for me, but she really loved me and showed it many ways.She had a habit of lying to many people, but in our relationship she was fathful and caring, available in many ways. I felt lucky, happy, until I did my usual thing in relationships: got bored, started to take it for granted, going out and flirting occassionally. I left for 6 weeks on business and she had an affair. I returned, over-reacted. She lost friends from her behavior, felt alone, so she left the area and found work in a large city 8 hours away. After a month she returned to get personal items from her mom's home, and I contacted her. We met for 3 evenings, she was hesitant but open to me, we made love each evening.Tomorrow she leaves, possibly to never return,says she is happy and busy in her new life, that she just wants to get established, get own place, doesn't want any guys.Tonight we meet.What can I say to win her love and trust. I would move there gladly if she accepts.??

2006-09-21 01:41:15 · 4 answers · asked by Nick N 1 in Singles & Dating

How do I let my UPS guy that comes to my work everday know that I am interested?

2006-09-21 01:40:18 · 17 answers · asked by misscongeniality711 2 in Singles & Dating

How will i get over this. I met and fell in love with a man - the first one since my husband passed away, I never thought i would fall in love again but i fell head over heels & we were supposed to get married. In feb i found out he had gone to visit is ex & he slept with her. It broke my heart but i forgive him on the basis anyone can be forgiven for one mistake. Just over a month ago he wasn't acting himself so i foolishly checked his mobile (which is not like me) and found he had text her to say he is missing her. I confronted him & all he could say was that i should not have checked his phone & placed all the blame on me. Now a month on he still doesn't want to be with me saying that he can't get close to anyone & this has left me feeling utterly destroyed - we were so good together and nobody will ever love him like i do - all our children got on so well together & we could have been one big happy family. I just want it to get back to how it was - it's tearing me apart!!!

2006-09-21 01:39:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

sometimes i am a three a day visitor myself....am i overbooked for appointments...will i go blind...!

2006-09-21 01:38:58 · 26 answers · asked by Adams abs 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a girlfriend but i dont like her best friend and she doesnt like me either.

What do i do?

2006-09-21 01:37:56 · 13 answers · asked by Shawn T 1 in Singles & Dating

We met in April and at that point he didnt ask me out. So iasked him where this was going. He was apologetic and said he was in between moving jobs and would contact when he was settled in. He finally did and has mentioned meeting up but not asked me out. Now I'm fustrated, should I ask him straight out or leave him to ask me.

2006-09-21 01:36:28 · 16 answers · asked by Butterfly 1 in Singles & Dating

later from out of town you call no where to be found. all is forgiven,but i told her i did cheat. she keep throwing the fact i cheated in my face, bet she want edmit that she did. she said he was not there come to find out he was there. what should i do if i think they had sex but don't know, but little clues she still talks to him the baby is all most 2 he seen the baby 2 time. she says he calls her to speck with the baby what shoud i do?

2006-09-21 01:36:11 · 9 answers · asked by carl w 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-21 01:35:51 · 5 answers · asked by Jon 1 in Singles & Dating

im seventeen, and im about to start paying bills for my family, is that too early and wrong, or normal?

2006-09-21 01:35:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my wife is 4 months pregnant with our 4th child. when we have sex, she complains that it hurts her too much. we have tried different positions but they all hurt her. is there anything we can do to get ourlove life back?

2006-09-21 01:33:54 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-21 01:33:15 · 20 answers · asked by Priyanka 1 in Friends

2006-09-21 01:32:21 · 7 answers · asked by acee 1 in Singles & Dating

i had a gf and our relationship is 3yrs old.. we had a lot of fights.. almost every fortnight.. and i saw her suffering coz of it everytime.. its not tat it was always my fault but ya i agree most of the time.. i tried not to repeat those mistakes n not make other mistakes.. but i did.. n i saw her in real pain..
she said she is not happy wid me... but i know she loves me a lot n i love her a lot too..
but today i couldn't see her sad anymore and i find myself guilty for that.. so i told her tat i dont love her and we should end the relationship right here.. she cried a lot.. but i feel tat is a one time pain... after she recovers from it she will be very happy without me..

2006-09-21 01:31:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-21 01:30:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating