i have been talking to this guy whom i knew during college days over msn for a year or so. we didnt really know each other during college days, mere acquaintance..
we are both shy persons, and we chat practically everyday for hours. we talk abt daily routines, confide in e/o, share plans, future, and dreams.. yet i am unsure if he has feelings. our future plans do not converge as we are in different locations, and do not foresee any possibility of moving. also, we are of diff religions..
also, we have met up a few mths ago after 2 yrs i left college and had few days of fun together.
Yet, what does he really want? i really dont know.
Guys and girls, feel free to advise me, what u all think abt this. i am really tired of guessing. :(
2006-09-21 02:05:50 · 7 answers · asked by teddie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
p/s: he has no experience in relationships all these 20+ yrs.
2006-09-21 02:11:43 · update #1
and also.. i prefer not to make the 1st move by asking him... :0(
2006-09-21 02:12:59 · update #2
No, he has no feelings at all
2006-09-21 02:08:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I suggest is that you should drop some hints to the guy and see how he react. No matter how shy is a guy, when he like somebody he will have some reaction when he seen the hints.
Practically you must also be mentally prepared just in case he just treated you as a close friend.
If the guy really like you, what I suggest is that let the relationship carry on until a stage then both of you really need to discuss about your future coz both of you stay in different location and have different religion and this sort matter need to iron out before all other things can take place.
If he have no feeling for you, then life will be as usual for you. All the best to you
2006-09-21 04:57:10 · answer #2 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should stop trying to guess and have fun with him as a friend. however on the other hand, you said that he is shy. maybe you should just ask him how he feels. the worst thing he is going to say is no and you continue on as friends.
2006-09-21 02:10:24 · answer #3 · answered by blondie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you type thru computer and your shy in person then just type how you feel if your tired of guessin how he does maybe that will break the ice
2006-09-21 02:09:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you know about your feelings?
If so, ask him about his.
2006-09-21 02:09:23 · answer #5 · answered by justbu40 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea sure,
what don't trust me, ask him then
2006-09-21 02:08:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him then....
2006-09-21 02:08:08 · answer #7 · answered by mizsinister 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋