my wife is 4 months pregnant with our 4th child. when we have sex, she complains that it hurts her too much. we have tried different positions but they all hurt her. is there anything we can do to get ourlove life back?
2006-09-21 01:33:54 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i told her we could stop. she didnt want to. she was in control and depite the pain, she kept on. she has had pain during the other pregnancies, but she says this is the worst.
2006-09-21 03:11:36 · update #1
It shouldn't be causing pain. She should discuss this with her OB.
2006-09-21 01:37:31 · answer #1 · answered by C K Platypus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's kind of early for pain. I would ask a doctor, especially being her 4th pregnancy. I had a issue with sex in my 9th month, not from pain but just being uncomfortable with my weight. I went from 120lbs to 180lbs during my pregnancy. I enjoyed sex during pregancy and my husband did as well. The last month my husband was probably the happiest man on earth... He got some good head for the entire month of December.
2006-09-21 01:45:09 · answer #2 · answered by BB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you didn't state if you had sex with the other pregnancies? In her 2ND trimester things change as you know. Be patient try another approach pamper her. Ask her at what point does it start to hurt? Right now if all fails she can please you with masturbation or oral. I am sure you can reach a happy medium. Its hard on you if you had a active sex life. You have five more months to go good luck.
2006-09-21 01:42:50 · answer #3 · answered by justturning40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask HER! I'm sure she wants it too, right? so let HER be in control and tell you what she considers 'safe' to do... then mix up all the good things. Consider it role play that while she is preggers, that she does all the sex control. Get the carma sutra book, let her suggest ideas and make it one big experiment.. see what works. Then when she's not again... you'll have plenty of ideas to get you to your 5th child.
2006-09-21 01:44:39 · answer #4 · answered by Valeria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't wanna for gawds sake, can you hold off for awhile?
you can have sex up until her water breaks. But shes probably not feeling it right now. Her body has been thrown into turmoil the hormones the chemicals are flying every which way. Hold her, snuggle her, tell her you love her just back up on the sex for now. it will come back, just not right now.
2006-09-21 02:51:55 · answer #5 · answered by janice28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-21 01:36:52 · answer #6 · answered by Jesus Freak!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask a physician about this. It's not necessarily supposed to hurt. Has it hurt in the past with your previous children?
2006-09-21 01:35:21 · answer #7 · answered by Eric L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably hype sensitive at the moment.
Go to the xxx shop and get some lube.
U get this one which will make you both get the tingling feeling down there while u do it
Loads of fun!!!
2006-09-21 01:42:20 · answer #8 · answered by chanD 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea u can
go oral my dear!! First, you give her all hers, ask her to let you know when she's had enough orgasms (be prepared, thismay take a while)
then let her give you yours.
You both get all the satisfaction of being together and none of the pain of being pounded on
2006-09-21 01:37:46 · answer #9 · answered by koleebear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try going to a doctor, maybe something is wrong, unless it was the same with the other childs..
2006-09-21 01:35:36 · answer #10 · answered by Grrr Grrr Miao 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋