i love a girl... she too loves me...
but in my family they are not allowing us to marry....
wot to do?
2006-09-21 23:26:37 · 20 answers · asked by prasanth 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and also i want to marry only with their permission....
2006-09-21 23:30:15 · update #1
i'm 22.... can you now say something more?
2006-09-21 23:34:18 · update #2
wait till your parents understand your feelings.....
2006-09-23 03:30:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can see that you're not from the U.S. What country are you from, and what reasons do your family give you.? In the US, it's not so important whether or not the mom or dad approves of the marriage, but whether or not two people really do love oneother. However, we do have a divorce rate of at least 50%. So what does that tell you? Perhaps your family has more insight and wisdom than you give them credit for. By the way, how old are the two of you anyway? Besides, if you both truely do love one another then putting marriage off for a while would only prove to your family how strong your love really is.
2006-09-22 06:52:39 · answer #2 · answered by artinmyheart 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sadly this is a common occurrence in certain 'cultures.' I think you have to make a choice: either marry the girl you love and risk losing your family, or give up the girl you love in order to keep your family. You are an adult, and I believe you should be allowed to make your own decisions. Good luck!
2006-09-22 07:19:08 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont run into marriage just yet then if yall love each other whether married or not you still with her married just show that you are legal with being that person as in husband and wife soo at least wait then if you love her then you can wait and just be boyfriend and girlfriend.
2006-09-22 06:30:24 · answer #4 · answered by tweetyladyc1029 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait to get married until the family allows you to if that's important to you.
2006-09-22 06:32:17 · answer #5 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Patience. I believe it takes time to get into acceptance by your family or both families -- Prove them that you both are in love -- it depends on your age. If under 18, then you have no control. If 18 and up, it's up to you. All you can do is have a seat and talk with them about your feelings, about this whole thing.
2006-09-22 06:30:30 · answer #6 · answered by MICKEY MOUSE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep on speaking to your families and tell them that you guys really love each other and that you want their blessing to get married. If they are being stubborn, I suggest that you move to another location and then get married there and live happily ever after.
2006-09-22 06:29:02 · answer #7 · answered by Rock Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marry her and do work some other city.don,t care about the peoples
2006-09-22 06:30:12 · answer #8 · answered by stranger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait my friend , talk 2 ur parents about this seriously
slow and steady wins the race
2006-09-23 01:43:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you truly love her then do what you have to love is deeper then family run with her good luck to the both of you
2006-09-22 06:31:12 · answer #10 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Taking a longlong conversation with your parents ,
and persuade them..
Good luck boy..
2006-09-22 06:29:44 · answer #11 · answered by Taylor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋