I been talking to a lot of women lately and they state that when a guys is indecisive, that turns them off. Now I always thought that compromise in a relationship was good. I mean I thought it was normal to sacrfice for your other once in a while t o show you care and to ask what she wants to do also . thus my question above folks above. ALL OPINIONS ARE WELCOMED
2006-09-21 01:50:21 · 22 answers · asked by Arthur D 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think it shows weakness it shows respect and that you think of her as equal and not like someone you have to make all the decisions for
2006-09-21 01:53:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I definitely don't think it shows weakness if you ask your lady what she would like to do. It's the kind, courteous thing to do. A man being indecisive all of the time is a turn off...like when planning on doing something or going somewhere and he says "oh, its up to you" " I don't care" "you decide"...that gets very old very fast if that's what he is answering with most everytime. But compromising, taking her opinion into account and actually asking her what she would like is perfectly fine and in my eyes, an excellent thing to do.
2006-09-21 01:54:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, of course not, this shows you have respect, you are not controlling and have some compassion and want to have an open mind to do things she likes as well, it is not a weakness and don't let men who don't have a clue make you feel that way!
This is nice thoughtful and a bit romantic. Sometimes my husband and I can't decide on what to do or where to go out to eat at b/c I am leaving it up to him and he is leaving it up to me, it is kinda fun sometimes he gets irritated but we are also limited b/c we live in a very small town if there were more to do in our area we probably would have more options and he'd be less irritated - LOL (he only gets this way only when he's really hungery and we're driving around wasting more time)...
2006-09-21 02:11:06 · answer #3 · answered by sophia_of_light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because a man wants input from a woman on what she would like to do doesnt mean he is indecisive. I agree that when both people decide together what to do for the evening or whatever it is much better. Makes for a better relationship.
2006-09-21 01:54:31 · answer #4 · answered by Val 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 09:27:54 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Compromise is a good trait in a relationship but it is also good to show your ability to make decisions to a woman to whom you are dating in a relationship. Women like to please their man by allowing him to take charge in simple decision making such as where to go...when and other things. Compromise comes to play when a decision comes into play based on both party's input. Sometimes a woman relies on a man making decisions because she does not know his finances or schedule...either of which she may adapt to. So take the lead without being overbearing...she will appreciate you more.
2006-09-21 02:00:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way it shows weakness. Compromise is good in a relationship. I would think your lady would like you asking her opinion.
2006-09-21 01:57:32 · answer #7 · answered by bad_dog76 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely not a sign of weakness. You're being considerate of her feelings and she'll respect that. A relationship is about compromise so it's good to do things that you both want to do.
2006-09-21 01:54:41 · answer #8 · answered by sunssecret 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
relationships are as complicated as the people in it!
Most women now days are pretty strong of mind and will and body.
as a kinda old fashioned girl and a married-4-16yrs-one
I find i just let my mr know what i want to do and when i'd like to do it, altho i do plan ahead for most things.
you are correct, compromise is very important. But you just cannot generalize women these days!! lol
good luck on your fact finding mission
2006-09-21 01:54:21 · answer #9 · answered by koleebear 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, don't ever think that way. Personally, it always feels good when my hubby asks me what i want, whats my opinion or views and other things. Always bear in mind that doing this is a very sensitive way of telling your lady that "you're opinion matters to me". Don't let others change that in you. That is a very good attitude for a man to possess. Keep it up!
2006-09-21 01:57:42 · answer #10 · answered by Bartypurple lass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋