I'm affraid i'll lose my kids to him because he has a good job and brings home lots of money where i only work casual i don't know what i'll di if he wants out i'm in australia what are my options
2006-09-21 23:16:15 · 8 answers · asked by poptrash 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Try to save the marriage. Try looking at things differently. It's hard to have a broken family. lots harder than a marrage sometimes. I don't know your situation but please try. Good luck and god bless.
2006-09-21 23:23:44 · answer #1 · answered by Wild Bill 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Bringing out the worst in each other is not always a bad thing. You need to know what each other's standards are. You need to just sit and talk and tell each other.... this is what I don't like, and listen to what each other is saying. Some feelings may get hurt, but if you are willing to change for each other than it will work. And I don't mean totally change, just find a half way point that you are both comfortable with. Show your kids that the two of you are stronger than the hate that is in the world.
2006-09-21 23:54:11 · answer #2 · answered by obie_hardin82 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will not lose the children unles you sign them away. The mother always gets to keep them unless she is proven unfit. If he has a great job and makes lots of money then he can afford to pay good child support. There is nothing wrong with divorce and if your not happy leave and take the children with you when you go. You be the first one to have papers drawn up stating the kids are to live with you. good luck, i've been there.
2006-09-22 00:00:48 · answer #3 · answered by tonibananas72 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are the issues? Almost everything can be fixed if desired.
Instead of worrying about his leaving try spending that emotional energy fixing things.
You'd like that right?
2006-09-22 00:47:08 · answer #4 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please try and talk to each other.try taking a weekend off,drop the kids at a friends and just enjoy each other's company.try to see the good in him.try and ignore the bad points and habits in him at least for a day!!see if you feel a difference if yes,good for you,if no...then just get out!!
2006-09-21 23:19:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go to a councelor, sweetie and probably get a better job.
2006-09-21 23:18:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you would loose your children especially if they are small. Maybe you can work it out. Counseling perhaps?
2006-09-21 23:18:15 · answer #7 · answered by goodbye 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to talk and listen to your husband first
2006-09-21 23:28:32 · answer #8 · answered by enelra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋