I left my ex with our child and now i hear he's met someone else after 6months. i am very sad, i just wanted his attention and now its over and i want to fix things. i did a lot wrong to him and regret it but i've heard he's happy with someone else, what do i do?
2006-09-21 22:54:51 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I know its hard sometimes, but what you must remember is that he was and probably still is hurting too, probably scared of being hurt again aswell. In the span of it, 6months is nothing when it comes to heartbreak. I think you should speak to him, tell him how you feel and maybe get some closure on how he feels, that way, at least you will know where you stand, and then you can go from there
2006-09-21 22:59:08 · answer #1 · answered by Krissie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to said this to you, if your ex is happy with somebody else you can't do anything even though the child is with you. You have to move on with your life. There are certain things in life is when we lost it once, we may lost it permanently. Sometimes we wanted others to notice us but the things we do could backfired on us as the person may find us either too childish or irriating. So I feel that you got to be brave for the sake of your child and carry on with your life. All the best to you
2006-09-22 04:24:09 · answer #2 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ironic, you left to get his attention. Apparently you did. While you were at it he also figured out you were not worth the time. Sounds like you abandoned yuor family for no good reason. Suffer the consequences. Your misguided plot kind of backfired didn't it?
Too bad you didn't want to fix things before you bailed out. It is often the one who jumps ship who later how big a mistake it was.
Hopefully you learned that lesson for your next encounter and exhaust your resourses before you move out.
There can be little sympathy for a woman who leaves her marriage and child behind for such a lame excuse.
2006-09-22 00:32:02 · answer #3 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would move on try to keep a good relationship so your kid is happy but find someone else. Some advice for the future if you want his attention talk to him dont leave
2006-09-21 22:58:51 · answer #4 · answered by twiztid992 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you were wrong... you apologise and are willing to do anything to make it up to him...
That you still love him and realise that now...
Beg for forgiveness...
But if you think that you might end up messing up again or won't be happy in the long run then maybe there's a reason that you two are not together...
Maybe you should try to move on, especially if he doesn't want you back... Truth hurts sweety... but not forever... : )
2006-09-22 01:02:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you asked for it!!seeking attention is one thing but leaving without thinking about your child is something else!!
you cannot be so immature and expect to have the cake and eat it too!try talking to him,but if he is happy i think you should just move on!!
2006-09-21 23:01:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did him wrong he deserves to be happy. Anyway he is probably still extrermely miserable... He hasn't forgotten him you hurt him. He's still vulnerable... I bet if you call him right now and say you want him back he will be there as soon as he can.
2006-09-21 23:06:13 · answer #7 · answered by princess_lew86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately he did not play the game the way you wanted and that is what you need to live with. remember marriage is not a game, and now you are the one paying the price. You need to let him be happy, do not try to interfere.
2006-09-21 23:10:52 · answer #8 · answered by kelsey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,just move on the way he has and learn from your experiences....theres nothing that you can do about it,its better for start it all over cos you are responsible for this state,now dont make it more worse for you and your child!!good luck!!
2006-09-21 23:58:44 · answer #9 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You move on with your life and remember the valuable lesson you've learnt from your mistake so you won't be doomed to repeat it.
2006-09-21 23:08:35 · answer #10 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋