i have a girlfriend but i dont like her best friend and she doesnt like me either.
What do i do?
2006-09-21 01:37:56 · 13 answers · asked by Shawn T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and she is constantly around all the time. and i swear she bad mouths me to my girlfriend when im not around.
2006-09-21 01:38:43 · update #1
why doesnt she like you? if she has a reason for it...then i suppose its justified but if not...then consider she may like you..and she annoyed your with her best mate and not her..
2006-09-21 01:40:35 · answer #1 · answered by tinkerbell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your gf bestfriend is scared you are gonna take her completely away from her.She probably will intervene until she find out that you are a wonderful person and know to let your gf spend time with her without causing any problems. but people can still be jealous, misery loves company.
2006-09-21 08:49:18 · answer #2 · answered by juceelipz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you spoken to your girlfriend about this??? If not , do so.
Also, when you , your girlfriend and her annoying friend sit down and talk about the problems....I know this is a difficult position you are in.....but you need to put the cards on the table and now before it is too late.
Good luck
2006-09-21 08:42:51 · answer #3 · answered by Aussie Possum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone is intitled to their own opinion, and apparently your girlfriend dosnt respect her friends opinion cause she is still with you. so let her feel the way she does and you do the same. and dont be so paranoid, if the friend bad talks you with your girl, feel confident enough that her opinion dosnt count. and youre not in a relationship with her.
2006-09-21 08:42:24 · answer #4 · answered by blondie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't do anything but deal with it. You can't ask your girlfriend to choose between her friend and you. That'll only make your girlfriend uncomfortable, and you don't want that.
Tough situation to be in, I hope it works out for you
2006-09-21 08:41:59 · answer #5 · answered by bad_dog76 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to be nice. But if you cant then dont. You shouldnt have to change your mind because you dont like ur gf's friend. Just try to get along
2006-09-21 08:42:49 · answer #6 · answered by kristie69420 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she probalt knows you will dick her down if she gives you the chance. you know your a player..some chicks can see it.....she is just looking out for her girlfriend.just like your dawgs would let you know if your girl was a trilfiling hefer. Roll with it.you ain't dating her so let her stay mad.get her a boyfriend.
2006-09-21 08:41:35 · answer #7 · answered by answering 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be a gd bf and be gracious to her friend. let ur galfren judge for herself. it's also a test of her love and trust in u.
take things in ur stride.
2006-09-21 08:40:52 · answer #8 · answered by phy19050 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the friend probably fancies you, just live with it and take every opportunity to (sneakily) put her down, mkae her look petty and bad etc..
2006-09-21 08:40:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dont include her in your next few outings, maybe she will get the hint..
2006-09-21 08:39:45 · answer #10 · answered by handy Andy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋