I'm 18 and i feel like i haven't help much... now me and my familly has a big finnancial problem..and i need HELP! I've asked my bestfriend about this, but i need more suggestion, could you tell me little things that would help them?...My mom don't believe in dreams, and miracle. She use to, but sometimes she asked God about these things, like "God, we didn't do anything wrong, but why you gave us this kind of problem" Christmas is coming soon, i hope everything's alright at Christmas... HELPPP!
2006-09-21 23:18:29 · 11 answers · asked by Natasha D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i think that the best thing you can do is not to quit school get an eduaction,, that way in the long run you'll be able to get a better paid job than you ever would if you decided to help by getting a job now. it is not you fault neither is it god punishing you for anything its just circumstances things will getbetter trust me they always do. i would stop askin god for help and choose a path that makes you happy.
2006-09-21 23:33:16 · answer #1 · answered by emmiemoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is common to all family, financial problem is everywhere at every level, even governments are playing for money and praying for money. In the age of 18 you feel high in this regard, you could not support in this time, your parents know about that very much, give moral support to them, that is sufficinet to create a happy home, which is your contribution for this situation, you parents will take care of this situation. best wishes Natasha.
2006-09-22 06:24:43 · answer #2 · answered by Devaraj A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes theses things happen,its very good of u to want to help your mum,but your only 18 and should be having a life of your own not havin to worry about your parents finances, if you work maybe u could put sum money toward a bill or start paying rent if u still live at home??? i wish u and your family luck with this
2006-09-22 06:26:14 · answer #3 · answered by Princess xx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go find a job and give half (or all) of your salary to them or maybe instead of them buying groceries, you do it (using your own money). So that they can save the money (that was intended for grocery) for a more important matter.
be practical with everything you buy or where you use your money.
Also be practical in using your electricity, water and those kind of stuffs. SAVE MONEY. dont waste it on unnecessary stuffs. As much as possible, spend only if you REALLY have to.
2006-09-22 06:23:05 · answer #4 · answered by Jacky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you could provide more information about the situation I could probably be more helpful to you.
What is the financial problem and why ?
What else is going on in the family if anything ?
Any background would be helpful.
2006-09-22 09:31:19 · answer #5 · answered by jarhed 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its bad they have this problem but it is their problem not yours ,that sound mean but its the truth you need to concentrate at getting your life started (school ,job)and in that way you may be able to help them later
2006-09-22 06:22:55 · answer #6 · answered by stephanie n 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
always there is silver lining in each dark cloud . i sincerely pray to the lord to help your family out before Christmas
2006-09-22 06:21:59 · answer #7 · answered by trishul60 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry I dont have any good advice.
I guess if you can't help financially, try to lessen their burden by spending less.
Good Luck
2006-09-22 06:22:01 · answer #8 · answered by d2pain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't really say what type of help you want to give your parents. If its money, get a job.
2006-09-22 06:21:49 · answer #9 · answered by aawatson3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents got into whatever mess they got into and it is up to them to get themselves out of it. You cannot fix people so stop trying. You also cannot control nor are respsonsile how others' think, feel and act. Stop trying to be their Fairy Godmother.
2006-09-22 06:23:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋