I had pretty,sweet woman, maybe a bit young for me, but she really loved me and showed it many ways.She had a habit of lying to many people, but in our relationship she was fathful and caring, available in many ways. I felt lucky, happy, until I did my usual thing in relationships: got bored, started to take it for granted, going out and flirting occassionally. I left for 6 weeks on business and she had an affair. I returned, over-reacted. She lost friends from her behavior, felt alone, so she left the area and found work in a large city 8 hours away. After a month she returned to get personal items from her mom's home, and I contacted her. We met for 3 evenings, she was hesitant but open to me, we made love each evening.Tomorrow she leaves, possibly to never return,says she is happy and busy in her new life, that she just wants to get established, get own place, doesn't want any guys.Tonight we meet.What can I say to win her love and trust. I would move there gladly if she accepts.??
2006-09-21 01:41:15 · 4 answers · asked by Nick N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think she still loves you..ask her
2006-09-21 01:45:44 · answer #1 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm really glad to hear that at least you understand that it was your fault and now want her back. This is a good thing. Well she has to accept her mistakes too. What she did was wrong and she has to admit her responsibilities and mistakes and apologize for that.
I think that she still loves you. She met you and made love with you, so I think that even though she says that she doesn't want any guy in her life now, she needs smb. Unless she has already found smb else and wants you out of her life.
I think that you should just tell her the truth: I mean, tell her what you think about your relationship, talk about your mistakes, her mistakes (don't quarrel), tell her about your plans...to go there and live with her, etc...
If she doesn't accept, tell her to think over it calmly and give her some time...maybe 2-3 weeks. If the answer is still negative, give up. She doesn't want you back an you have to move on!
Best of luck
2006-09-21 08:52:19 · answer #2 · answered by atrabel 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her how you feel.....
u know the age old saying
let them go if they love you they will return..if they dont they were never yours...
let her know see what happens
2006-09-21 08:46:12 · answer #3 · answered by tinkerbell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sucks
2006-09-21 08:43:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋