Family & Relationships - 21 September 2006

i am thinking of having children in the next 1 or 2 years. me and my husband really love kids and we both have always wanted to have kids.

but at times i think - will i cope ? will things be the same after babies arrive? will i be able to balance work / life ? will i be left torn between my children and my career ? and all these thoughts scare me...

appreciate moms to give me some advise and encouragement... and your experiences as a mother?

2006-09-21 23:34:21 · 38 answers · asked by GorGeous_Girl 5 in Family

we all can relate to the erection section at the end of the night in a club, last night i was dancing with an attractive young lady, when the inevitable happened, what dyu do to cover it up......? i bent down and pretended my shoelace was undone, funny thing was i dont have any shoelaces.....?

2006-09-21 23:33:59 · 26 answers · asked by ztt_66 2 in Singles & Dating

and why do i have this crazy feeling that someone is gonna say neil diamond?

2006-09-21 23:31:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i think it's cuz their options are limited, right?

2006-09-21 23:30:58 · 19 answers · asked by Mystery Guest 2 in Singles & Dating

and then when they stare back at you... do you want to talk to him?

2006-09-21 23:30:39 · 25 answers · asked by poplockerbreaker 1 in Singles & Dating

She wants me to get my private area waxed, so that all I have is skin! No hair!!
Do any women have any suggestions as to why I shouldn't??!! She gets brazilians, and she would like me to as well.

2006-09-21 23:30:36 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-21 23:27:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So many people are not happily married these days. What is it, sex problems, financial, kid problems, lack of intimacy, married too young, want someone else. Just a few to help you along, but what would you say was the main one these days? Too much stress, maybe? Can we overcome these problems or just throw in the towel?

2006-09-21 23:27:08 · 30 answers · asked by shardf 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i love a girl... she too loves me...
but in my family they are not allowing us to marry....
wot to do?

2006-09-21 23:26:37 · 20 answers · asked by prasanth 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-21 23:25:41 · 10 answers · asked by muppet 4 in Singles & Dating

Come on, like, if you lived in a country where *millions* of loving-fathers had their children stolen then would you believe such hog-wash? Didn't think so.

2006-09-21 23:24:02 · 13 answers · asked by Put_ya_mitts_up 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Yes I know I am a jealous person and this might sound like a silly question but what if your husband comes home with his shirt on inside out. My husband has done this twice here lately it was like that when he came home from work. He said he didn't know it was like that. I leave in the morning before he gets up for work. He works outside and not in the public. I have my socks on inside out right now and didn't know it but I am not cheating. :-)

2006-09-21 23:22:43 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I wanna make you smile,when ever you are sad,
carry you to bed when your arthritis is bad.
all I want to do is grow old with you.
I'll get your medicine when your tummy aches,
build you a fire if the furnace breaks.
If I could be the man to grow old with you.
I'll miss you,kiss you
Give you my coat when you are cold.
need you,feed you
even let you hold the remote control
So let me do the dishes in our kitchen sink.
put you to bed when you had to much to drink.
Oh,it would be so nice to grow old with you.
I'll miss you ,kiss you.
give you my coat when you are cold.
need you,feed you
even let you hold the remote control
So if you think this song, is all about you.
As I'm finishing,one last word that is true
Oh,how I would love to be the man.
to grow old with you.
I want to grow old with you
what do you think.

2006-09-21 23:19:42 · 17 answers · asked by lovely soul with insite 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm 18 and i feel like i haven't help much... now me and my familly has a big finnancial problem..and i need HELP! I've asked my bestfriend about this, but i need more suggestion, could you tell me little things that would help them?...My mom don't believe in dreams, and miracle. She use to, but sometimes she asked God about these things, like "God, we didn't do anything wrong, but why you gave us this kind of problem" Christmas is coming soon, i hope everything's alright at Christmas... HELPPP!

2006-09-21 23:18:29 · 11 answers · asked by Natasha D 1 in Family

i gave my mobile no to one chat friend. he started calling every ten mins. i explained him its not possible to ans the call as i am in colege or doin something else.i told him u can cal in the eve i am free but still he continued calling at any time of the day mr.then i tried ti convience him politely but he didnt listen so i broke friendship with him. now he cals me using diff mobile nos .so iam not able to screen particular no. each time he cals using new no.please help

2006-09-21 23:18:26 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm affraid i'll lose my kids to him because he has a good job and brings home lots of money where i only work casual i don't know what i'll di if he wants out i'm in australia what are my options

2006-09-21 23:16:15 · 8 answers · asked by poptrash 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My bro (25) and his gf of 3-years (21) just got engaged. However, when he told my parents they were really mad about it. How can i help calm them down and let them be cool with the marriage?

2006-09-21 23:16:08 · 10 answers · asked by Liz^24 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My favourite names all begin with the letter J...can anyone tell me any unusual ones....xx

2006-09-21 23:15:39 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have made a dvd for my ex for her birthday. On it are loads of photos and memories of when we were together.

I am not sending it with the intention of getting back with her, but to give her something to remind her of how much fun we had and stuff like that. Something basically for her to keep for the future so one day when she wants to remember stuff she has something to look at and remind her.

We have been apart for two months now, and I am not sure if it too soon to send such a gift, or even if it is appropriate. So any answers from the ladies here would be of great help.

I have bought her a card which will definitely be sent, but I am not sure whether to send her this DvD of memories of when we were together, even though my intentions in making it is purely friendly and something I thought she might like rather then a book / dvd/ etc.

Thanks

2006-09-21 23:12:58 · 43 answers · asked by Dave 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-21 23:12:38 · 3 answers · asked by pureessence 2 in Friends

2006-09-21 23:10:29 · 11 answers · asked by Girly 2 in Singles & Dating

i`m 22 years old girl , no boyfriend, lots of friends , virgin, no disease very healty...... am i ugly ??? is that wrong being a single in my age and virgin too?? help..please

2006-09-21 23:10:10 · 13 answers · asked by shaffy 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a single mother of a little girl who is amazing. However, I worry that I may never find anyone because I AM a single mother. What do you guys think of single mom's? Is it possible that I may find love again despite the fact I am a single mom?

2006-09-21 23:09:07 · 18 answers · asked by southern_gal_wow 2 in Singles & Dating

What would your last ever shag on earth be like ? What would you do ?

2006-09-21 23:08:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-21 23:07:10 · 22 answers · asked by James Williams 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to break up with my boyfriend, he is a really nice guy but not the guy for me! He sometimes embarass me infront of his family and his friends, when I tell him about something that bothers me about him, he imediatly goes into defence mode (starts fighting with me) without trying to talk about it. I want to leave him but dont know how, when or where???? Please help me?????

2006-09-21 23:00:57 · 13 answers · asked by Princess 1 in Singles & Dating

My mother-in-law passed away because of a major illness that went undetected,until she died.Hubby is very depressed.But he it too busy taking care of my FIL that he is neglecting me.I feel very hurt.Its almost 1 month now .Pls dont tell me that he needs the time etc etc......i can understand all that...but i am also a human being with emotions...
Feeling very neglected :(

2006-09-21 23:00:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I got married when i was very young & got 2 kids. but got seperated from them. my parents too desserted me. Then a family friend tried to convince all but failed. then he told that i need social security as am young & married me. now the problem is my children are grown up & they wants me too *** back with them & also my ex husband. now what should i do?

2006-09-21 22:55:25 · 8 answers · asked by brinda s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I left my ex with our child and now i hear he's met someone else after 6months. i am very sad, i just wanted his attention and now its over and i want to fix things. i did a lot wrong to him and regret it but i've heard he's happy with someone else, what do i do?

2006-09-21 22:54:51 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My mother died when I was fifteen, and my brother was seventeen, I was sent to live with my mother's parents who were homophobic and religious-fanatic while I am gay and agnostic, my father also kept my older brother.

My grandparents tried to make me see being gay was wrong, sick, unnatural, and sinful. They also made me go to a counsellor that nearly drove to kill myself, and caused me to self-harm. I lost the will to live almost completely.

Thankfully I have my friend Nathan, who always swore since I first met him, when I was fourteen, to protect me, even from myself. I am going to be nineteen soon, I am happy now, and I have not been in contact with any of my family since I turned eighteen, and moved in with Nathan.

So who do you think hates me more, my father for sending me there and seeming to not care, or my grandparents who made me miserable...?

2006-09-21 22:54:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships