think i might be pregnant?

Question

but i also think my partner is cheating

Answer 1

I think your a Moron first off and second your stupid. Wake up child and breathe...your in the USA remember!

Answer 2

Ouch. That hurts. I know this is an upsetting time for you because you feel as if you are caught between a rock and a hard place. However, before you get all upset, you really should take a test to see if you are or not. Most drug stores sell kits that have two tests in them, so if you aren't comfortable with the first outcome, wait two days and do the second one. If you even HALF believe that there was a line there, contact your doctor immediatly so that they can confirm it with the blood test. When all is said and done, and you get a yes or a no, you have to decide what to do from there. Research all of your options, go with what your heart and gut are telling you, regarding the guy and the possible baby. God gave you that instinct because He knew you could handle it, He knew all women could handle it. Make sure that you don't go through this alone, but also make sure that whoever you choose to go through it with you is someone you trust. Someone who will understand you whatever your decision may be, unconditionally. If he is cheating, and if you are suspecting it, you are probably right, you need to let him know that you know, confront him, and see where it goes. You didn't really give too much info, so I am not sure how long you have been together, if this is something that has happened before (him cheating) how old you are (or he is) there are just so many factors. There are places that can help. And if you need someone to talk to, there are local chapters of planned parenthood all over the US. Just know that you aren't alone :) Someone is watching over you no matter how alone it may seem at any time. Research online, go with your instincts, and know that whatever you choose, it comes down to it having to be right for you and your life too. Your happiness counts. Good luck and God bless.

Answer 3

i think you should make sure if you are or not first. then if you are, you need to decide whether you would like to bring up a child on your own or try trusting your partner, with respect in my experience, will NOT work, (as you think he is cheating now), or you have a termination.

if you are young and have not got a lot of security, ie, money and falt and job, then i would say dont have it. only because why let the baby suffer, a child is a BIG thing, not a toy to keep hold of someone or to make you feel better, not saying thats what your doing, just saying that that is what a lot of girls out here are doing these days, but do what you THINK IS BEST. you know in your hearts of hearts what you NEED to do. what you want to do is not always necessarily the best option.

plus, if you think he is cheating on you, then he aint worth it, he will only pass these habits on to your son if it is a boy or he might simply fu*k off and never come back, which results in your baby dealing with rejection and asking him/herself why did daddy leave me. didnt he love me. i dont think i could be able to watch my child go through that pain. there are SO MANY things you have to think about before you decide your answer. but one that should be already answered for you is to leave your wasteman behind and start a fresh with someone who REALLY appreciates you. hell girl there are few, so hurry and get one. im still looking.

gudluck.xx

Answer 4

That really sucks, I'm sorry to hear that you think you are being cheated on by the same person that may have gotten you pregnant. I'm not sure what your question is though? I would go out and try a couple different brands of pregnancy tests to check and see if you are pregnant. If you still think you are pregnant and they say you aren't, you can try again in a couple more weeks.

Good luck to you,
~Kyle

Answer 5

So you need to talk to him ... presumably he's the father? So he will need to face up to his responsibilities and give you all the support you need. If he's not prepared to do that, then you should end the relationship and consider your alternatives for the unborn child.

I'm not suggesting go straight to the clinic and demand a termination but if you think you can't handle a baby and a job without help, then that may be the best solution.

My commiserations, congratulations and best wishes for your future whatever you decide.

Answer 6

you need to find out if you are pregnant first, if your partner is cheating this wont help, find out what he wants and decide what you want to do, a baby can make or break a relationship but dont be scared of going it alone, single mums make great parents. good luck.

Answer 7

If your period isn't late but you should be getting it within the next few days take a first response test. If you're already late any kind will do. Take care of that first and then deal with the cheating.

Answer 8

Why do people give themselves to people they hav'nt even got to know? He can walk away, you're left holding the baby, literally. Get rid of the loser, the other problem might not be so easy, only you can decide what to do about that, this is your life but if you choose a termination then please learn by your mistake, respect yourself or no one else will.

Answer 9

Go buy a pregnancy test. Clear Blue Easy is one of the more sensitive ones. Get the results and go from there.

Answer 10

get a test done.......regardless of him cheating, he has the right to know if you are pregnant, then you can make up your own mind what you want to do with him, dont keep him because you are pregnant, because that will not work....find out your own way...dont lisen to others who may be filling your head with crap...do your own detective work, then you'll know in your mind what you are going to do...good luck with your test and your decisions

Answer 11

First thing to do is to confirm that you are pregnant. get to your local family planning clinic or drop into a brook this afternoon they can do a test there and then. Then if you are or even if your not confront your boyfriend. Dont leave it to stew!